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Relationship & Gender DiscussionTHIS SPACE OPEN FOR ADVERTISEMENT. YOU SHOULD BE ADVERTISING HERE! The thin line between love and hate
Mature discussion about understanding the opposite sex...
but then the girl gets upset that he, "isn't who she fell in love with."
because you were changing him throughout the whole relationship!
a good guy doesn't go for a bad girl because guys know it's a waste of time.
Exactly. Guys are taught and told to appreciate and accept girls as they are. Don't change them and blah blah... why isn't that same standard applicable to these sort of women who EXPECT these bad boys to turn into nice guys? Not to say girls are incapable of change, the same can be said about certain guys. However, putting yourself in a relationship with a "bad boy" and hoping that within the next couple of months will turn into your nice boy toy is ridiculously .
It's a pretty simple equation. If you don't want us to change you, then stop trying to get us to change for you.
do you hate me that much ? You seem to put every blame in this house on me! What have i done to get you to pick on me every second ? someone recently asked me what i would do if i won 100m$ and i said id pay my uncle back for all that he's done for taking me into his family , but i left your ex-wife out. Yet here you go assuming that i like her more then you and i wont give a shit about you when i leave this house ? And thats why you treat me this bad.. because i went to her wedding ? you're a total hypocrite atm becasue everytime she's over you literally kiss her ass and try to get with her. So why are you treating me like i've done something SO wrong
THIS is why i wanna leave this house asap sometimes...
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So my Ex shows up at my cousins funeral yesterday.....can shit really get any worse?
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Last night I broke up with my 4-year gf.. I just wanted to talk because sex wasn't that great (4-years ago it was twice a day. Now it's once every 2 weeks..) and everything spiralled out of control. We broke up and she took her house key and ran into the house crying.. I'm so devastated because I didn't want this to happen.. I just wanted to bring it up into conversation. We had this conversation once before and agreed that we'd break if nothing changed.. But it's so fucking hard on me right now.. I loved her, and she was my everthing.. and 1 bad decision has ended it for awhile. She said she would take me back but she needs some space to think about everything. But all I want to do is smother her with love. I'm soo depressed right now, taking a half day because right now at work I can't concentrate or do anything. fml.
i just split with my girl of over 2years recently, n she returned her house key to my place the pad lock @ her door is diff now i cant get in, all cause what i want has changed from b4 she still wants the same thing but i know the only way imma be able to pull through in school is if all my energy is focused on it, i still hope 2 be with her agian 1 day. Just been tanking it trying 2 push through everyday always good 2 have a couple friends 2 help ya out. Alll i can say really is i feel for ya man good luck.
got phone number and everything with a hot chick but later found out she has a bf... I hate it when this happens. Has anyone ever had the feeling that they want her but she's taken. What have you guys done? Steal from bf or just leave her in the friends zone?
got phone number and everything with a hot chick but later found out she has a bf... I hate it when this happens. Has anyone ever had the feeling that they want her but she's taken. What have you guys done? Steal from bf or just leave her in the friends zone?
lol been there many times :/ i usually want to steal but i always end up in the friend zone
if shes unhappy with her bf and gives you a chance then take it. i got a chance a year ago, didnt take it and i really regretted not doing so.
i WANT to steal but inside my heart says "back the fuck out and be in the friends zone" we sit and work with each other @ college lecture.... sometimes I want to be a nice guy too but i am so confused. They look sooo happy together
Last night I broke up with my 4-year gf.. I just wanted to talk because sex wasn't that great (4-years ago it was twice a day. Now it's once every 2 weeks..) and everything spiralled out of control. We broke up and she took her house key and ran into the house crying.. I'm so devastated because I didn't want this to happen.. I just wanted to bring it up into conversation. We had this conversation once before and agreed that we'd break if nothing changed.. But it's so fucking hard on me right now.. I loved her, and she was my everthing.. and 1 bad decision has ended it for awhile. She said she would take me back but she needs some space to think about everything. But all I want to do is smother her with love. I'm soo depressed right now, taking a half day because right now at work I can't concentrate or do anything. fml.
give it time. if it's meant to be and if she cherishes any of the past 4 yrs, in the end you guys will have a chance to work it out. Like you said, all she needs is some time. As for you, you just have to learn to manage your emotions. Force yourself to focus on YOU 100%, and block out any negative thoughts. Being depressed will bring you nowhere but down and time will only be wasted.