yuusha | 12-07-2008 10:36 PM | Quote:
Originally Posted by poweredbyph
(Post 6158918)
Girls are just wierd. Their thoughts are someone irrational. When they miss you, they call you and when you call them back, they will ignore you.
It is like a game to them even though they do not admit to it. Just move on and ignore her.. Pain will heal over time. | It's impossible. I can't ignore her calls. She tells me everything that displeases her about her new relationship, like him only saying she's "cute" but not pretty or beautiful or gorgeous, how he's only barely as tall as her, how she doesn't feel comfortable enough with him to show him her true self yet, how he comes from a nice family compared to either of our modest families, how she feels like he's not really physically attracted to her.
I try to tell her that with time he will come to appreciate her beauty and how her co-workers and other people have gone after her despite her perceived lack of beauty, how family pedigree hasn't yet affected his perception of her, how she will grow closer to him and become as comfortable with him as she was with me. It's so hard to support her decision, to support her new relationship with him as a friend, cheering from the sidelines when all I want to do is jump back into the race, and get her back.
Despite telling her it's disrespectful to her new BF, that I'm still not over her, she still calls...
... and I still pick up.
I told her something on the phone which has bothered her a lot. She complained about having size 6 feet, and how big that is compared to her friends. I told her, "Do you know what they say about girls with big feet? They're bound to get up on those feet and leave you someday. That's why they practiced foot binding in China, so women couldn't leave their husbands." |