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Relationship & Gender DiscussionTHIS SPACE OPEN FOR ADVERTISEMENT. YOU SHOULD BE ADVERTISING HERE! The thin line between love and hate
Mature discussion about understanding the opposite sex...
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: vancouver
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my logical rational mind says "be cool, no big deal, you're making a big deal out of nothing", my emotions are going "WHAT THE FUCK?! *&@#^!@!%&^@$(@#(#*#&@^@&*@)$)#(#("
Do you know how to keep a woman happy? I mean truly happy. Keeping a woman happy is common sense stuff, but many men get this all wrong.
#1- Confidence is king
Confidence is more attractive to a woman than money or good looks. Think about it. How often do you see an ugly guy with a beautiful woman? It’s pretty common. To make your woman happy, be yourself and be confident. You are good enough for her regardless of your financial status or physical attributes.
#2- Focus on the little things
Women keep score differently than men. In a woman’s eyes, you earn points regardless of how big something you do is. Buying her an expensive diamond necklace earns you no more points than calling her just to say you love her. If you want to keep a woman happy, do little things for her consistently rather than doing a big thing every once in a while.
#3- She needs appreciation
More than anything in a relationship, a woman needs to feel appreciated to be happy. Appreciation is even more important than chocolate or love in a woman’s eyes. Let her know you value all the little things she does for you like doing your laundry, fixing dinner, or leaving you cute notes.
#4- Give her the attention she deserves
When you’re with her, avoid staring at other women. Women constantly compare themselves to other women, and when you stare at other women when she’s around, you will make her feel as though she’s not good enough. You’re a man and you’re going to look. It’s part of your core being, but be conscious of it when she’s around and give her your full attention if you want to keep her happy.
#5- Laughter will win her heart
If you want to know how to keep a woman happy, make her laugh. Just because you’re a man doesn’t mean you can’t be cute, silly, or even a little childish if it brings a smile to her face. You know the things that make her laugh so use them.
#6- Do something she loves even if you don’t
Maybe your girlfriend likes to ski or dance and you don’t. Make an effort to go with her sometimes even if you don’t enjoy it that much. Do it for her because you love her. This doesn’t mean you have to do everything she loves all the time, but show an interest in her passions. She’ll love you for it.
#7- Don’t get sloppy
Guys have a tendency to put a lot of effort into getting the girl, but once they have her they get sloppy. They stop doing the little things. They stop caring about their appearance. They stop appreciating her and start taking her for granted. If you want to keep a woman happy, don’t get sloppy. You can lose her in an instant.
#8- Get to know her family and friends
Women for the most part are social creatures. They rely on their friends and family to validate the choices they make in life. They want their boyfriends and husbands to have a relationship with their family and friends. Learning how to keep a woman happy will require making an effort to show an interest in your girl’s sphere of influence.
#9- Be considerate of her feelings
Women are more emotional than men. It’s not their fault. It just comes with being a woman. When you show her you understand this and are sensitive to her moods and don’t get upset or over-react, she’ll do everything she can to keep you.
#10- Spice it up
It’s natural for a relationship to lose some of its excitement over time. However, if you feel things getting stale, try something new. maybe taking a class together to learn how to dance or do yoga. Do something neither of you have ever done, and do it together.
I ask you to spend some time with me to go to the night market and you say you're busy. You're sorry, you're thankful, you're sorry, then you're thankful. Fuck I don't need your sorrys and thanks, what I want is appreciation and making things up. Saying one word to me doesn't make the world better.
You know when you called me and said you had no ride home from Pacific Centre at 11pm, I rushed from Richmond all the way down there to drive you home. This is what a man can do for love. This isn't the only thing, because a man can do almost anything just for love and to be with the woman he loves. Even if it hurts, even if its tiring, even if it has costs. No matter what I'm or any other man in true love will do the same. Why can't you see this? Why can't you feel the same way? Most importantly why do you have to toy with me when I know you have feelings for me and you hide it.
^lol you've fallen deep, you're overthinking! Calm down it's just a hangout. Maybe she is busy :/
Edit: it's not like she declined an invitation to your bday pty or sth Posted via RS Mobile
Why is my income a focal point?? Nobody thinks you're a gold digger, it's all in your head. Stop making excuses, if you feel something you feel something. If you don't, well, such is life.
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^lol you've fallen deep, you're overthinking! Calm down it's just a hangout. Maybe she is busy :/
Edit: it's not like she declined an invitation to your bday pty or sth Posted via RS Mobile
Yes I have fallen heap load of shit deep. Never have I ever been this stupid and retarded for a girl.
What is holding us back from voicing our true feelings in real life as opposed to voicing how we truly feel in a thread?
1. you end up guilt tripping the other person..which does no help and makes things worse.
2. Its gonna break friendships n turn ugly.
3. You dont trust anyone else enough to tell such problems to cos either they dont understand..there may be a conflict of interest..or you know they're gonna tell the other person one way or another
I really wanna get to know you and go out on a date and such but I don't wanna make it seem like I'm using you as a rebound since I'm still hurt from what happened..
When you go to vegas on your 1 week girls trip. I wont be here whenyou get back. Posted via RS Mobile
Damn, whats the reason for this?
Baoturbo: As much as you say you love this girl, why do you bend over backwards for her if she clearly isnt willing to do the same?
IMO, you're doing it to yourself. You're not worthless, if she isnt willing to get her head out of her ass and realize what she has, forget her and find someone who's smart enough to realize she's got a good thing.
From what it sounds like she's doing just enough to keep you hanging on, but not enough to give you that hope.
Sounds like she'll only call you when it benefits her somehow
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i've only known you for 4 days and i already know you better than some people i've known in a lifetime. 4 days and i've already developed feelings for you..how is this even possible?
theres only two ways this is gonna to go,
you're either going to end up with me or you're going to go and i ain't tryin to leave you feeling insecure or vulnerable so i ain't gonna front or hide the feelins that i wanna show,
you got me acting kinda different with ya,
i must admit i'm kinda smitten with ya,
and every time you come to mine and start cleanin shit up,
i can maybe one day see me livin with ya,
you know you got a winner when your mother miss her....
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You park like old people fuck...
i've only known you for 4 days and i already know you better than some people i've known in a lifetime. 4 days and i've already developed feelings for you..how is this even possible?
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