yuusha | 11-24-2008 07:08 PM | Quote:
Originally Posted by Raid3n
(Post 6139369)
haha sorry i couldn't resist.
dude, what are you doing.... gtfo of bed ... instead of crying in your pillow, pick your self up, and move on.
i'm not saying don't feel hurt or anything cause thats a sneaky bitch thing to do, but you gotta move on, or you'll end up some pathetic creepy guy....and you don't want that...
so get up, go have a couple beers with your buddies, and move on. show her what she's missing out on. and never, EVER, get back together with her. no matter how much she begs, pleads, or apologizes. her promises are empty, and she'd probably do it all over again.
/asshole | There are so many people I lost touch with because of this chick, just to curb her jealousy (and the opposite is also true). I did cry when I heard it straight from her mouth on the phone yesterday, but I spent all day today in bed because I took sleeping pills at 5am and wound up sleeping all day.
I honestly don't know where to start. I'm not back in school until next year, and it's hard to get reacquainted with people for now... the past two months with her was spending every other day with her, talking to her, webcamming with her, grabbing water or food for her while she's at work, picking her up and taking her home from work... Quote:
Originally Posted by katiejh
(Post 6139419)
so is she the jackass or are u really the jerk? | Sometimes I hurt her by just shutting up and leaving because I wanted to be left alone because I was ticked off and just needed to cool down. I know I'd blow up and I did when she would nag me. I was a huge jerk for not handling my own emotions. I know that one time I did take it too far and nearly slept with another woman, though, and confessed to her after a few months. I also hung out with some female friends (sometimes behind her back) despite her objections. All these things (my temper, hanging out with girls she didn't like, and that one incident) she has never let go. For these reasons, I'm a jerk.
Despite that, I've never fallen for anyone else, which was her biggest fear, yet she grew feelings for someone else and broke up with me in the span of a week. It makes me sick to think she's already with someone else so quickly.
Now that I think about it, she was always hiding how she felt. I just believed her lies and thought everything was working out recently. |