Speak it Out

[Badhobz]

Originally Posted by Gerbs

In a high cost of living city, you're need $120-300K single income to provide. A girl who expects a full provider likes "nicer" things as well. If these guys are in the top 1-9% of income that means there's < 5-15,000 of them in the lower mainland between 25-39.


I think most men are going red-pill because
- They feel invisible, get shamed and laughed at
- 10-30% salary isn't as glorified as it used to be
- Average is shamed
- Unrealistic expectations from women
- Lack of third space to meet women
- We're becoming socially retarded due to social media

On the other hand, women have a complete mismatch on the value they bring vs the guy they can realistically secure long-term. For every successful tall dude they sleep with, it warps their reality of who they "deserve"

It's tough out there, but imo it's the easiest as it's ever been to be a good catch, seems like all the men have given up

Dating is stupid. Whores are where it’s at. Money spent for services provided is my idyllic vision of my divorce life

[Gerbs]

We were having a debate if paid hand-jobs was considered cheating for their gf/wives. Surprisingly some girls said no but they're more eastern background.

[Traum]

What about unpaid ones then?

[Gerbs]

haram!!

[mikemhg]

Originally Posted by Badhobz

Dating is stupid. Whores are where it’s at. Money spent for services provided is my idyllic vision of my divorce life

I have a best friend that fully subscribes to this idea.

[68style]

I don't think I have the personality to pull that lifestyle off, I get too lonely in my own mind without companionship at a deeper level, but I totally understand if someone has a strong will/mind of their own how that makes complete sense. Like, I would hasten to say good for them, smartest move ever especially from a financial perspective if you can avoid getting stuck on a manipulative one or something.

[donk.]

There is nothing more unattractive than a wonan expecting her shit to be paid for on a regular basis

Better be getting some dick suck for free dinner at minimum.

[Gerbs]

Originally Posted by donk.

Better be getting some dick suck for free dinner at minimum.

Cheaper than escorts, while top down in the vette

[Badhobz]

I don’t know about you guys but I’ve had some pretty lame lays in my heydays.

Either too aggressive or too passive or too loud or not loud enough. This is why a professional would be good. You want something done right, call in an expert. I rather pay money for a good fucking then to waste money with these bitches that only sucked a few random dick from incels that blew their load in 2 seconds.

[mikemhg]

I've done the hooker stuff numerous times in my life on trips abroad, something about the "papi leche" thing doesn't do it for me

As for dating, I'm more into the chase, the hunting part, getting them to want you.

Often times the actual ending isn't even worth it, in that the squeeze is better than the actual juice.

[Gerbs]

Originally Posted by Badhobz

I don’t know about you guys but I’ve had some pretty lame lays in my heydays.

Either too aggressive or too passive or too loud or not loud enough. This is why a professional would be good. You want something done right, call in an expert. I rather pay money for a good fucking then to waste money with these bitches that only sucked a few random dick from incels that blew their load in 2 seconds.

I've had many great experiences that a paid hooker wouldn't make it as enjoyable. Maybe 70% of the experience.


Similar to what Mike said, the hunt made it 10x more enjoyable, especially if you knew everyone finds them attractive too.

[Badhobz]

I think when i was younger that was my mentality too. But now im an old piece of shit, I just wanna do what I wanna do and give zero fucks about the cunt…. Eruhhh cunt. I mean hunt.

When I was in Germany I’ve seen soooooo many gorgeous blondes ready for fucking at reaperbahm and literally 150’euros buys you an hour that’ll satisfy all your needs for a month. Like why spend hundreds on doing this pointless dance of dating when in reality who gives a rats ass. I don’t wanna know your name even, I don’t give a fuck what you do. I just wanna screw you in the ass.

It almost seems worse to lead the bitches on and make them think there’s something there.

[FOREVER]

@Euro7r, I'll trade my condo + cash for your house LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL /semisrs


Why are job evaluations/self reflections so hard to fill out sometimes I don't know what I do, but I make things happen

[Euro7r]

Originally Posted by FOREVER

@Euro7r, I'll trade my condo + cash for your house LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL /semisrs


Why are job evaluations/self reflections so hard to fill out sometimes I don't know what I do, but I make things happen

You don't wanna a house if you ain't got cash to get people to do the shit or handy yourself. Too much work and energy, trying to balance that out with the rest of the other shit you got going on every day, it's just a combo for train wreck. Been there and done that recently, so I try to advise people caution to get into a house. Luckily 95% of my friend's can't afford a house, so condo life is good (and I'm happy for them as I see them happier than me). Grass ain't always greener on the other side. Pros & Cons to each, can't have everything.

[EvoFire]

Originally Posted by Badhobz

I don’t know about you guys but I’ve had some pretty lame lays in my heydays.

Either too aggressive or too passive or too loud or not loud enough. This is why a professional would be good. You want something done right, call in an expert. I rather pay money for a good fucking then to waste money with these bitches that only sucked a few random dick from incels that blew their load in 2 seconds.

I've had one night stands before and honestly it just fulfills the immediate physical needs, but it does nothing for my emotional/mental needs. I would treat paying for a hooker as the same thing.

And unless there's some review site for hookers, you won't know what you are getting. They can just as likely be too loud/too quiet, too aggressive or too passive. There's no like certification course for this, "Hi I'm red seal certified prostitute. Here's my resume and I've banged 600 guys in the last 3 years, experienced in BDSM, roleplay, 3somes...."

Originally Posted by Gerbs

We were having a debate if paid hand-jobs was considered cheating for their gf/wives. Surprisingly some girls said no but they're more eastern background.

When my wife and I were talking about her ex, this particular thing came up. Apparently he loves blow jobs and my wife is not a fan of it. She's like you can go pay to get a blow job, but don't touch me afterwards.

[donk.]

Originally Posted by EvoFire

When my wife and I were talking about her ex, this particular thing came up. Apparently he loves blow jobs and my wife is not a fan of it. She's like you can go pay to get a blow job, but don't touch me afterwards.

:O wow.
Cant blame him, if she dont swallow she aint partner material. Im not sure if its better or worse that his GF allows him to blow his load in some other piehole.

Originally Posted by EvoFire

And unless there's some review site for hookers, you won't know what you are getting. They can just as likely be too loud/too quiet, too aggressive or too passive. There's no like certification course for this,

They wownt show you their certificate, but your own doctor will a few days later lol....

[donk.]

I send a few of my buddies this cheating/dick suck/dumpster fire above and one guy said (this was a burnaby firehall discussion lol)

If you sucked your own dick, would it feel like sucking dick or would it feel like you’re getting your dick sucked

[CivicBlues]

Originally Posted by EvoFire

When my wife and I were talking about her ex, this particular thing came up. Apparently he loves blow jobs and my wife is not a fan of it. She's like you can go pay to get a blow job, but don't touch me afterwards.

Damn man that sucks...no pun intended. But err...free pass win?

If she ain't hawk tuah, I ain't gonna talk tuah

[Badhobz]

Originally Posted by EvoFire

I've had one night stands before and honestly it just fulfills the immediate physical needs, but it does nothing for my emotional/mental needs. I would treat paying for a hooker as the same thing.

And unless there's some review site for hookers, you won't know what you are getting. They can just as likely be too loud/too quiet, too aggressive or too passive. There's no like certification course for this, "Hi I'm red seal certified prostitute. Here's my resume and I've banged 600 guys in the last 3 years, experienced in BDSM, roleplay, 3somes...."



When my wife and I were talking about her ex, this particular thing came up. Apparently he loves blow jobs and my wife is not a fan of it. She's like you can go pay to get a blow job, but don't touch me afterwards.

Emotional and mental stimulation is what I don’t want. I’m perfectly satisfied in my own head and i think anything else is just pointless bonding with some bitch that I will ultimately find annoying.

And there are plenty of hoe ranking sites that ranks brothels and services in Europe. I don’t know what they are here but in Germany it’s as normal as going to get your oil changed.

Europe is so liberating. Not the bible thumping crap of North America.

[Traum]

Well... one major difference is, both prostitution and running brothels are legal in Germany and Netherlands. But here in Canada, while sex work is legal, running brothels isn't.

[EvoFire]

Originally Posted by Badhobz

Emotional and mental stimulation is what I don’t want. I’m perfectly satisfied in my own head and i think anything else is just pointless bonding with some bitch that I will ultimately find annoying.

And there are plenty of hoe ranking sites that ranks brothels and services in Europe. I don’t know what they are here but in Germany it’s as normal as going to get your oil changed.

Europe is so liberating. Not the bible thumping crap of North America.

You are literally getting your pipes cleaned

[AstulzerRZD]

IMO it's way easier for a girl to socialize, climb, and break into new circles so the #1 quality I look for in most girls is their ability to empathize and connect with others.

[68style]

^ Truth. Being with a chick who has zero empathy sucksssss, very underrated quality.

[AstulzerRZD]

Originally Posted by 68style

^ Truth. Being with a chick who has zero empathy sucksssss, very underrated quality.

+ the ability to be socially aware enough to have an engaging conversation that makes us feel good about inviting someone to something or get invited

power couple in my eyes is being able to figure out the most interesting people in every room and hang out with em again

imo if the girl isn't able to do this, what am I investing my own energy / time / resources for?

[Ulic Qel-Droma]

yo what the fuck, I visit this thread every 6-12 months, and for decades it was just losers whining about their gf's...

now it's a full on discussion weighing the pros and cons of hookers... HAHAHA...