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Originally Posted by Supafly
(Post 7541750)
Anyways Coles notes;
-Hook up with a 7/10 bitch,
-she comes over; auto thinks Im her bf....:fulloffuck:
-I tell her no, we are -FRIENDS-
-she goes and bitches to all my friends how im such a "fucking dick"
-I call her out on it, and told her to stfu and I dont want to have anything to do with her.
-Goes crazy calling and txt me from diffrent random phones..2-3x a day.
-Bitch be crazy.:sweetjesus:
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let me give you a piece of advice. You might think she's just snapped and gone crazy, but you need to know that she's now telling her side of the story, and nobody's hearing yours.
When I was younger, I used to date a girl I now call psychobitch 'cause she is. No stories today, but maybe another time. Long story short, she and I were coworkers (another lesson learned) and I wanted to keep work and home lives separate. She, unfortunately, didn't think so. She also thought that "If you're not in the wrong, there's no reason you can't tell people what happened", so that my staying silent was an automatic admission of guilt (so too, by the way, was staying quiet in an argument when you don't want to escalate the situation). As a result, I lost contact with a lot of people I really liked and it took me a long while to salvage a social life from that again--sadly, full of almost entirely new people. I can count on both hands how many people I still talk to from before that.
So what you should do: find the person you're closest to. Tell them you need to talk to them about what's going on. Tell her (much better if it's a her than a him) exactly what's going on. Most importantly ADMIT THAT YOU MADE A MISTAKE PORKING HER--not because of what's happened now, but because of the assumptions you made of her (that she wouldn't want a relationship and just wanted some peen), and tell her that even though you now know you've royally fucked things up with that girl, you still want to meet your mutual friends.
If you do it right, word will spread, and people will feel somewhat more comfortable with you because you're not placing ultimatums ("I won't go if he's there!") which is probably what she's going to do. If you do it wrong, then you'll still lose those people, but that was going to happen if you did nothing anyways.
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Originally Posted by Bitter
(Post 7542563)
wow... I don't fucking know you. But FUCK you sound like an asshole!!!!
If you really don't give a fuck, then just ignore her. Like a REAL man would do. No need to post the shit like this on the internet. If u had never given her slightest hope or slept with her, she prob would have moved on long time ago. Don't fucking be the person who gets all the benefit and still complains about it when she prob had no idea u post some shit like this on internet.
who needs to grow up here.
You want a comment from people, here you have it.
Take it Dave.
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I don't want to presume, but why is this whole thing his fault? I've been through not exactly similar situations (both personally, and with friends) where you bring a girl home or she comes over, flirts, bangs, giggety...and then the next morning it's "So what does this make us?".
Why does it make us anything? You came over. We had sex. This doesn't make you my girlfriend. Me not saying no to sex (which let me tell you is a 99% chance--that is that if someone offers sex, I am 99% likely to take it unless the girl is below my standards [based on my level of intoxication] or I am being supervised while in a relationship) is not the beginning of a relationship. If you are so offended by offering me your body and then get angry when I don't think that it means relationshippyness, then you should have made it more clear that sex is something you only do with people you are in relationships with. At that point AND AT THAT POINT ONLY when he acknowledges that he wants a relationship, then you can shit on him.
It takes two to tango; vertical or horizontal. If things aren't clear enough for you, then you'd damned well better wait. If you don't then you'll just end up
bitter :fullofwin:
