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Old 02-25-2011, 12:57 AM   #6251
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‎"Sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is, it's not our loss, but theirs, for they left the only person who couldn't give up on them."
That's a really sweet and nice way of looking at it. But it kind of makes you wonder...why did you stick around for so long when the other person wouldn't do the same for you? That being said...if I could go back in time, I probably still wouldn't change anything.

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Parents taking my bf and i out to dinner tomorrow night. King crab and sharkfin soup..my parents confuse the shit outta me sometimes. Here I was thinking that they're ready to murder him.

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"Good things come to those who wait."

"Nothing worth having comes easy."

So question is, should I wait patiently on the sidelines while she does her thing...
"we" are a "maybe" and our future is unclear.
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Old 02-26-2011, 10:21 AM   #6263
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she could be fucking with you;
you have 2 options..
-take the risk, go back to her be prepaired to be broken again. but if you are really really lucky, you might have a shot
-do what you are doing; just ignore her, she will probably fuck you up
play on the safe side or take a risk.
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Regret that I didn't talk to you more at the party. I just made it more difficult for myself... Now I have to go through several obstacles just to see you again. Don't know if it's worth the trouble. "Age is but a number", but 4 years difference? What am I turning into....
If you really want something, it doesn't matter how many obstacles are in the way. If she really means something to you; they shouldn't look like obstacles to you.
Age is not a factor. and 4 years isn't that great of a deal.
maybe you are looking at maturity level; not age.

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"I walk a lonely road. Better to forgive & forget and move on rather than dwell on memories. "
Thank you, I needed this!

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"Good things come to those who wait."

"Nothing worth having comes easy."

So question is, should I wait patiently on the sidelines while she does her thing...
"we" are a "maybe" and our future is unclear.
what really amazed me is how well this worked out for me.
I waited, I never gave up; and I got a result that I could only really imagine in my dreams.
but i'm not sure if it works with everyone.
maybe I was lucky.
Just determine when waiting becomes too long and you are missing other opportunities.
Maybe you just need something to tell you to hold on a little longer.
a little spark.
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Old 02-26-2011, 12:16 PM   #6265
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what really amazed me is how well this worked out for me.
I waited, I never gave up; and I got a result that I could only really imagine in my dreams.
but i'm not sure if it works with everyone.
maybe I was lucky.
Just determine when waiting becomes too long and you are missing other opportunities.
Maybe you just need something to tell you to hold on a little longer.
a little spark.
The problem is she's so damn unresponsive.
So she left her phone at your friends. That's fine. Doesn't explain why we talk over msn and facebook and she is still difficult to have a discussion with.
It was not like this the previous four weeks.

Sometimes I just feel that, I was MEANT to be alone. Sounds horrible, but I seem to be the type of person who unintentionally sabotages his own happiness when in a relationship. My close friends have always told me that I appear happier and an individual.

Oh great, she messaged me on facebook AND msg...
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Old 02-26-2011, 12:22 PM   #6266
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The problem is she's so damn unresponsive.
So she left her phone at your friends. That's fine. Doesn't explain why we talk over msn and facebook and she is still difficult to have a discussion with.
It was not like this the previous four weeks.

Sometimes I just feel that, I was MEANT to be alone. Sounds horrible, but I seem to be the type of person who unintentionally sabotages his own happiness when in a relationship. My close friends have always told me that I appear happier and an individual.

Oh great, she messaged me on facebook AND msg...
Unresponsive - LOL
same with me... she doesn't even hug me back when I hug her... she just stands there... yet she doesn't push me away.
Doesn't tell me how she feels about me or shows me in any way. yet she writes about me in her bog; and checks my blog everyday....

I feel your pain!
I hope you have a better outcome then what I had.
curently we have not talked in 2 months... yet we still check eachothers blog every day... FML


you might think of yourself as best to be alone... but have you ever even tried to be in with someone? someone that was really worth it; someone special? maybe your way of thinking will change if you actually had something good.

someones you just gotta be a little more pushy...... and blunt...
girls like that... ????? maybe
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Oh man, I hate when they don't give the "yes" or "no" but instead it's and "ummm...."
wtf is that shit? seriously?
mind games suck!

So she checks your blog, daily. From a quick glance, she's still got feelings... but scared?
Can never tell. Have to ask, but all you'll get is an "I don't know..."

Being alone is easy. Heart stays intact, never worry about what "she" thinks.
I've been hurt many times before, so letting somebody into my heart isn't an easy thing.... and with this latest situation, I feel like locking my heart back up for another two years or more...
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The problem is she's so damn unresponsive.
So she left her phone at your friends. That's fine. Doesn't explain why we talk over msn and facebook and she is still difficult to have a discussion with.
It was not like this the previous four weeks.

Sometimes I just feel that, I was MEANT to be alone. Sounds horrible, but I seem to be the type of person who unintentionally sabotages his own happiness when in a relationship. My close friends have always told me that I appear happier and an individual.

Oh great, she messaged me on facebook AND msg...
thats what i think too. but she messaged you at least which means there is a little SOMETHING
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depends actually.

Is she rich with no family life but you have a big family? if so she can join your family.

It depends on your situation.
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annnnd my parents like him.

gahhh that was nervewracking.

also, my bf ate 3/4 of all the food we had tonight. my mum was impressed.
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depends actually.

Is she rich with no family life but you have a big family? if so she can join your family.

It depends on your situation.
Rich. Cuz you can teach family life. You can't teach rich. Well it's a lot harder.
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whats more important?
Family over Money....

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Is she rich with no family life but you have a big family? if so she can join your family.
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this is what I want..
shes from a rich family; and I really want her to have that warm feeling of family one day.
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gahhh that was nervewracking.

also, my bf ate 3/4 of all the food we had tonight. my mum was impressed.
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