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unperfection 02-24-2011 11:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kchan (Post 7315802)
‎"Sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is, it's not our loss, but theirs, for they left the only person who couldn't give up on them."

That's a really sweet and nice way of looking at it. But it kind of makes you wonder...why did you stick around for so long when the other person wouldn't do the same for you? That being said...if I could go back in time, I probably still wouldn't change anything.

Meowjin 02-25-2011 01:29 AM


hyek 02-25-2011 02:50 AM

your looking great...
i miss you

jonwon 02-25-2011 03:52 AM

:fuuuuu:

haymura 02-25-2011 10:17 AM

"I walk a lonely road. Better to forgive & forget and move on rather than dwell on memories. "

PJ 02-25-2011 11:28 AM

Sometimes, you just gotta

xmisstrinh 02-25-2011 10:18 PM

no matter how hot you are, when you can't spell, you're just another dumb ass

BeeBeeAhn 02-25-2011 10:51 PM

Parents taking my bf and i out to dinner tomorrow night. King crab and sharkfin soup..my parents confuse the shit outta me sometimes. Here I was thinking that they're ready to murder him.

wait...maybe they'll poison his food.

=/

skyxx 02-25-2011 11:03 PM

^ They want grand kids.....if you don't then they'll murder him.

BeeBeeAhn 02-26-2011 12:44 AM

^ yea i overheard my mum telling her best friend 'at least halfer kids are adorable' hahahaha

skyxx 02-26-2011 12:58 AM

^ The dinner is the seal of approval. So better start producing....

!e.lo_ 02-26-2011 03:58 AM

"Good things come to those who wait."

"Nothing worth having comes easy."

So question is, should I wait patiently on the sidelines while she does her thing...
"we" are a "maybe" and our future is unclear.

PK-EK 02-26-2011 09:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CamryV6Sport (Post 7316119)
ah fuck you had to come back and comment on my wall eh? When i just got over you. Great. Im not even going to reply not cuz im a fag but you gotta know when its really over between us
Posted via RS Mobile

she could be fucking with you;
you have 2 options..
-take the risk, go back to her be prepaired to be broken again. but if you are really really lucky, you might have a shot
-do what you are doing; just ignore her, she will probably fuck you up
play on the safe side or take a risk.
do you think its worth it?
its your call
Quote:

Originally Posted by RainyBM (Post 7316248)
Regret that I didn't talk to you more at the party. I just made it more difficult for myself... Now I have to go through several obstacles just to see you again. Don't know if it's worth the trouble. "Age is but a number", but 4 years difference? What am I turning into....

If you really want something, it doesn't matter how many obstacles are in the way. If she really means something to you; they shouldn't look like obstacles to you.
Age is not a factor. and 4 years isn't that great of a deal.
maybe you are looking at maturity level; not age.

PK-EK 02-26-2011 09:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by haymura (Post 7319029)
"I walk a lonely road. Better to forgive & forget and move on rather than dwell on memories. "

Thank you, I needed this!

Quote:

Originally Posted by !e.lo_ (Post 7320007)
"Good things come to those who wait."

"Nothing worth having comes easy."

So question is, should I wait patiently on the sidelines while she does her thing...
"we" are a "maybe" and our future is unclear.

what really amazed me is how well this worked out for me.
I waited, I never gave up; and I got a result that I could only really imagine in my dreams.
but i'm not sure if it works with everyone.
maybe I was lucky.
Just determine when waiting becomes too long and you are missing other opportunities.
Maybe you just need something to tell you to hold on a little longer.
a little spark.

!e.lo_ 02-26-2011 11:16 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PK-EK (Post 7320115)
what really amazed me is how well this worked out for me.
I waited, I never gave up; and I got a result that I could only really imagine in my dreams.
but i'm not sure if it works with everyone.
maybe I was lucky.
Just determine when waiting becomes too long and you are missing other opportunities.
Maybe you just need something to tell you to hold on a little longer.
a little spark.

The problem is she's so damn unresponsive.
So she left her phone at your friends. That's fine. Doesn't explain why we talk over msn and facebook and she is still difficult to have a discussion with.
It was not like this the previous four weeks.

Sometimes I just feel that, I was MEANT to be alone. Sounds horrible, but I seem to be the type of person who unintentionally sabotages his own happiness when in a relationship. My close friends have always told me that I appear happier and an individual.

Oh great, she messaged me on facebook AND msg...

PK-EK 02-26-2011 11:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by !e.lo_ (Post 7320237)
The problem is she's so damn unresponsive.
So she left her phone at your friends. That's fine. Doesn't explain why we talk over msn and facebook and she is still difficult to have a discussion with.
It was not like this the previous four weeks.

Sometimes I just feel that, I was MEANT to be alone. Sounds horrible, but I seem to be the type of person who unintentionally sabotages his own happiness when in a relationship. My close friends have always told me that I appear happier and an individual.

Oh great, she messaged me on facebook AND msg...

Unresponsive - LOL
same with me... she doesn't even hug me back when I hug her... she just stands there... yet she doesn't push me away.
Doesn't tell me how she feels about me or shows me in any way. yet she writes about me in her bog; and checks my blog everyday....

I feel your pain!
I hope you have a better outcome then what I had.
curently we have not talked in 2 months... yet we still check eachothers blog every day... FML


you might think of yourself as best to be alone... but have you ever even tried to be in with someone? someone that was really worth it; someone special? maybe your way of thinking will change if you actually had something good.

someones you just gotta be a little more pushy...... and blunt...
girls like that... ????? maybe
lol
Good luck!

!e.lo_ 02-26-2011 12:02 PM

Oh man, I hate when they don't give the "yes" or "no" but instead it's and "ummm...."
wtf is that shit? seriously?
mind games suck!

So she checks your blog, daily. From a quick glance, she's still got feelings... but scared?
Can never tell. Have to ask, but all you'll get is an "I don't know..." :fuuuuu:

Being alone is easy. Heart stays intact, never worry about what "she" thinks.
I've been hurt many times before, so letting somebody into my heart isn't an easy thing.... and with this latest situation, I feel like locking my heart back up for another two years or more...

BaoTurbo 02-26-2011 01:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by !e.lo_ (Post 7320237)
The problem is she's so damn unresponsive.
So she left her phone at your friends. That's fine. Doesn't explain why we talk over msn and facebook and she is still difficult to have a discussion with.
It was not like this the previous four weeks.

Sometimes I just feel that, I was MEANT to be alone. Sounds horrible, but I seem to be the type of person who unintentionally sabotages his own happiness when in a relationship. My close friends have always told me that I appear happier and an individual.

Oh great, she messaged me on facebook AND msg...

thats what i think too. but she messaged you at least which means there is a little SOMETHING

tiger_handheld 02-26-2011 05:26 PM

rich with little family life
or
working class with a good of family life


whats more important?

Meowjin 02-26-2011 06:18 PM

working class with good of family life.

depends actually.

Is she rich with no family life but you have a big family? if so she can join your family.

It depends on your situation.

!Yaminashi 02-26-2011 07:17 PM

Working class but good family life is more important to me than having tons of cash but having little to no family life

Bitter 02-26-2011 08:15 PM

in tears...

BeeBeeAhn 02-26-2011 09:16 PM

annnnd my parents like him.

gahhh that was nervewracking.

also, my bf ate 3/4 of all the food we had tonight. my mum was impressed.

Ulic Qel-Droma 02-26-2011 09:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MajinHurricane (Post 7320704)
working class with good of family life.

depends actually.

Is she rich with no family life but you have a big family? if so she can join your family.

It depends on your situation.

Rich. Cuz you can teach family life. You can't teach rich. Well it's a lot harder.
Posted via RS Mobile

PK-EK 02-26-2011 10:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tiger_handheld (Post 7320620)
rich with little family life
or
working class with a good of family life


whats more important?

Family over Money....

Quote:

Originally Posted by MajinHurricane (Post 7320704)
.....

Is she rich with no family life but you have a big family? if so she can join your family.
......

ahahaha
this is what I want..
shes from a rich family; and I really want her to have that warm feeling of family one day.
Quote:

Originally Posted by Bitter (Post 7320852)
in tears...

awwww
what happened?

Quote:

Originally Posted by BeeBeeAhn (Post 7320933)
annnnd my parents like him.

gahhh that was nervewracking.

also, my bf ate 3/4 of all the food we had tonight. my mum was impressed.

:bigthumb:


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