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08-16-2010, 09:47 PM
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#4326 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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why does it have to be like this
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08-17-2010, 06:13 AM
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#4327 | | Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?!
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Originally Posted by Graeme S  Because people who are ACTIVELY HUNTING FOR A GIRLFRIEND are more often than not massively insecure and/or dependent and require outside validation.
You are a person. She is a person. It is possible that you could get along individually or as a couple' Don't jump the gun, get to know her, do your thing, be self-confident and self-assured. If she doesn't like you it's because you aren't what she's looking for, not because you're horribly flawed and have to change and need to devote your whole life to something. | I'm guessing you're answering ewongs post, I think you've misinterpreted his question. What he's saying is life isn't lala land, where you wait good will come. No, the more you wait the shittier your skills become with girls. Pretty much use it or lose it. I understand what you're saying, don't rush it and try and get to know her first. To me, that's what dates are for. But really, this day and age men do the picking (of the girl they want to be with) girls do the choosing (of whether or not she wishes to further pursue their relationship). Also, in my opinion jump the gun. Why waste time? Push the issue so you know where her interest level is in you. If she doesn't kiss you on the first night, she's probably not interested. I'm sure 99.99% of the girls would kiss Brad Pitt end of the night. Minus the fortunate and fame, they're all just large assets. If you don't jump the gun, or in my words not closing the deal then you're probably going to end up being her good ol' friend.
You can be the best sales guy in the world, deliver an okay presentation but regardless always be closing. ABC!!
I'm looking at it through your views (don't rush it) but I'm not understanding why? If she looks good in your standards, and you guys have a short small conversation and just click. Why not go for a date? Get that number.
The only thing I won't rush in on is wanting to call her right away, complimenting her like every other guy, and having the self control to not keep touching her. Even if it's the arm, I believe girls read all these little body languages.
I also disagree with the insecure part, if a guy goes out of his way and looks for all these girls at least he's got confidence in himself. 90% of the chumps let opportunity passby. If he's consistently getting rejected, then he's being stupid by not learning from his mistakes. Posted via RS Mobile | |
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08-17-2010, 06:16 AM
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#4328 | | Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?!
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Jesus that was a hard post using an iPhone. I would never be able to do that on a little smallass bb. But let me know what you think GS. I pretty much come on rs for the opinions, VOT is full of news which I can access in the province paper and stupid "rest in peace" nonsense. Posted via RS Mobile
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08-17-2010, 10:19 PM
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#4329 | | Banned By Establishment
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i really really hate psychopaths and asian women.
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08-17-2010, 10:36 PM
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#4330 | | RS.net, helping ugly ppl have sex since 2001
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And even as I wander,
I'm keeping you in sight.
You're a candle in the wind,
On a cold, dark winter's night.
And I'm getting closer than I ever thought I might.
I am not ready to jump into anything serious yet, but when I am I hope you are still here.
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08-18-2010, 12:16 AM
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#4331 | | YOU CANT CUT BACK ON FUNDING! YOU WILL REGRET THIS
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lol you mad
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08-18-2010, 02:55 AM
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#4332 | | What hasn't Killed me, has made me more tolerant of RS!
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no effort from you, means no more effort from me.
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08-18-2010, 08:51 AM
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#4333 | | ESKETIT
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bitches aint shit but hoes and tricks!
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08-18-2010, 11:49 AM
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#4334 | | Need my Daily Fix of RS
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everytime i fall asleep i dream about you... i dont wanna wake up anymore
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08-18-2010, 11:54 AM
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#4335 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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woot! finally, some signs!
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08-18-2010, 04:31 PM
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#4336 | | Mod.
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Originally Posted by TheMatty everytime i fall asleep i dream about you... i dont wanna wake up anymore | mayb you should go into limbo? get someone to perform inception on you
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08-18-2010, 06:24 PM
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#4337 | | I Will not Admit my Addiction to RS
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shit this sucks
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08-18-2010, 08:02 PM
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#4338 | | Banned By Establishment
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hhaha some girl removed me off bbm because I wouldn't take her to celebs last night, and I didn't read her messege from the day before. LOL
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08-18-2010, 08:46 PM
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#4339 | | Proud to be called a RS Regular!
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reality check, BITCH:
1. your curly hair is nappy and oily ALL THE TIME....that shit aint luxurious...
2. your eyebrows grow upwards so it looks like you have skinny caterpillars living on your head
3. just cuz you hang out with all guys doesn't make you cool, especially when you tell lies that you're dating one, when you're really not and when he was asked about it he was really disgusted that we even heard that "rumor"
4. maybe you shouldn't put out for the customers and brag to your coworkers the next day, good idea yeah?
5. you've been a "bartender" for 6 years but you make a bartender who's only been working for a year write down ALL the shooters/highball/cocktail recipes that we serve in our bar...which you've been working in for like 3 months at least. are you fucking serious?!
stay classy, diablo monster!
i really really hate you. if i had a BB gun, you'd be the first i'd pew pew it at.
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08-18-2010, 09:35 PM
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#4340 | | Banned By Establishment
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Knew way to many girls like that.
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08-18-2010, 09:55 PM
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#4341 | | 14 dolla balla aint got nothing on me!
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im confused and lost.. why can;t it not be so complicated??.. tell me
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08-18-2010, 10:04 PM
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#4342 | | reads most threads with his pants around his ankles, especially in the Forced Induction forum.
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Should I go for it or no?
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08-18-2010, 11:04 PM
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#4343 | | Need my Daily Fix of RS
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go for it! u don't wanna regret anything
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08-18-2010, 11:05 PM
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#4344 | | Need my Daily Fix of RS
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You go for it, I go for it.
Post results. (:
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08-18-2010, 11:09 PM
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#4345 | | Banned (ABWS)
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i didnt know love could be so simple . i'm loving it
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08-19-2010, 01:48 AM
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#4346 | | Retired moderator
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Originally Posted by MajinHurricane i really really hate psychopaths and asian women. | Is this why we never talk anymore? Hmm I think I'm going to psychostalk message you right now.
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08-19-2010, 02:07 AM
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#4347 | | Even when im right, revscene.net is still right!
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so my girl is out with her employers (photographers to whom she's assisting) on some island with no power, no phone lines, and like 4 cars for a week. they're trying to get to know the locals so they can do a photoshoot for their yearly calendar (last years was in newfoundland and won a ton of awards for awesomeness). this involves a lot of schmoozing the locals and drinking at the pub (not a pub, THE only pub lol). i'm not weird worrying about her, being surrounded by a bunch of off-the-grid types that have had too much to drink? I already have enough trust issues as it is :s
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08-19-2010, 02:51 AM
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#4348 | | 14 dolla balla aint got nothing on me!
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my mistake was to agree before knowing what was going to happen. Now I just feel very stupid. But it's life I shouldn't regret... I try not to.. Posted via RS Mobile | |
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08-19-2010, 03:31 AM
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#4349 | | Banned By Establishment
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Originally Posted by Girl Is this why we never talk anymore? Hmm I think I'm going to psychostalk message you right now. | your message is late.
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08-19-2010, 12:20 PM
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#4350 | | Retired moderator
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Originally Posted by MajinHurricane your message is late. | Delayed, but it'll come. Nevermind you just came 
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