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05-17-2011, 07:49 AM
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#7276 | | NEWBIE ACCOUNT!
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Originally Posted by PK-EK  I start my new job in Calgary on Monday.
I've told everyone that i'm coming already. I've told everyone that I'm leaving already.
She recently realized that my blog is back up and running and read it... I could tell by the time she was on til the time that she left my blog. she read everything and it took her a long time (30 plus days of catching up to do)
she didn't really do anything... she didn't even write in her own blog...
there is nothing i can do...
I even wrote in my blog mulitple times that she would just have to say it, and I'll leave everything to be with her.
i've heard nothing.
shes read all that i've had to write and say.
nothing i can do anymore.
I'm done doing it...
this is the end of us. the end of this chapter.
Its funny... I'm still hoping for something to happen
maybe she will suprise me and move to Calgary... maybe in the future we will meet once again.. (see how naive I am)
the only thing I can wish for right now is for her to live happly ever after. no matter what the future brings...
I still love her. | First of all, congrats on your job in calgary! hope everything goes well!
hmm i see what you mean. but do you know if shes the kind of girl that really cares about your future cause it might be the fact that she doesnt want you to sacrifice anything for her, esp. your career. Because thats what happend in my case, before i came to work in asia a few months ago,i explicitly said that if he wanted me to stay in vancouver i would have no problem, however he knew that before i met him i was always planning to work in asia after grad. So he never asked me to stay, but later i found out that he doesnt want me to regret not trying new things and taking up opportunities when im young.
so you might want to look into how she really thinks. However, if you can let go of her, then please do that cause that will be much easier!hope everything works out for you though!=)
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05-17-2011, 09:13 AM
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#7277 | | Editor
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If the worse thing you could get back is a "no" then there's nothing to lose in just trying.
I'm going to ask a girl out this week. I haven't asked a girl out in three years.
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05-17-2011, 10:24 AM
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#7278 | | Female Driven
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^ thought you were staying away from girls? :P
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05-17-2011, 11:42 AM
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WHAT THE FUCK. asked her a few hours ago. She said "I'll think about it" but she was smiling. wtffff Posted via RS Mobile | |
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05-17-2011, 01:18 PM
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#7280 | | うに
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Originally Posted by siusiujeh First of all, congrats on your job in calgary! hope everything goes well!
hmm i see what you mean. but do you know if shes the kind of girl that really cares about your future cause it might be the fact that she doesnt want you to sacrifice anything for her, esp. your career. Because thats what happend in my case, before i came to work in asia a few months ago,i explicitly said that if he wanted me to stay in vancouver i would have no problem, however he knew that before i met him i was always planning to work in asia after grad. So he never asked me to stay, but later i found out that he doesnt want me to regret not trying new things and taking up opportunities when im young.
so you might want to look into how she really thinks. However, if you can let go of her, then please do that cause that will be much easier!hope everything works out for you though!=) | I know this is a factor
She doesn't want me to do so much for her... She doesn't want me to loose everything for her.
But I'm not really moving because of this job. I was just lucky and got a job at the same time as moving...
but if I truly stayed here with her, I need to know 100% how she feels about me before I do anything. I still need to know that... she still hasn't said or showed anything..
wow... your story is so romantic, like straight out of a Hollywood movie.  I can only image the pain you two are in.
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05-17-2011, 02:18 PM
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#7281 | | How I Mod your mother
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I know this isnt what you want to hear, but if someone feels so strongly for someone else, they usually will let them know.
If said girl hasnt reciprocated any of those feelings I think its a lost cause
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05-17-2011, 04:17 PM
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#7282 | | Mod.
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Originally Posted by !Yaminashi I should tell you this next time we all go out for dinner Posted via RS Mobile | Hells no!  Quote:
Originally Posted by 737! WHAT THE FUCK. asked her a few hours ago. She said "I'll think about it" but she was smiling. wtffff Posted via RS Mobile | Take it with a grain of salt. She didn't exactly say yes, but again she didn't say no either.
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05-17-2011, 04:39 PM
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#7283 | | Banned (ABWS)
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It's tearin up my heart when I'm with you but when we are apart, I feel it too
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05-17-2011, 04:51 PM
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btw thanks alot for the tips !Nhan.
i didnt plan on filming it.. but her friend saw me holding the bunch of roses so she hid behind a wall and filmed it.. add me on facebook (with no spaces) if you want to see the video. i privated it. when you add me leave a msg and tell me what your username on rs is.. i dont just add random people haha.
you cant hear what i said, but i basically said hi
then i said something along the lines of: "i know we are just friends and i dont want anything more."
then i whipped out the flowers and she kept saying omg and started to smile.. but she didnt just smile, she started to put her hands on her head then started to straighten out her hair or sth
i then said: "the only thing more i want is you to be my prom date"
and she just said "ill think about it"
and at that point i got kinda upset and just gave them to her and walked away..
went to my locker and grabbed what i needed and didnt go to school the rest of the day lol.. went for a really long walk while the sun was out..
ilvtofu drove to my school and we chilled for a bit more than a hour and i went home.. just came home and mom is spazzing out at me for really stupid shit.. mood wasnt that great this morning and im pretty mad right now lol.. well not entirely cause she didnt give me a yes no reply, but honestly, i really love going to school because of the people there. theres nothing like saying good morning, shaking hands and high fiving people in the hallways and clowning around everyday.. but today i just left school and didnt want to see anyone..
but yeah i really hate my parents. they arent supportive at all. they want me to walk the path they set for me and i absolutely hate that path. yes, they are my parents and i should listen to them but honestly i dont want to do shit i dont like. they are pretty strict asian parents. i dont get allowance, i have to pay for my own phone bill, clothes, and i have to pay for food when i eat out.. sigh, life isnt going the way i want it to right now.. i just hope she doesnt lead me on or "forget about that i asked". i should be always expect the best and prepare for the worst right? but looking at her body language its really weird.. she was smiling the whole time and even smiling when she walked away.. ill just hope she says yes.
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05-17-2011, 04:54 PM
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#7285 | | Banned (ABWS)
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it says u go to
Prince Of Wales Secondary
doesnt that school have a bunch of baller honger girls?
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05-17-2011, 04:56 PM
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balling mainlanders haha..
there was a few guys driving astons and turbo s's last year
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05-17-2011, 04:57 PM
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#7287 | | Mod.
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You're supposed to prepare for the worst, hope for the best.
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05-17-2011, 05:05 PM
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wow the vid is less than 1 min but its 80mb cause its filmed on iphone lol
sit pretty guys its uploading
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05-17-2011, 05:44 PM
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#7289 | | F**K YOUR HEAD
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Originally Posted by shawn79 it says u go to
Prince Of Wales Secondary
doesnt that school have a bunch of baller honger girls? | lol that's so 2005, michael ho's daughter used to go PW
PW is all about baller mainlander guys with top dollar exotics and skinny ass jeans + makeup + fagbags now
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05-17-2011, 07:01 PM
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#7290 | | WUB WUB WUB WUB WUB
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Originally Posted by !Nhan You're supposed to prepare for the worst, hope for the best. | This. It's not the best feeling in the world but it lessens the blow if you're prepared for the worst. Also makes things a looottttttt better if the best does happen. Posted via RS Mobile | |
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05-17-2011, 09:08 PM
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#7291 | | I STILL don't get it
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i wish i could erase my memory.
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05-17-2011, 09:24 PM
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#7292 | | 14 dolla balla aint got nothing on me!
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Originally Posted by 737! WHAT THE FUCK. asked her a few hours ago. She said "I'll think about it" but she was smiling. wtffff Posted via RS Mobile | damn girls and their trolling ways ==
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05-17-2011, 09:38 PM
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^haha she pulled off a legit troll face then..
and for the people that wanted to add me, i deactivated facebook. mmm i dont have a good feeling about this
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05-17-2011, 09:55 PM
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#7294 | | Mod.
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why'd you deactivate your fb? it's not the end of the world you should continue going on with life like it ain't even bothering you
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05-17-2011, 10:03 PM
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#7295 | | Director of RS Cares
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05-17-2011, 10:09 PM
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#7296 | | 14 dolla balla aint got nothing on me!
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Originally Posted by 737! ^haha she pulled off a legit troll face then..
and for the people that wanted to add me, i deactivated facebook. mmm i dont have a good feeling about this | don't deactivate it just because of that. if she pulls a on you, you have to return with a poker face as if nothing has happened. 
fully support you bro 737!
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05-17-2011, 10:54 PM
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#7297 | | & Associates Inc.
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Originally Posted by !Nhan why'd you deactivate your fb? it's not the end of the world you should continue going on with life like it ain't even bothering you | THIS
now she's/everyone going to think you deactivated it because your sad she "rejected" you...stand up with your head held high, you did what many wouldn't do, and hey you never know she may say yes. But even if she doesn't don't let that shit phase you(its hard, i know)
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05-17-2011, 11:25 PM
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she got someone to say no lol
not sure if i should just ignore her now or just pretend nothing happened.. i made her feel really bad apparently lol
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05-18-2011, 01:15 AM
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#7299 | | My name is PJ and I like dogs.
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and you don't even know who i am
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05-18-2011, 01:56 AM
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#7300 | | Mod.
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Originally Posted by 737! she got someone to say no lol
not sure if i should just ignore her now or just pretend nothing happened.. i made her feel really bad apparently lol | Personally if she doesn't have the face to say no to you directly then I don't see how you can still talk to her.
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