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insomniac 08-23-2011 03:20 PM

damn. how do i tell my best friend that i dont wanna date her? as shallow as this sounds, i dont even want to give her a chance. shes an awesome friend but lol no. to make things even worse, she just broke up with my other best friend of 6 years a few weeks ago. messages me every fucking day to chill or hang out. cant she take the hint? :seriously:

LenovoTurbo 08-23-2011 03:23 PM

I'm going to miss you a lot when you are gone :okay:

!Yaminashi 08-23-2011 03:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 737! (Post 7555269)
damn. how do i tell my best friend that i dont wanna date her? as shallow as this sounds, i dont even want to give her a chance. shes an awesome friend but lol no. to make things even worse, she just broke up with my other best friend of 6 years a few weeks ago. messages me every fucking day to chill or hang out. cant she take the hint? :seriously:

If she just recently broke up with her bf, it sounds like she's on the rebound which means she doesnt REALLY wanna date you.

She just wants the companionship to fill in that void.

Unless she broke up with him for you then.... you dun fucked up

mkings 08-23-2011 04:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 737! (Post 7555269)
damn. how do i tell my best friend that i dont wanna date her? as shallow as this sounds, i dont even want to give her a chance. shes an awesome friend but lol no. to make things even worse, she just broke up with my other best friend of 6 years a few weeks ago. messages me every fucking day to chill or hang out. cant she take the hint? :seriously:

REBOUND. You dun goofed. Give it some time, and when it comes down to it, ask her if she broke up with him for you.

/

Sigh, I've been expecting this, and it went straight to the heart. But meh, guess i can't blame you..fuck my life sometimes..:banghead:

insomniac 08-23-2011 05:05 PM

she broke up with my best friend because their relationship was already fading.. they broke up while he was on a vacation lol she was the one that broke it.

she doesnt seem to be on the rebound lol. she was there for me when i was going thru my relationshit and i was there when she was in hers before and during the beginning of summer. its not that i dont want to date her lol i dont wanna break up our friendship.

TOS'd 08-23-2011 05:19 PM

^ just chill/hang out as friends. Nothing more.

mkings 08-23-2011 05:28 PM

^, and make sure she gets nothing more out of it. If you feel adventurous, go on a little journey and see how far it'll take you :)
But yeah, if you do decide to go with her and it ends, your gonna realllly hate not having the same friendship :okay:

jtanner_ 08-23-2011 05:45 PM

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TOS'd 08-23-2011 07:39 PM

She called me "bro".....WTFFFFFFFFF

BaoTurbo 08-23-2011 07:41 PM

I went after her. She tooled me but still treated me as a friend. Then found someone else. I unfriended her on facebook because she's always active and updating things. Am I wrong?

insomniac 08-23-2011 07:51 PM

^naaah .

asked someone out for a date today. well hello, i now have something else to look for (besides a job FML) at the end of summer. :D

Nanaki 08-23-2011 08:25 PM

We have crazy chemistry, i make you laugh, we keep each other on our toes and have so much more in common than i ever thought we would...

Taking our time seeing where this could go....and it could get there....but you said you weren't really looking for a bf, BUT wouldn't want to pass up a great guy just because you thought you'd be single for longer....

jas_daddy 08-23-2011 08:29 PM

you can't fix stupid but I sure am gonna try cause your private parts taste oh so good!

mb_ 08-23-2011 09:32 PM

I think I'm starting to like you...

fanaticc 08-23-2011 10:29 PM

i wish i knew you had feelings for me.. sad to know i fucked it all up in the end.... but I guess we learn from these mistakes, become a better person, and move on in life.

mkings 08-23-2011 11:00 PM

Guess im the one left hanging. You've "forgotten me", and that its time for me to move on as well. Am i being weak for not being able to let go? I remember, 2 months ago you were on the same level as me. From there, your feelings dimnished, but icant blame you, since we cant be together anyway, and i, in one way or another, RUINED your life, even if i never intended to. Will you wait for me? Or do you hate me, and never want to talk to me and such. I tell myself every fucking moment to let go, and that im fine without you, but i just cant help the fact that, well, i love you.
I will always love you, don't you ever forget that(maybe you already have), and i will always be here for you.


THANK YOU for this thread ^_____^
Vent when you can't to anyone else.

LSF22 08-23-2011 11:28 PM

^ Love definitely makes us all fucking crazy. I feel ya bro

jing 08-23-2011 11:59 PM

:troll:

dlo 08-24-2011 01:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BaoTurbo (Post 7555528)
I went after her. She tooled me but still treated me as a friend. Then found someone else. I unfriended her on facebook because she's always active and updating things. Am I wrong?

This, and plus I dun wanna see her/hear her or known of her existence
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604778 08-24-2011 01:31 AM

I honestly don't know what to do anymore... I do want to tell you how I feel. But I don't know what the hell is stopping me. I leave on friday to go away for three weeks. I've been putting it off for so long now...I have everything pre typed out in my phone saying what I want to say to you.. But I just canrt say it... I asked her to chill before I go but she was busy. I txt her knowing she's free but no reply. I honestly don't want to give up on this girl. I can't be excited about this trip cause of what I'm feeling and what I NEED to do before I go.

Should I txt her what I have to say? I do want to say it in person but I don't know what's stopping me. I don't want to say it over the interne for sure.
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insomniac 08-24-2011 02:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 604778 (Post 7555897)
I honestly don't know what to do anymore... I do want to tell you how I feel. But I don't know what the hell is stopping me. I leave on friday to go away for three weeks. I've been putting it off for so long now...I have everything pre typed out in my phone saying what I want to say to you.. But I just canrt say it... I asked her to chill before I go but she was busy. I txt her knowing she's free but no reply. I honestly don't want to give up on this girl. I can't be excited about this trip cause of what I'm feeling and what I NEED to do before I go.

Should I txt her what I have to say? I do want to say it in person but I don't know what's stopping me. I don't want to say it over the interne for sure.
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Tell her. What's gotta be done has to be done. Express your feelings but don't make it long or it might freak her out. I learned this from !e.lo :fullofwin:

mruppal 08-24-2011 03:06 AM

You played your mind games for a little too long, 7 months too long to be more specific.. And I've had enough of it and now that I find someone else, you all of a sudden want more than what we are.. idk what to do.. you've done this too many times, not sure if I can take it anymore.
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siusiujeh 08-24-2011 04:10 AM

i really miss u
work is getting better but this job is not really what i want to do in the future
but i guess its good considering the economy now
really dont know when i can come back and hang out with u
im kinda tired,i really am, tired of work, tired of trying so hard to be with you
wish i can stop trying but thts just not me

hope everything works out in the end =)

Mr.HappySilp 08-24-2011 08:24 AM

why are girls so complicated? They say one thing but meant another in their heart.

jjson 08-24-2011 09:02 AM

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

"Girls are so gay" - A friend of mine


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