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mkings 09-05-2011 11:52 AM

Maybe its cause girls like to see guys willing to change for them -.^

LSF22 09-05-2011 12:00 PM

^ Too bad that works less than half the time. How often do you see a nice guy go for the bad girl n TRY to turn THEM nice...

!e.lo_ 09-05-2011 12:42 PM

but then the girl gets upset that he, "isn't who she fell in love with."
because you were changing him throughout the whole relationship!

a good guy doesn't go for a bad girl because guys know it's a waste of time.

Graeme S 09-05-2011 12:44 PM

Never, because the bad girls are the ones who do all the freaky shit the nice ones won't. Which applies in the reverse too.
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OTG-ZR2 09-05-2011 03:22 PM

What a great vacation so far.

So many stories. Can't even begin to tell them all.

First hour ended up meeting a awesome girl who was touring. We ended up spending all of our time together until she left.

Kind of miss her now :/

mkings 09-05-2011 04:23 PM

Should've got her number and all


Saw you once this entire summer, whatta facepalm compared to what we were...its bittersweet

StutteR_ 09-05-2011 07:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by !e.lo_ (Post 7568351)
...a good guy doesn't go for a bad girl because guys know it's a waste of time.

Exactly...why try it out when you know things aren't going to work out.

It sucks being the good guy sometimes.

"...bad girls are the ones who do all the freaky shit the nice ones won't" - Soo true!

LSF22 09-05-2011 07:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by !e.lo_ (Post 7568351)
but then the girl gets upset that he, "isn't who she fell in love with."
because you were changing him throughout the whole relationship!

a good guy doesn't go for a bad girl because guys know it's a waste of time.

Exactly. Guys are taught and told to appreciate and accept girls as they are. Don't change them and blah blah... why isn't that same standard applicable to these sort of women who EXPECT these bad boys to turn into nice guys? Not to say girls are incapable of change, the same can be said about certain guys. However, putting yourself in a relationship with a "bad boy" and hoping that within the next couple of months will turn into your nice boy toy is ridiculously :fulloffuck:.

It's a pretty simple equation. If you don't want us to change you, then stop trying to get us to change for you.

PJ 09-05-2011 09:43 PM

Just traded for a new car..
Car got keyed in the first 3 hours it was parked outside my home. :okay:

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Fcukedd 09-05-2011 11:04 PM


:fullofwin:

XplicitLuder 09-05-2011 11:10 PM

do you hate me that much ? You seem to put every blame in this house on me! What have i done to get you to pick on me every second ? someone recently asked me what i would do if i won 100m$ and i said id pay my uncle back for all that he's done for taking me into his family , but i left your ex-wife out. Yet here you go assuming that i like her more then you and i wont give a shit about you when i leave this house ? And thats why you treat me this bad.. because i went to her wedding ? you're a total hypocrite atm becasue everytime she's over you literally kiss her ass and try to get with her. So why are you treating me like i've done something SO wrong :alone:

THIS is why i wanna leave this house asap sometimes...

BaoTurbo 09-05-2011 11:13 PM

Time to meet some girlies at school woooooooo

FOREVER 09-05-2011 11:53 PM

:( will we ever spend time together during the school year?

Supafly 09-06-2011 06:04 AM

So my Ex shows up at my cousins funeral yesterday.....can shit really get any worse?

jtanner_ 09-06-2011 07:08 AM

Fuck you school. Back on that grind...

!Aznboi128 09-06-2011 07:16 AM

:fullofwin: wake up at 5:30 on day off.... time for some long island ice tea great morning wake up drink

:okay:

gdoh 09-06-2011 08:37 AM


melloman 09-06-2011 09:33 AM

Last night I broke up with my 4-year gf.. I just wanted to talk because sex wasn't that great (4-years ago it was twice a day. Now it's once every 2 weeks..) and everything spiralled out of control. We broke up and she took her house key and ran into the house crying.. I'm so devastated because I didn't want this to happen.. I just wanted to bring it up into conversation. We had this conversation once before and agreed that we'd break if nothing changed.. But it's so fucking hard on me right now.. I loved her, and she was my everthing.. and 1 bad decision has ended it for awhile. She said she would take me back but she needs some space to think about everything. But all I want to do is smother her with love. I'm soo depressed right now, taking a half day because right now at work I can't concentrate or do anything. fml.

Shugoy 09-06-2011 11:47 AM

i just split with my girl of over 2years recently, n she returned her house key to my place the pad lock @ her door is diff now i cant get in, all cause what i want has changed from b4 she still wants the same thing but i know the only way imma be able to pull through in school is if all my energy is focused on it, i still hope 2 be with her agian 1 day. Just been tanking it trying 2 push through everyday always good 2 have a couple friends 2 help ya out. Alll i can say really is i feel for ya man good luck.

MarkyMark 09-06-2011 02:25 PM

The girl of my dreams is going to live alone and not own multiple cats, or even one for that matter. Fuck I hate cats

dignatas 09-06-2011 02:42 PM

got phone number and everything with a hot chick but later found out she has a bf... :okay: I hate it when this happens. Has anyone ever had the feeling that they want her but she's taken. What have you guys done? Steal from bf or just leave her in the friends zone?

insomniac 09-06-2011 02:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dignatas (Post 7569436)
got phone number and everything with a hot chick but later found out she has a bf... :okay: I hate it when this happens. Has anyone ever had the feeling that they want her but she's taken. What have you guys done? Steal from bf or just leave her in the friends zone?

lol been there many times :/ i usually want to steal but i always end up in the friend zone :okay: :okay: :okay:
if shes unhappy with her bf and gives you a chance then take it. i got a chance a year ago, didnt take it and i really regretted not doing so.

dignatas 09-06-2011 03:02 PM

i WANT to steal but inside my heart says "back the fuck out and be in the friends zone" we sit and work with each other @ college lecture.... :fulloffuck: sometimes I want to be a nice guy too but i am so confused. They look sooo happy together :okay:

insomniac 09-06-2011 03:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dignatas (Post 7569459)
They look sooo happy together :okay:

in that case you shouldn't make any moves :/ imagine being her bf in this situation.. sorry man

jeff19 09-06-2011 04:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by melloman (Post 7569084)
Last night I broke up with my 4-year gf.. I just wanted to talk because sex wasn't that great (4-years ago it was twice a day. Now it's once every 2 weeks..) and everything spiralled out of control. We broke up and she took her house key and ran into the house crying.. I'm so devastated because I didn't want this to happen.. I just wanted to bring it up into conversation. We had this conversation once before and agreed that we'd break if nothing changed.. But it's so fucking hard on me right now.. I loved her, and she was my everthing.. and 1 bad decision has ended it for awhile. She said she would take me back but she needs some space to think about everything. But all I want to do is smother her with love. I'm soo depressed right now, taking a half day because right now at work I can't concentrate or do anything. fml.

give it time. if it's meant to be and if she cherishes any of the past 4 yrs, in the end you guys will have a chance to work it out. Like you said, all she needs is some time. As for you, you just have to learn to manage your emotions. Force yourself to focus on YOU 100%, and block out any negative thoughts. Being depressed will bring you nowhere but down and time will only be wasted.


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