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11-29-2011, 02:48 AM
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Originally Posted by XplicitLuder  oh me too, i wasnt planning on doing it all the time. I did it the first time tho and i dont think she liked it  | I call her bb (baby) sometimes. I don't do it often but I also know she likes to hear it. I only do it whenever I really appreciate what she did for me or I'm really thankful. Just bonus words to make a girl feel special 
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11-29-2011, 08:38 AM
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It's funny how you call someone to rant to them.. and in the process they get pissed off at you..
Note to self: Never call that person to rant to them again. =|
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11-29-2011, 08:51 AM
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11-29-2011, 10:56 AM
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#9929 | | F**K YOUR HEAD
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Originally Posted by XplicitLuder Is it wrong to call my gf baby/babe and all those "smushy" words ? ahh this is gonna be something that's gonna bug me | I don't do it but pet names maybe? Feels awkward to call her that at least IMO
baby/babe seems really high school :/
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11-29-2011, 11:00 AM
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Just booked a euthanization appointment for my dog on Sat.... Fuck I'll never get a dog if I have to deal with this again.
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11-29-2011, 12:18 PM
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Originally Posted by ilvtofu I don't do it but pet names maybe? Feels awkward to call her that at least IMO
baby/babe seems really high school :/ | yep no doubt.... i used to call my exgf --> Hun. Short for hunnie.
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11-29-2011, 02:14 PM
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I hate how some people can suddenly block you out of their life. Why can I not do the same? I hate how there's always this glimpse of hope I hold onto.
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11-29-2011, 04:00 PM
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#9933 | | I STILL don't get it
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11-29-2011, 08:36 PM
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^ fuck. Reading that shit just made me depressed hah. Posted via RS Mobile | |
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11-29-2011, 11:05 PM
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#9935 | | Throw yo paws in da air!
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Originally Posted by ilvtofu I don't do it but pet names maybe? Feels awkward to call her that at least IMO
baby/babe seems really high school :/ | she says she prefers "spider monkey" haha , i guess she got that nickname from her friends. Oh well, i'll work around it. Maybe ill drop the b word once a month only haha
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11-29-2011, 11:13 PM
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#9936 | | WUB WUB WUB WUB WUB
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Originally Posted by XplicitLuder she says she prefers "spider monkey" haha , i guess she got that nickname from her friends. Oh well, i'll work around it. Maybe ill drop the b word once a month only haha | 
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11-29-2011, 11:27 PM
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Too must heartache. Bad timing . Sighhh
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11-30-2011, 12:20 AM
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#9938 | | Throw yo paws in da air!
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Originally Posted by mb_ | that's what i thought! LOL like i said i much rather prefer babe/baby... but whatever wins me brownie points i guess 
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11-30-2011, 12:25 AM
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#9939 | | I wish I was where I was when I wished I was here
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Originally Posted by XplicitLuder but whatever wins me brownie points i guess | Whoootschhhhh  Posted via RS Mobile | |
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11-30-2011, 12:29 AM
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#9940 | | Throw yo paws in da air!
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Originally Posted by hchang | you mean, WOOO-PSSHHHH
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11-30-2011, 12:36 AM
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#9941 | | I STILL don't get it
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I think I just got cheated on.
We broke up a couple weeks ago, after she came back from the States. I know I shouldn't have but I just checked her facebook and she listed herself as being in a relationship. Anniversary date was day she came back from the States.
I remember asking her that day if I can pick her up at the airport. She said no need as a friend is getting her.
She gave me false hope at the breakup, too. She asked me about my birthday which was coming up and also told me she would fly back(from the States where she will be living) to watch me at a competition. I'm disappointed as I thought she was better than this.
I had been feeling much better about the break up, up until I learned of this. I feel betrayed and crushed. I want answers! I feel like kicking that guy's ass and slapping her in the face. I'm not a woman beater by a long stretch but wtf!
Please help.
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11-30-2011, 12:40 AM
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#9942 | | Throw yo paws in da air!
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Originally Posted by Shades I think I just got cheated on.
We broke up a couple weeks ago, after she came back from the States. I know I shouldn't have but I just checked her facebook and she listed herself as being in a relationship. Anniversary date was day she came back from the States.
I remember asking her that day if I can pick her up at the airport. She said no need as a friend is getting her.
She gave me false hope at the breakup, too. She asked me about my birthday which was coming up and also told me she would fly back(from the States where she will be living) to watch me at a competition. I'm disappointed as I thought she was better than this.
I had been feeling much better about the break up, up until I learned of this. I feel betrayed and crushed. I want answers! I feel like kicking that guy's ass and slapping her in the face. I'm not a woman beater by a long stretch but wtf!
Please help. | tell her you need to speak to her and its urgent, and vent everything you just said to her. If she says otherwise and you still have that gut feeling that she's lying to you, she's not worth your time and you can do better. Breaking up is not easy, believe that. But in the end we can either chose to stay the same and be depressed, or go out and find someone/something that we love to be with/do and move on from the past. Sorry to hear that though, i know how it feels to be cheated on and it sucks
ps : or as the master troll zyzz says, move on which is the other part of my fail advise 
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11-30-2011, 01:07 AM
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#9943 | | I STILL don't get it
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I don't know if talking to her is the best idea. For my sake, I don't want to come off desperate and ruin my image of being mature. In the end, I want to walk away with dignity.
But this feeling of anger makes me want to do something immature.
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11-30-2011, 01:14 AM
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#9944 | | Banned (ABWS)
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Originally Posted by XplicitLuder tell her you need to speak to her and its urgent, and vent everything you just said to her. If she says otherwise and you still have that gut feeling that she's lying to you, she's not worth your time and you can do better. Breaking up is not easy, believe that. But in the end we can either chose to stay the same and be depressed, or go out and find someone/something that we love to be with/do and move on from the past. Sorry to hear that though, i know how it feels to be cheated on and it sucks | ^Fail crap is fail.
Girls are like that. They will stay with guys they don't like or like that much, until a better guy appears, i.e. hopping from tree to tree, rather than being single.
There is probably intention of breaking up before hand, the new guy is either the last straw that broke the camel's back, or the guy is just that much better (richer, hotter, smarter, etc.)
There is no point in thinking about it anymore. Improve yourself (save money, work out, spend time with friends, new dates, etc.). A shitload of people have walked your road before. Give heart out, prepare to get hurt. Never give heart out, never get hurt.
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11-30-2011, 01:26 AM
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#9945 | | I STILL don't get it
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Thanks. I need to make money my girlfriend from now on.
I was just caught off guard by what she did. You're right, the relationship in the last week before she had left for the States was rocky but I thought I could save it when she came back.
Right now, I'm seeing a girl. She is really really nice to me as she's had assholes for boyfriends before and I'm quite the opposite. I don't feel the same way about her though but I had let her known right from the beginning that I wasn't looking for anything serious.
To be honest, I thought I was going to marry this ex girlfriend at some future date as she has qualities I want in a wife. I would have never thought she would be a cheater. I feel like throwing up.
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11-30-2011, 01:29 AM
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#9946 | | I STILL don't get it
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I saw a picture of the guy on facebook. He looks like Jing Wu from Sha Po Lang. I'm better looking  | |
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11-30-2011, 01:39 AM
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Originally Posted by Shades ^
Thanks. I need to make money my girlfriend from now on.
I was just caught off guard by what she did. You're right, the relationship in the last week before she had left for the States was rocky but I thought I could save it when she came back.
Right now, I'm seeing a girl. She is really really nice to me as she's had assholes for boyfriends before and I'm quite the opposite. I don't feel the same way about her though but I had let her known right from the beginning that I wasn't looking for anything serious.
To be honest, I thought I was going to marry this ex girlfriend at some future date as she has qualities I want in a wife. I would have never thought she would be a cheater. I feel like throwing up. | Yep thats the spirit. The sooner you realize how this game works, the less chance you get hurt again in the future. Just a small note on that bolded part, a lot of girls say that, so take that with a grain of salt. This is from an objective point of view. Its good that you are not looking for anything serious, good things often surprise you when you least expect it, but when you expect something, there will be disappointments.
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I saw a picture of the guy on facebook. He looks like Jing Wu from Sha Po Lang. I'm better looking | lol. gjdm
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11-30-2011, 02:26 AM
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#9948 | | 14 dolla balla aint got nothing on me!
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I feel as if I'm missing something right now... It bothers me every night.... I constantly ask myself what am I missing but I can't seem to find the answer to my question...
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11-30-2011, 03:04 AM
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Personality, looks, money, cars.
What I need is timing.
(sounds cocky yea, but those who know me, know exactly what I'm talking about)
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11-30-2011, 05:39 PM
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