There are a lot of questions about penalty points assigned to various conviction. They are explained in
Division 28 MVAR. All you need is the section of the MVA that you are interested in and you can look it up on the tables in this Division.
You don't receive points for bylaw offences.
Information from ICBC about penalty points. This link no longer includes advice about turning in your licence in place of paying for points.
This link covers that topic now.
Link to criteria used by the Superintendent in deciding on prohibition.