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09-30-2008, 09:16 AM
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Originally Posted by Inaii  Hahahaha.... you're totally still into fucking me. That's awesome!! that's all I want from you! | Uh. Big mistake.
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09-30-2008, 10:07 AM
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#377 | | My name is Michael. J. Caboose, and I hate BABIES!
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Originally Posted by Marco911 Uh. Big mistake. | Hmm? why big mistake?
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09-30-2008, 10:44 AM
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Originally Posted by Inaii Hmm? why big mistake? | Because that's what leads women on.
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09-30-2008, 12:01 PM
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Originally Posted by Inaii Hmm? why big mistake? | Because by your reaction, you're clearly not over him. And that is not how ladies treat the situation darling. 
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09-30-2008, 05:07 PM
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yeahhhhhhhhhhhh finally my b-day tmr
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>_> my friends can finally stop making fun of my age =]
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09-30-2008, 05:19 PM
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#381 | | My name is Michael. J. Caboose, and I hate BABIES!
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Originally Posted by Girl Because by your reaction, you're clearly not over him. And that is not how ladies treat the situation darling. | =o who's been walking around calling me a lady again??
The thing is, all our relationship was sex. I thought about it for a long time after the coffee meet, and really, how could I miss anything else if it was never there? I miss the sex. That's it.
Edit: I still want to know Marco's reason though!
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Originally Posted by STATUS105 IF I FIND YOU
I WILL EAT YOUR RICE! |
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09-30-2008, 08:50 PM
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Originally Posted by LC21 Haha did he have his msn nick name in chinese or some other language?
=P i have a strong feeling it's in some honger chinese. | lol! yea it was some honger lyrics stf haha
but whatever, i shouldnt even care
but well be drinking together this
weekend since its our mutual friends birthday
but yea, hope i dont make a fool outa myself haha
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09-30-2008, 09:59 PM
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Originally Posted by Inaii =o who's been walking around calling me a lady again??
The thing is, all our relationship was sex. I thought about it for a long time after the coffee meet, and really, how could I miss anything else if it was never there? I miss the sex. That's it.
Edit: I still want to know Marco's reason though! | No buddy! That's not the point. You had feelings for him. You still do. Yes maybe your relationship was solely based on sexual activity, but if the word girlfriend/boyfriend was thrown around, it's more then just a "sex-based" relationship. Pure sex based relationships are you two call up eachother when you're bored or horny, you fuck, anywhere, anytime. There's no snuggling, there's no talks about eachothers emotions or weekends, or childhood. Just sex.
Friendly/Game play sex-based relationships are still sex, but you guys might chat about the weather, you guys might hang out, you guys might tell gossip about other friends or family. But you NEVER speak of your emotions or moving forward. Going out doesn't require holding hands, it might include sexual innuendos and slight teasing if in public, but never anything that suggest you guys are a couple.
You my dear, were in a relationship where you talked about your feelings, he will call if you are sick and you and him talk about how you miss one another, even now.
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10-01-2008, 11:59 AM
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What Girl said, except I don't really agree that there is no affection or intimacy in a 'fuck-buddy' relationship. It's an understanding that for whatever reason, a fuck-buddy relationship will not become a monogamous partner-based relationship.
It is pretty clear that you still miss him and you are still feeling some emotional pain since the "break-up." Like a drug, seeing him makes you happy, and for the moment takes the pain away. You also think that there is a chance that he might see something in you that he totally missed the first time around and then give you what you want - a real relationship. I'm here to tell you, it rarely works that way! You're going to get even more hurt when he leaves you for someone else.
Best thing you can do is learn from the mistakes you made in past relationships, keep working on improving yourself and leave that sucker behind. The less contact you have with him, the easier it all becomes. You said yourself that you thought you were doing fine until you spoke to him on the phone again....see how this works?
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10-01-2008, 12:37 PM
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#385 | | My name is Michael. J. Caboose, and I hate BABIES!
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Hmmm, okay. I see both your points. Can I say I was high that night and just brush it off? haha. Guess not, ya?
Funny thing is, I don't think I made any mistakes (well okay, other than being a girl and letting my emotions run away with me -- thanks for that). But I certainly did learn that some guys just shouldn't be in relationships. Given how easily I toss the word love around, I'm surprised that scared him really.
Thanks guys, I'll take the advice to heart and find someone else to play with =)
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I WILL EAT YOUR RICE! | | |
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10-01-2008, 03:44 PM
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Originally Posted by Marco911 What Girl said, except I don't really agree that there is no affection or intimacy in a 'fuck-buddy' relationship. It's an understanding that for whatever reason, a fuck-buddy relationship will not become a monogamous partner-based relationship. | There is intimacy and affection, but it would be played differently, the intimacy and affection would only last during the time when 2 people are about to engage in 1-on-1 time. I truly believe there's 2 types of fuck-buddies and it really just depends on the guy and the situation of the matter. If you were in more of a Friendly/Game play fuck buddy situation, there would probably be more affection and intimacy prior or after the actual sex part, but there are situations where 2 people just come together to have sex.
Other then that I agree 100% with what Marco says, you have to stop talking to him for a while Inaii and don't go jumping on the sex rebound train, you'll either do something regretful or you'll get your feelings hurt. He's the guy that left you the first time because he had "no-time." Then he tells you it was because he couldn't commit. I mean, stellar excuses, really.
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10-02-2008, 11:29 PM
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happy birthday.
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10-03-2008, 01:17 AM
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#388 | | My name is Michael. J. Caboose, and I hate BABIES!
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What the fuck.... seriously. Just what the fuck....
"You and I, truth and lies. I've been fooling myself too long. You and I, breaking ties. How could we be right and so wrong."
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Originally Posted by STATUS105 IF I FIND YOU
I WILL EAT YOUR RICE! | | |
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10-03-2008, 07:32 AM
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#389 | | OMGWTFBBQ is a common word I say everyday
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Originally Posted by siubo* lol! yea it was some honger lyrics stf haha
but whatever, i shouldnt even care
but well be drinking together this
weekend since its our mutual friends birthday
but yea, hope i dont make a fool outa myself haha | 事實係事實 愛情係現實...
If you can read that =P..
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10-03-2008, 12:30 PM
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Well since we're having such ethnic festivities in here, thought I'll share as well
我会轻轻在你耳边对你说(对你说)
I'll lean close to your ear, and gently say to you,
我爱你爱着你
"I love you, I'm loving you
就像 老鼠爱大米
Just like mice love rice. 
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10-03-2008, 03:15 PM
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#391 | | My name is Michael. J. Caboose, and I hate BABIES!
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Originally Posted by Girl Well since we're having such ethnic festivities in here, thought I'll share as well
我会轻轻在你耳边对你说(对你说)
I'll lean close to your ear, and gently say to you,
我爱你爱着你
"I love you, I'm loving you
就像 老鼠爱大米
Just like mice love rice. | Rofl. Wtf... that was not the ending I was expecting...
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I WILL EAT YOUR RICE! | | |
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10-03-2008, 04:35 PM
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Originally Posted by Inaii Rofl. Wtf... that was not the ending I was expecting... | What can I say? I'm a true poet at heart. That's how I get all my men, through my poetry and music.
Pink Floyd, Jason Mraz, some Marvin Gaye, a bit of Ne-Yo, the sultry voices of Alicia Keys and Leona Lewis, mix it in with some good ol' fashion Mice Love Rice music.
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10-03-2008, 07:06 PM
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#393 | | I don't get it
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FUCK OFF and stop randomly texting my friends asking if they are pissed off at you cause of me. All you are doing is causing drama and awkwardness and no one gives a shit about you anymore. I never told them to hate you nor did I make them choose sides so stop blaming it on me that they chose to stop keeping in touch with you.
Take some goddamn responsibility for your own actions for once in your life. Ever consider that they never liked your rude/condescending ways and only put up with you cause they knew you made me happy back then?! I cannot count the number of times that people told me they were glad when I told them we broke up cause they thought you were obnoxious.
I m finally happy and moving on and then I hear you are pulling this shit. I don't care how bad you treated me but do not mess with my friends. I never wanted to put them in the middle when we broke up so why the hell are you doing this now?!
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10-04-2008, 08:11 AM
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i text you while i'm working last night and you ask me to stop by. i stop by and visit you and your best friend for a bit. you ask the best friend what him and his gf are doing that night and invite me over to his house to hang out and watch a movie, i say sure. i have to head back to work because i'm off in 15 mins so i tell you to call or text me. i never heard from you at all last night. i'm not mad that we didn't hang out, i'm mad because you didn't have the courtesy to text me at least to say we weren't going to be hang out.
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10-04-2008, 11:29 PM
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珍惜一切 就算沒有擁有＃
=[ i hope i did that right
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sorry guys
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10-05-2008, 09:59 AM
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ok i guess i did make a fool outa myself
got drunk and was hugging u and holding ur hand
and saying stupid stuff
lately ive learned to stay back from u n i find myself feel better
n kept things cool n we get along great
but last night, i think u hav a pissed off look i dont know if its cause of me
i dont know if its weird between us again =[
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10-05-2008, 12:03 PM
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what the hell woman, you screwed me over a while back but I got over it and now we're finally hanging out again, I go out clubbing last night with you and some of our friends, including your ex bf who was tanked and we discover that when you had been dating him you had told him I hated him and told me that he hated me, but it was just a lie to keep us from being friends. what the hell. then you grab my hand and take me out to the dancefloor and keep taking my hand to get me to come with you when you go to the bar and back to the dancefloor and such. You have another bf now. if you're just being friendly then that's fine but if you're trying to fuck with my head again....... piss off.
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10-06-2008, 11:44 AM
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confusing......
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Too late I already found what I was looking for,
you know it wasn't here, no, it wasn't here...
I was calling your name, but you would never hear me sing,
you wouldn't let me begin, so I'm crawling away
cause you broke my heart in two, no, I will not forget you...
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10-06-2008, 06:16 PM
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#400 | | My name is Michael. J. Caboose, and I hate BABIES!
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I'm so utterly confused by you. I don't know what you want from me. You say one thing, do another. Mixed signals suck ass by the way.
I'm not sure where things stand anymore. You say you're confused. I don't want to back off, I've been enjoying myself thoroughly the last while, but if that's what you want, I will. Whatever you decide, like it or not, I'll abide by it. Even if I do totally still want to jump you.
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Originally Posted by STATUS105 IF I FIND YOU
I WILL EAT YOUR RICE! |
Last edited by Inaii; 10-07-2008 at 02:34 AM.
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