People say I could have done better, could I?

if she asks to hang out with me, is it best I stay away? She wants to still talk and casually asks me how its going and the such but I don't reply all the time. I'm really thinking wow, you ditched me and are hoping you're going to find someone better, and I know she did wrong, hell...so wrong. Some part of me still wants me to be with her so I don't know. I don't want to get comfortable or go through this honeymoonfriend stage that happens after a breakup and then end up being shot down again because shes ready to move on. Just ignore her or what?

straight up ask her what her motives are before agreeing to do anything with her. Does she want to hang out because she just wants someone there? or does she want to hang out because she feels that she did something wrong and wants to fix things with you? The way i see it, she just misses you, you're just an option to her until shes finds that 'better person'. Talking casually is ok, just dont invest emotions into it. If you cant do that, then it's probably best to stay as far away as you can.

Ok. So I admit. I suck at flirting.
How do I know?
The conversation ended with her talking about walking out of a restaurant cause somebody puked.

Hindsight is 20/20 :seriously:

I'm in the same situation.. yet I fucked up.

It's really what you want to invest.. you could get hurt again, very possible.
To me, I had to ask myself.. "Is she worth getting hurt again?" I broke up with my gf by saying some trust-breaking (her point of view) things, and now looking back I should've eased into it instead of waiting and letting it explode.

She could see you as a "filler" for now, or she could feel "guilty" and her conscience is bothering her, and she feels she needs to make things right. Or she could be like me... knowing that hey "I fucked up, I want to be friends, and I want to mend things back into a relationship.. because I know that I lost something that was really good, and all I want is it back.."

Again man, the question you have to ask yourself is...
"Is she worth getting hurt again?"

Personally I'd give her a shot, but I wouldn't "treat her like a princess" again. Just be friends and take it slow.. then if nothing happens, you won't be too emotionally attached and it'll hurt less if there is that hurt.

I talked to you today.. you sound like your getting better. I hope we can be friends and you'll start to trsut me again. I'll never be over you, but everyday it hurts a little bit less.

Thank god for friends. <3 the bro's

^amen to that, bros are always around to make your life better

WHY DO YOU DO THIS TO ME:alone::alone:

it's a him that she's referring too ;)

if i get the job tomorrow..life is set :alone:

+1. Good luck man. Hope we aren't applying for the same job LOOL
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haha thanks B! and hopefully LMFAO or who knows..maybe we both get hired :D

stoked on life! Got the job :alone:

Congrats! Was it that valet one?

I guess that means 737 didnt get a job..

still jobless.. :okay:

sucks when this happens with good friends



before you complain about my attitude while talking to you, listen to yourself and maybe you'll realize why i walked away

i applied at bj bmw on boundary, gonna be working at bj autohaus tho for lot staff

we applied for different jobs ;p

:Petting , it's okie broo it takes time, i know :okay:

I'm back from the Philippines on Sunday...
I hope to see you when I get back.

are they still hiring :D

i believe so! big chance if you have full time availabilty like moi

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