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Old 08-16-2011, 06:35 PM   #8476
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I want to open up to you.. but im scared of your reaction, its been months, and i dont know if you still hold on to the same feelings that i hold for you..
just do it, if you keep not asking a girl out or scared to take her home it'll build to other girls if this girl will eventually fall in the "friendship" category, and.. buy my dom rebel!

A lot of you guys need to take the step of just asking her, going in, whether you like it or not, better than regretting it later on, even if you get rejected you're better off not worrying about her and off to looking for someone else

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Old 08-16-2011, 07:49 PM   #8477
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i think i really need to get some closure or else i'm going to be
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Old 08-16-2011, 08:09 PM   #8478
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she txted me..
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Old 08-16-2011, 09:14 PM   #8479
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well i see ur in a new relationship, it was good while it lasted and was sad you moved =[ but im happy for you, you deserved it
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Old 08-16-2011, 09:17 PM   #8480
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why did i let you leave....without telling you....
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Old 08-16-2011, 09:24 PM   #8481
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Always with these guys that cry for attention and crossing the line. So tired.
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Old 08-16-2011, 09:32 PM   #8482
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to all those feeling depressed, heres a picture of a happy microwave.
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Old 08-16-2011, 09:50 PM   #8483
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gave up the rest of my life for those 6 years of freedom.... am I a fool or what...
and now I cannot do anything right..

my happiness was right in front of me but I just left without looking back... if only I wasn't so immature then..真的..抱歉, W. now I realize that no one can replace you but everything is too too late, countless of Shouldn't Haves

Sorry I still cannot wish you happy because... that could have been me...

U'll always be a memorable scar in my heart....the scar that was once closing up but somehow started to get worse again..

when will I find someone to cure this wound...
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Old 08-16-2011, 09:53 PM   #8484
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I put so much effort to hold on to this relationship...I know the stuff that happened in your past, and I don't mind. I'm not judging you at all because I know the you now is different from you in the past. You know I do so much for you and you say you love me, then you say I can find a better girl...wtf do you want. For me, I don't want this to end because I love you too. Everything is killing me inside and confusing me...
Maybe the stuff shes done in the past is still killing her self-esteem. She loves you for still sticking with her, but part of her still think that you can do better because she doesn't think shes the best? That you should be able to find someone who hasnt done what shes done? Just a guess
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yowza what the fuck is wrong with some girls these days man,

its like they want to be treated like shit

and have the nerve to bitch and moan about it
Agreed, just because they're girls doesn't mean they can treat others like shit and still get respect for it (some)

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Why do the posts here make more sense than the people giving "advice" in the other relationship threads who act all high and mighty like they know everything, and everyone everyone else there who agree blindly.
Cause we livin in the painn, those guys in other threads are all talk

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Fuck I want to send her a txt and ask her how her days been and all. I know I'm not gonna get anything back..bleh..should I still do it?
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Do it, always good to check up on her, at least you can say to yourself that you tried.

Aye, going to stop mourning over you now. I'm not going to forget you, not going to stop caring, im here if you ever need me, for anything, i just need to let go, and have a more positive outlook on life. Im losing sense of direction , idont give 2 shits about anything anymore, das badddddddddd. i love you :')
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Old 08-16-2011, 09:55 PM   #8485
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to all those feeling depressed, heres a picture of a happy microwave.
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just when I clipped Send after writing about depressing stuff, this happy face popped up in front of me XD

just what I needed ~~~~
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Old 08-16-2011, 11:01 PM   #8486
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just do it, if you keep not asking a girl out or scared to take her home it'll build to other girls if this girl will eventually fall in the "friendship" category, and.. buy my dom rebel!

A lot of you guys need to take the step of just asking her, going in, whether you like it or not, better than regretting it later on, even if you get rejected you're better off not worrying about her and off to looking for someone else
Thanks for the advice, but for me its actually telling her how i still feel after months of being forced apart. :P

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well i see ur in a new relationship, it was good while it lasted and was sad you moved =[ but im happy for you, you deserved it
I can see myself saying that within a few years Want them to be yours, but want them to move on for the better too. What do you call that?(word-wise.)

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Old 08-16-2011, 11:08 PM   #8487
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Old 08-17-2011, 12:27 AM   #8488
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wow, just get back home from vacay and you told me last night we would hang out and you don't even tell me you're cancelling, and it's to hang out with your friend?? WTF
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if you were unable to get closure from someone face to face, would you do it over the phone? or just wait till you can see them?
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Good Bye, maybe we were meant to be, but the timing wasn't right. I guess we are not mature enough to understand each other yet.
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it is all about timing

mine was sooooo off
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Old 08-17-2011, 07:59 AM   #8493
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Old 08-17-2011, 09:43 AM   #8494
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Don't do it over the phone. It'll never be as sincere and genuine.
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if you were unable to get closure from someone face to face, would you do it over the phone? or just wait till you can see them?
I just txt'd her, basically saying, "I guess I missed my chance to ask you in person, but I was wondering where we were at..." etc etc


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true, just in my situation, I had already figured out the answer, I just had to hear it.
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Old 08-17-2011, 11:48 AM   #8496
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If you just want the answer, not caring what the outcome is, phone or text is fine. (better than using the internet)

When you really care about the outcome and ready to hear the answer, then in person is the way to go.
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Old 08-17-2011, 02:03 PM   #8497
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so i kinda had a small thing for you, and you always told me you felt the same when you were with ur OLD OLD bf, then you moved on and i was like cus i thought i had a chance! then it turns out you are bi-sexual and everytime i try to get wit you, you said girls > boys , THEN it txted you last night and you replied this morning saying your with a guy you like ? Well i guess i get it now, time to move on and leave you in the past

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Old 08-17-2011, 02:54 PM   #8499
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Got a txt from her this morning made my day.. Hah
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