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09-13-2011, 03:15 PM
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09-13-2011, 04:31 PM
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People say I could have done better, could I?
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09-13-2011, 04:53 PM
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#8903 | | RS controls my life!
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Originally Posted by jeff19  ^ you said it yourself. don't make her a priority if youre not a priority for her. im going through pretty much the same thing... i have a busy life now that im focusing im school and working towards my career, but she's clubbing/drinking with her new found friends and that seems to be her new lifestyle atm. yet she still talks to me like she needs me. w'ere not tgt atm as well, which is why you don't need to invest more emotions as you should into her. acting on emotions and feelings from your heart will only fuck you over in the end, and hse will continue to manipulate your feelings because she knows that you still want her regardless of whether youre important to her or not. dont be an option to her when you can be a priority to someone more deserving of it. | if she asks to hang out with me, is it best I stay away? She wants to still talk and casually asks me how its going and the such but I don't reply all the time. I'm really thinking wow, you ditched me and are hoping you're going to find someone better, and I know she did wrong, hell...so wrong. Some part of me still wants me to be with her so I don't know. I don't want to get comfortable or go through this honeymoonfriend stage that happens after a breakup and then end up being shot down again because shes ready to move on. Just ignore her or what?
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09-13-2011, 05:37 PM
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straight up ask her what her motives are before agreeing to do anything with her. Does she want to hang out because she just wants someone there? or does she want to hang out because she feels that she did something wrong and wants to fix things with you? The way i see it, she just misses you, you're just an option to her until shes finds that 'better person'. Talking casually is ok, just dont invest emotions into it. If you cant do that, then it's probably best to stay as far away as you can.
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09-13-2011, 05:55 PM
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#8905 | | My bookmarks are Reddit and REVscene, in that order
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Ok. So I admit. I suck at flirting.
How do I know?
The conversation ended with her talking about walking out of a restaurant cause somebody puked.
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09-14-2011, 01:29 AM
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#8906 | | Summertime Sadness
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09-14-2011, 08:47 AM
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#8907 | | My homepage has been set to RS
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Originally Posted by Alar if she asks to hang out with me, is it best I stay away? She wants to still talk and casually asks me how its going and the such but I don't reply all the time. I'm really thinking wow, you ditched me and are hoping you're going to find someone better, and I know she did wrong, hell...so wrong. Some part of me still wants me to be with her so I don't know. I don't want to get comfortable or go through this honeymoonfriend stage that happens after a breakup and then end up being shot down again because shes ready to move on. Just ignore her or what? | I'm in the same situation.. yet I fucked up.
It's really what you want to invest.. you could get hurt again, very possible.
To me, I had to ask myself.. "Is she worth getting hurt again?" I broke up with my gf by saying some trust-breaking (her point of view) things, and now looking back I should've eased into it instead of waiting and letting it explode.
She could see you as a "filler" for now, or she could feel "guilty" and her conscience is bothering her, and she feels she needs to make things right. Or she could be like me... knowing that hey "I fucked up, I want to be friends, and I want to mend things back into a relationship.. because I know that I lost something that was really good, and all I want is it back.."
Again man, the question you have to ask yourself is...
"Is she worth getting hurt again?"
Personally I'd give her a shot, but I wouldn't "treat her like a princess" again. Just be friends and take it slow.. then if nothing happens, you won't be too emotionally attached and it'll hurt less if there is that hurt.
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09-14-2011, 08:50 AM
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I talked to you today.. you sound like your getting better. I hope we can be friends and you'll start to trsut me again. I'll never be over you, but everyday it hurts a little bit less.
Thank god for friends.  the bro's
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09-14-2011, 03:39 PM
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#8909 | | RS controls my life!
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^amen to that, bros are always around to make your life better
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09-14-2011, 09:02 PM
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#8910 | | I Will not Admit my Addiction to RS
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09-14-2011, 09:03 PM
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#8911 | | Banned (ABWS)
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Originally Posted by FI-SP23 what. a. DOUCHE. | it's a him that she's referring too  | |
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09-14-2011, 09:04 PM
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#8912 | | Throw yo paws in da air!
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if i get the job tomorrow..life is set
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09-14-2011, 09:07 PM
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Originally Posted by XplicitLuder if i get the job tomorrow..life is set | +1. Good luck man. Hope we aren't applying for the same job LOOL Posted via RS Mobile | |
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09-14-2011, 10:37 PM
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#8914 | | Throw yo paws in da air!
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Originally Posted by 737! +1. Good luck man. Hope we aren't applying for the same job LOOL Posted via RS Mobile | haha thanks B! and hopefully LMFAO or who knows..maybe we both get hired 
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09-14-2011, 11:55 PM
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#8915 | | Better safe than Surrey
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09-15-2011, 02:47 PM
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#8916 | | Throw yo paws in da air!
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stoked on life! Got the job
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09-15-2011, 03:21 PM
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#8917 | | Summertime Sadness
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Originally Posted by XplicitLuder stoked on life! Got the job | Congrats! Was it that valet one?
__________________ LSF22 (1-0-0) [15-01, 11:33] ICE BOY i'm going to wrap my dick in a crepe and make you suck the filling [[09-10, 11:34] ICE BOY liquor in the front, poker in the rear | |
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09-15-2011, 04:42 PM
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#8918 | | :inoutugh:
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Originally Posted by XplicitLuder stoked on life! Got the job | I guess that means 737 didnt get a job..
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09-15-2011, 05:10 PM
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#8919 | | Diagonally parked in a parallel universe
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09-15-2011, 05:38 PM
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Originally Posted by LSF22 | sucks when this happens with good friends
before you complain about my attitude while talking to you, listen to yourself and maybe you'll realize why i walked away
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09-15-2011, 06:14 PM
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#8921 | | Throw yo paws in da air!
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Originally Posted by LSF22 Congrats! Was it that valet one? | i applied at bj bmw on boundary, gonna be working at bj autohaus tho for lot staff Quote:
Originally Posted by TOS'd I guess that means 737 didnt get a job.. | we applied for different jobs ;p Quote:
Originally Posted by see.lai still jobless.. |  , it's okie broo it takes time, i know
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09-15-2011, 06:29 PM
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#8922 | | Work hard, Play Hard - Wiz
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I'm back from the Philippines on Sunday...
I hope to see you when I get back.
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09-15-2011, 06:47 PM
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#8923 | | Diagonally parked in a parallel universe
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Originally Posted by XplicitLuder i applied at bj bmw on boundary, gonna be working at bj autohaus tho for lot staff , it's okie broo it takes time, i know | are they still hiring | |
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09-15-2011, 07:12 PM
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#8924 | | Throw yo paws in da air!
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Originally Posted by see.lai are they still hiring | i believe so! big chance if you have full time availabilty like moi
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09-15-2011, 08:03 PM
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