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Relationship & Gender DiscussionTHIS SPACE OPEN FOR ADVERTISEMENT. YOU SHOULD BE ADVERTISING HERE! The thin line between love and hate
Mature discussion about understanding the opposite sex...
you're fucking selfish. it's always about you and only you. you don't want to put in any effort into our relationship. i don't want this one-sided relationship anymore. i treat you like my queen, yet not one time do you think about ME instead of yourself. i'm not your king.
so I got a facebook msg last night, "you! let's catch up soon "
Really? I guess being vague, distant and unresponsive didn't help the first time.
I really don't need to deal with that, and I won't. Consider yourself ignored.
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so I got a facebook msg last night, "you! let's catch up soon "
Really? I guess being vague, distant and unresponsive didn't help the first time.
I really don't need to deal with that, and I won't. Consider yourself ignored.
What a pimp!
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Originally Posted by TOS'd
The reason for Speak it Out is to actually set PK-EK up with someone, whether that be someone from this thread or outside of RS.
I can't really see myself with anyone else....
but we're not even anything...
i don't see myself with anyone else; no one will be like you...
i still can't let things go...
Hey pk ek! Aii r u doing alright lately?
Just saw your post about risking your job for her
Well I'm kinda in the same boat right now
I'm working a decent job in asia now n I know it's never gonna work if I don't move back to
Vancouver aii
Although I don't really like my job all that much n my body is getting worst but I think it's hard fir me to get something equivalent in van
So what's ur situation now n what u planning to do? Posted via RS Mobile
Hey pk ek! Aii r u doing alright lately?
Just saw your post about risking your job for her
Well I'm kinda in the same boat right now
I'm working a decent job in asia now n I know it's never gonna work if I don't move back to
Vancouver aii
Although I don't really like my job all that much n my body is getting worst but I think it's hard fir me to get something equivalent in van
So what's ur situation now n what u planning to do? Posted via RS Mobile
I start my new job in Calgary on Monday.
I've told everyone that i'm coming already. I've told everyone that I'm leaving already.
She recently realized that my blog is back up and running and read it... I could tell by the time she was on til the time that she left my blog. she read everything and it took her a long time (30 plus days of catching up to do)
she didn't really do anything... she didn't even write in her own blog...
there is nothing i can do...
I even wrote in my blog mulitple times that she would just have to say it, and I'll leave everything to be with her.
i've heard nothing.
shes read all that i've had to write and say.
nothing i can do anymore.
I'm done doing it...
this is the end of us. the end of this chapter.
Its funny... I'm still hoping for something to happen
maybe she will suprise me and move to Calgary... maybe in the future we will meet once again.. (see how naive I am)
the only thing I can wish for right now is for her to live happly ever after. no matter what the future brings...
I still love her.
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Originally Posted by TOS'd
The reason for Speak it Out is to actually set PK-EK up with someone, whether that be someone from this thread or outside of RS.
i dont know what the fuck happened today.
so theres this girl, im not official with her yet but everyone knows i like her. she knows too and its really obvious. i wanted to go ice skating with her today, she said yes and her friends wanted to tag along. so there was the bunch of us. she was a bit late. she never wears makeup and she looks good without it.. but today she did wear make up but not alot. when she walked into the community center, her cheeks were red.. i thought it was just makeup but later found out that it was real blush (i found out cause she wasnt blushing after ).
so we borrowed skates and everyone started skating. i approached her as usual and started to talk to her.. whatsup, hows it going etc. but shes a really quiet girl and she only answers i offered to give her my gloves cause she didnt have gloves etc. but she declined and for the next 2 hours it was really awkward. im kind of glad her friends tagged along cause she kinda talked to them too. shes the type of girl that listens to what people say and hardly says anything. she kinda laughed at my skating today etc but we didnt talk much..
she smiles at me sometimes and looks at me in class etc. however i seriously dont know what shes thinking.. i dont feel like im in her comfort zone yet. shes a secretive person, even her friends think so. shes so quiet and thats why not alot of guys approach her. today after skating we went to shoppers drug mart and she said to her friend that she wants chocolate so i bought her some.. then dinner she avoided sitting beside me..
prom is in 2 weeks and im planning to ask her this Wednesday. yes its hella rushed, but i dont get a chance if i dont ask. any thoughts or opinions? i dont mind criticism and negative views, im not comfortable/feel good about my situation anyways.
"And for Gods sake, stop asking if she's into you. Assume she is. If you're living your life right, anyone should be happy to be a part of it. If you have to ask if she's into you, change yourself. You're boring."
yeah i always think of the worst case scenario for everything because of my past experiences. i used to think of the best thing possible to happen but it often backfires.. not asking her on wed anymore. im asking her tmrw. not gonna give myself any more time or ill just drag it longer. i found out shes expecting me to ask her and all her friends told me that they think she will say yes. not only her but half of my grade expects me to ask her.. rumors spread pretty fast lol. she probably expects me to ask her publicly in front of her friends but like i said before, i dont want to force her because her friends will pressure her into saying yes. so ima either ask her privately straight up and tell her why i want to go, or ill give her the kinder surprise with just a slip of paper saying "prom?" in it. ill let you guys know lol.
my buddies came up to me and told me not to ask her to prom but to ask her to dance during prom.. thats cuz we wont be going in the same limo and wont be sitting at the same table but we will be dancing and taking pics i guess :S
anyways, i cant decide whether i should ask her straight up or do the kinder surprise.. half the people want me to do the kinder surprise cause its "cute" and the other half told me straight up but no one gave me any good reasons why
we fight and we fuss
we question ourself why we put up with each other?
because we still have feelings for each other
and after all what we've been through all these months
we can't just throw everything away.
all those nights when it's just us
I feel as if theres no other man out there for me..
but in the end..where we stand is where we are..
kk im done deciding. just gonna ask her straight up in the hallway. say some corny ass line and hope for the best. thanks for all the advice guys i owe you guys drinksss lol
i honestly want from the bottom of my heart for you to be happy. i hope you could find a girl who could love you for you and somebody who you could love just as much in return. i know our relationship didn't work out as planned and i have become somebody i don't like. i thought i could adapt and become whatever you molded me to be but i can't do it anymore. i love you but i am fed up with everything and this isn't healthy for either of us.
maybe you were unfaithful to me because i wasn't the one. no matter what, i want to thank you so much for the years we've been together. this was good experience for a stubborn person like me. people say if you love something then you have to let it go so i am going to try my best to let you go. please be happy, i will try to be happy as well. goodbye.
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