why does it have to be like this

I'm guessing you're answering ewongs post, I think you've misinterpreted his question. What he's saying is life isn't lala land, where you wait good will come. No, the more you wait the shittier your skills become with girls. Pretty much use it or lose it. I understand what you're saying, don't rush it and try and get to know her first. To me, that's what dates are for. But really, this day and age men do the picking (of the girl they want to be with) girls do the choosing (of whether or not she wishes to further pursue their relationship). Also, in my opinion jump the gun. Why waste time? Push the issue so you know where her interest level is in you. If she doesn't kiss you on the first night, she's probably not interested. I'm sure 99.99% of the girls would kiss Brad Pitt end of the night. Minus the fortunate and fame, they're all just large assets. If you don't jump the gun, or in my words not closing the deal then you're probably going to end up being her good ol' friend.

You can be the best sales guy in the world, deliver an okay presentation but regardless always be closing. ABC!!

I'm looking at it through your views (don't rush it) but I'm not understanding why? If she looks good in your standards, and you guys have a short small conversation and just click. Why not go for a date? Get that number.

The only thing I won't rush in on is wanting to call her right away, complimenting her like every other guy, and having the self control to not keep touching her. Even if it's the arm, I believe girls read all these little body languages.

I also disagree with the insecure part, if a guy goes out of his way and looks for all these girls at least he's got confidence in himself. 90% of the chumps let opportunity passby. If he's consistently getting rejected, then he's being stupid by not learning from his mistakes.
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Jesus that was a hard post using an iPhone. I would never be able to do that on a little smallass bb. But let me know what you think GS. I pretty much come on rs for the opinions, VOT is full of news which I can access in the province paper and stupid "rest in peace" nonsense.
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i really really hate psychopaths and asian women.

And even as I wander,
I'm keeping you in sight.
You're a candle in the wind,
On a cold, dark winter's night.
And I'm getting closer than I ever thought I might.

I am not ready to jump into anything serious yet, but when I am I hope you are still here.

lol you mad

no effort from you, means no more effort from me.

bitches aint shit but hoes and tricks!

everytime i fall asleep i dream about you... i dont wanna wake up anymore

woot! finally, some signs!

mayb you should go into limbo? get someone to perform inception on you

shit this sucks

hhaha some girl removed me off bbm because I wouldn't take her to celebs last night, and I didn't read her messege from the day before. LOL

reality check, BITCH:
1. your curly hair is nappy and oily ALL THE TIME....that shit aint luxurious...
2. your eyebrows grow upwards so it looks like you have skinny caterpillars living on your head
3. just cuz you hang out with all guys doesn't make you cool, especially when you tell lies that you're dating one, when you're really not and when he was asked about it he was really disgusted that we even heard that "rumor"
4. maybe you shouldn't put out for the customers and brag to your coworkers the next day, good idea yeah?
5. you've been a "bartender" for 6 years but you make a bartender who's only been working for a year write down ALL the shooters/highball/cocktail recipes that we serve in our bar...which you've been working in for like 3 months at least. are you fucking serious?!

stay classy, diablo monster!
i really really hate you. if i had a BB gun, you'd be the first i'd pew pew it at.

:lol:

Knew way to many girls like that.

im confused and lost.. why can;t it not be so complicated??.. tell me

Should I go for it or no?

go for it! u don't wanna regret anything

^
You go for it, I go for it.
Post results. (:

i didnt know love could be so simple . i'm loving it

Is this why we never talk anymore? Hmm I think I'm going to psychostalk message you right now.

so my girl is out with her employers (photographers to whom she's assisting) on some island with no power, no phone lines, and like 4 cars for a week. they're trying to get to know the locals so they can do a photoshoot for their yearly calendar (last years was in newfoundland and won a ton of awards for awesomeness). this involves a lot of schmoozing the locals and drinking at the pub (not a pub, THE only pub lol). i'm not weird worrying about her, being surrounded by a bunch of off-the-grid types that have had too much to drink? I already have enough trust issues as it is :s

my mistake was to agree before knowing what was going to happen. Now I just feel very stupid. But it's life I shouldn't regret... I try not to..
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your message is late.

Delayed, but it'll come. Nevermind you just came ;)