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05-14-2011, 06:56 PM
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the end of a huge chapter of my life is in 4 weeks. i really hope that you will make it a happy ending. i dont think we will have a long relationship because youre such a secretive person and i dont see this going really far, but i really hope we can have something instead of nothing.
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05-14-2011, 07:07 PM
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why would u even joke about being pregnant.. :@:@:@
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05-14-2011, 09:50 PM
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05-15-2011, 12:40 AM
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#7229 | | I STILL don't get it
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Originally Posted by AlphaKappa  fucking a, why do girls try to win your heart when they already have a boyfriend... FUCK OFF | Quote:
Originally Posted by Graeme S They don't want your heart. They want your penis. Give it to her. She's already got a relationship, she won't need a new one. | All the fun and no obligations.  | |
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05-15-2011, 02:59 AM
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#7230 | | I STILL don't get it
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i need my alone time to think everything through. it's only fair for the both of us.
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05-15-2011, 09:16 AM
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goodbye..
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05-15-2011, 02:29 PM
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This weekend was a great example of why I am staying away from girls.
So many mind tricks, jealousy and so immature.
Glad I walked away from it all.
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05-15-2011, 02:48 PM
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perks of living yaletown: girls, nice cars, good eats, nightlife
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05-15-2011, 10:07 PM
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05-15-2011, 10:51 PM
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#7235 | | Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?!
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you're so emotionally immature.
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05-15-2011, 11:16 PM
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i dont know what the fuck happened today.
so theres this girl, im not official with her yet but everyone knows i like her. she knows too and its really obvious. i wanted to go ice skating with her today, she said yes and her friends wanted to tag along. so there was the bunch of us. she was a bit late. she never wears makeup and she looks good without it.. but today she did wear make up but not alot. when she walked into the community center, her cheeks were red.. i thought it was just makeup but later found out that it was real blush (i found out cause she wasnt blushing after  ).
so we borrowed skates and everyone started skating. i approached her as usual and started to talk to her.. whatsup, hows it going etc. but shes a really quiet girl and she only answers i offered to give her my gloves cause she didnt have gloves etc. but she declined and for the next 2 hours it was really awkward. im kind of glad her friends tagged along cause she kinda talked to them too. shes the type of girl that listens to what people say and hardly says anything. she kinda laughed at my skating today etc but we didnt talk much..
she smiles at me sometimes and looks at me in class etc. however i seriously dont know what shes thinking.. i dont feel like im in her comfort zone yet. shes a secretive person, even her friends think so. shes so quiet and thats why not alot of guys approach her. today after skating we went to shoppers drug mart and she said to her friend that she wants chocolate so i bought her some.. then dinner she avoided sitting beside me..
prom is in 2 weeks and im planning to ask her this Wednesday. yes its hella rushed, but i dont get a chance if i dont ask. any thoughts or opinions? i dont mind criticism and negative views, im not comfortable/feel good about my situation anyways.
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05-15-2011, 11:21 PM
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#7237 | | Mod.
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There's one possibility that she doesn't want to lead you on which is a good thing cuz it won't fuck your feelings, but bad cuz it sucks to not have feelings reciprocated.
Another possibility is that she has the same feelings for you, but does not know what to do due to her shy and quiet nature, although as much as I'd hate to break it to you it seems more likely she doesn't want to lead you on.
Ask her to prom. That's all you can do, but be warned that you should be prepared for the worst.
Goodluck
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05-15-2011, 11:35 PM
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#7238 | | Rs has made me the man i am today!
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05-15-2011, 11:41 PM
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Originally Posted by !Nhan There's one possibility that she doesn't want to lead you on which is a good thing cuz it won't fuck your feelings, but bad cuz it sucks to not have feelings reciprocated.
Ask her to prom. That's all you can do, but be warned that you should be prepared for the worst. | yeah thats what i think too
and yeah i have nothing to lose right? should i ask her privately or in front of her friends?
thanks for the feedback !Nhan !
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05-15-2011, 11:55 PM
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she likes you man.
but you're right - you're not in her comfort zone. she just wants her friends around because it'd be way too awkward between the both of you (for now). just stay cool and don't forget to talk to her friends so they're ALL comfortable around you.
find out if her friends got dates to prom as well. that way she wouldn't feel excluded from her group. there's no wrong in going to prom without a date - could be even better than going with her and her friends.
but end of the night, week, or school year, go balls deep and let her know.
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05-16-2011, 12:03 AM
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nah her friends wanted to tag along lol
im really tight with her friends..
she wont date a guy thats not approved by her friends lol
her friends all want me to go for her because of the things ive done for her..
i talked to her friends more than i talked to her today
we are probably gonna go in the same limo, go take pictures, go to the dance and afterprom but we wont be sitting at the same table at prom sadly because of the stupid school arrangements.
jeez i really dont know if i should tell you guys how im going to ask her to prom but here goes.
im going to unwrap a kinder surprise and cut it in half, stick a note in it that tells her to check inside her desk. inside will be a box of small kindersurprise eggs which she loves. and a letter explaining why i want to go to prom with her.. im just gonna say something along the lines of "i really like you and would love to end highschool with a happy ending by going to prom with you." or sth. but should i do it privately or in front of her friends? shes gonna be pressured to say yes in front of her friends but thats gonna force her to say yes but i dont want to force her into something she doesnt want (if she says no)
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05-16-2011, 12:42 AM
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if you go out in another group situation, and need some studly guys to get the friends away, while u two have some time together....ask exhil and me  | |
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05-16-2011, 12:50 AM
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Till now, I always got by on my own.
I never really cared until I met you.
And now it chills me to the bone,
How do I get you alone?
How do I get you alone.
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05-16-2011, 12:52 AM
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Originally Posted by !e.lo_ if you go out in another group situation, and need some studly guys to get the friends away, while u two have some time together....ask exhil and me | exhil almost met them once but he was stuck in traffic and couldnt make it haha
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05-16-2011, 12:59 AM
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Originally Posted by 737! exhil almost met them once but he was stuck in traffic and couldnt make it haha | oh wait what? he's was tryna grab all the lg's for himself?
selfish fuck! haha
where's tofu? i kno he'll be all over that.
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05-16-2011, 01:02 AM
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#7246 | | Everyone wants a piece of R S...
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Awwwww high school puppy love is so cute....^^~
I think she likes you too. She is probably just unexperienced and not sure what to do. I suggest you kick the flirting up a notch and throw in some touching here and there to see how she reacts. Good luck asking her out to prom!!
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05-16-2011, 01:04 AM
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#7247 | | THEY HATE US CUZ THEY AIN'T US
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Originally Posted by !e.lo_ oh wait what? he's was tryna grab all the lg's for himself?
selfish fuck! haha | Oh yes  | |
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05-16-2011, 03:01 AM
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#7248 | | WUB WUB WUB WUB WUB
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From what you posted it seems like she's comfortable around you. Go ask her dude, nothing worse than the "what if" feeling. Since she's the quiet type I think asking her privately would be "better". Nonetheless, good luck man. I wish my situation turned out like yours. She knew that I liked her and I already felt rejected before I even thought about telling her and all that bs.
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05-16-2011, 03:04 AM
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Originally Posted by 737! yeah thats what i think too
and yeah i have nothing to lose right? should i ask her privately or in front of her friends?
thanks for the feedback !Nhan ! | Exactly the mindset you should have when you ask her. You DON'T have anything to lose. You don't ask her you don't have a date. She says no you still don't have a date, so either way you have no date which is why you must ask! I'd ask her privately just because of how she's a quiet person and you don't want to embarrass a shy person in front of their friends. Quote:
Originally Posted by 737! nah her friends wanted to tag along lol
im really tight with her friends..
she wont date a guy thats not approved by her friends lol
her friends all want me to go for her because of the things ive done for her..
i talked to her friends more than i talked to her today
we are probably gonna go in the same limo, go take pictures, go to the dance and afterprom but we wont be sitting at the same table at prom sadly because of the stupid school arrangements.
jeez i really dont know if i should tell you guys how im going to ask her to prom but here goes.
im going to unwrap a kinder surprise and cut it in half, stick a note in it that tells her to check inside her desk. inside will be a box of small kindersurprise eggs which she loves. and a letter explaining why i want to go to prom with her.. im just gonna say something along the lines of "i really like you and would love to end highschool with a happy ending by going to prom with you." or sth. but should i do it privately or in front of her friends? shes gonna be pressured to say yes in front of her friends but thats gonna force her to say yes but i dont want to force her into something she doesnt want (if she says no) | That's cute lol just hope that it doesn't creep her out  ]
on a side note: it's quite lonely these days...:S
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05-16-2011, 03:11 AM
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i still dont think im in her comfort zone haha
i can approach her and shes willing to talk..
but when its just her and her friends, she talks alot..
but when people are around, she doesnt talk lol
i think shes kinda shy too.. but i also think im spoiling her lol
i buy her alot of the things she wants lol
i worked out something with my friend ill update you guys with pics later this week haha
im gonna ask her for sure but im asking her publicly in a way no one will know whats going on till she says yes lol .
ill scan the letter ill write her and maybe some reaction pictures.. ohhh highschool drama ill miss it next year. at least 7 relationship statuses this past week. seems like people are using prom as an excuse to ask each other out lol
thanks for all the tips so far guys  i definitely thought i was in a shittier situation that i thought i was in
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