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Old 04-27-2011, 01:22 PM   #6976
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If you follow through with how you described us, then sorry I don't think I can tolerate someone like that. I hope you know what you're getting yourself into.

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Old 04-27-2011, 01:49 PM   #6977
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You leave tomorrow.
and the probablitly of seeing each other anymore will be next to nothing.
I feel bad for not feeling bad...
I feel bad that I don't miss you like I use to.
I feel bad that I'm moving on...

Someone help me
I know the feeling...as I'm in the same situation. My buddy gave me some good advice...-try to find decent poon, and you'll forget about her...and by decent poon; no parlour or one nightstands.
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Old 04-27-2011, 05:12 PM   #6978
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I know the feeling...as I'm in the same situation. My buddy gave me some good advice...-try to find decent poon, and you'll forget about her...and by decent poon; no parlour or one nightstands.
I'd figure that would be the next step. find someone else and let the cycle go around onces again...

But then I feel like such a fag for moving on so fast....
I told myself that I would never forget her.
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Old 04-27-2011, 05:32 PM   #6979
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Old 04-27-2011, 08:06 PM   #6980
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It's been 2.5 years and we still haven't made it past 3rd base.
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Old 04-27-2011, 08:07 PM   #6981
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Old 04-27-2011, 10:43 PM   #6982
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Yea it's starting to get at me... Am I being selfish for wanting more?
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Old 04-27-2011, 11:44 PM   #6983
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Old 04-28-2011, 01:54 AM   #6984
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Yea it's starting to get at me... Am I being selfish for wanting more?
at 2.5 years, she is the one being selfish. Her priorities and thought processes are much different than yours.
3 options here, one being to continue to deny yourself a basic human need and im sure you can figure out the other 2
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Old 04-28-2011, 02:02 AM   #6985
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All the reasons in the world to tell her to fuck off but I don't.... bitch why you gotta get yourself into this situation? I want to help you but I don't want to.
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Old 04-28-2011, 05:15 AM   #6986
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I really feel like im nobody to you
wth are you thinking?You say you care alot about me and feel emo because you are not giving me what i deserved but really i dont care if you dont give much. I would do anything to be with you. But deep down i know there is nothing that i can do anymore. I tried sooo hard that its not even fun anymore. I guess i will stop talking to you and whassaping you.
I hope you can come back to me. im so emo lately, work sucks so much too
and i miss my friends overseas =(
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Old 04-28-2011, 08:05 AM   #6987
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I really feel like im nobody to you
wth are you thinking?You say you care alot about me and feel emo because you are not giving me what i deserved but really i dont care if you dont give much. I would do anything to be with you. But deep down i know there is nothing that i can do anymore. I tried sooo hard that its not even fun anymore. I guess i will stop talking to you and whassaping you.
I hope you can come back to me. im so emo lately, work sucks so much too
and i miss my friends overseas =(
have you tried telling him/her about this?
They never know unless you tell them; I know it might seem like they are suppose to understand you and know what you're thinking. but sometimes its not that easy.
sit down and talk about it..

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Old 04-28-2011, 08:32 AM   #6988
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Sigh this again. It's funny how the thing we always argue about is the thing that's supposed to make a relationship better/stronger (well imo). Intimacy. Seriously, I think it's so stupid that we have to argue about this. It's really not something you argue about. How many people do you know would argue about whether or not someone should come over because no one else is home and we have the house to ourselves? Only us. Why? I think it's still because of religion. Luckily for me even though we're the same religion, we went to the same high school, and we go to church each week, I have REVscene and the internet to keep me sane about the real world.

It's been 2.5 years and we still haven't made it past 3rd base. I'm sorry I always ask you to come over when no ones home but you never do. And you get mad at me for bringing it up every time? You even told me that you would keep a more open mind. But where does that lead? Back to square one arguing about the same shit.

I know most of you are going to say that she's lost interest in me. But I don't really think so. She still always wants to hang out and always cudly and touchy it's just we never get past that 3rd base and things have slowed down again..

I mean our emotional intimacy is amazing we get along well and we understand each other like the back of our hands. I care about you and you care about me. It's just this physical intimacy crap that's getting in the way when it shouldn't be.

I think you need both in order to get to that next level in a relationship but I don't think you understand that. Only having the emotional side is just like me being a "best friend". It's the physical intimacy of a relationship that makes it a romantic one and not a platonic one. But i don't think you'll ever understand that even though how many times I try and tell you.

I'm not sure if it's worth it to stay if this is the stuff we always keep fighting about.
Damn.... just like someone said above, you seriously have some patience. Intimacy is very important in a relationship. I'm sort of in a similar situation where I was getting it all the time but now it's like non existent.... pretty fuckin sad.... I'm surprised I haven't cracked already but for sure it's making my mind wander and that isn't a good sign...
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Old 04-28-2011, 08:45 AM   #6989
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I'd figure that would be the next step. find someone else and let the cycle go around onces again...

But then I feel like such a fag for moving on so fast....
I told myself that I would never forget her.
the old me is back...
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Old 04-28-2011, 08:52 PM   #6990
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Old 04-28-2011, 10:31 PM   #6991
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Damn.... just like someone said above, you seriously have some patience. Intimacy is very important in a relationship. I'm sort of in a similar situation where I was getting it all the time but now it's like non existent.... pretty fuckin sad.... I'm surprised I haven't cracked already but for sure it's making my mind wander and that isn't a good sign...
Ugh ya been there, not fun. Try talking to her about it? But then she doesn't want to talk about it no matter how hard you try to bring it up and you feel as though there's really nothing left but to tolerate it but of course you have your needs so you find your mind wandering and flirting with other people and the next thing you know...you cheat or find yourself in a tough position where you can just easily cheat but don't and you go home to the stupid bitch who still won't give you any after rejecting what could have been an amazing night.
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Old 04-28-2011, 10:55 PM   #6992
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Old 04-28-2011, 11:24 PM   #6993
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your clothes would look nice on my bedroom floor...

but looking at reality, we have really grown apart. we dont even say hi anymore and its like you ignore me.. or am i being paranoid? anyways, im just gonna move on. you have been mindfucking me for months and its pretty damn hard to concentrate on other things.
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Old 04-28-2011, 11:33 PM   #6994
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my first thought: you ripped my jersey you bitch!! but then u gave me your number saying you would gladly pay for another one over coffee. Vancouver fans ftw
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Old 04-28-2011, 11:48 PM   #6995
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your clothes would look nice on my bedroom floor...

but looking at reality, we have really grown apart. we dont even say hi anymore and its like you ignore me.. or am i being paranoid? anyways, im just gonna move on. you have been mindfucking me for months and its pretty damn hard to concentrate on other things.
haaa similar situation is happening to me. I am being mind fuck'd lately too and except being ignored I'm being constantly flooded with msgs over msn. Just as I am about to get ready to sleep, I get a msg from her. Just as Canucks win a game, I get a msg from her.

FUck this shit seriously. Try to think of the things she does that pisses you off. That sorta helps me :S
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ANYON KNOW HOW CAN I BREAK THE EVIL SPELL OF THE WEDDING RING ...





... so my wife could start giving me bj again?
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