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Mature discussion about understanding the opposite sex...
wann grab u kiss u dhen get on ma knees nd kiss ure juicy yummy pussy dhen eat it till u squirt while im eatin u i pky w ure nipples dhen i suk ure cum nd eqt it more nd suk it till u dont cum twice dhen go up to ure chest finger ure ass hole while sukin nd eatin ure teddies dhen tke ma dick out nd tease u w it dhen.imma fuk ure teddies till i cum
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"Just because any car nut can tell you every possible performance specification of a Ferrari doesn't mean he can drive. Most of these people live in places where they've never even seen a Ferrari, much less ever owned one themselves."
Gov't site needs flash shit this, asian font pack that, IE this, incorrect steps that requires us to follow precisely but its fucking wrong
fuck i thought ppl in vancouver are dumb, here is dumber
Your gramma is terrible.....
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"Just because any car nut can tell you every possible performance specification of a Ferrari doesn't mean he can drive. Most of these people live in places where they've never even seen a Ferrari, much less ever owned one themselves."
is a 30 minute drive really that far of a distance to have a relationship? you feel like we can't be together just because you live in vancouver and i live in surrey? what an excuse -_-
I've heard this before..
If they expect you to go seem them every day - it is an issue.
Set your expectations and things will be better.
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Sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is, it's not our loss, but theirs, for they left the only person who couldn't give up on them.
Make the effort and take the risk..
"Do what you feel in your heart to be right- for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't." - Eleanor Roosevelt
I've heard this before..
If they expect you to go seem them every day - it is an issue.
Set your expectations and things will be better.
jesus....I lived in bby and my exgf lived at ubc....i went and saw her everyday.
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"Just because any car nut can tell you every possible performance specification of a Ferrari doesn't mean he can drive. Most of these people live in places where they've never even seen a Ferrari, much less ever owned one themselves."
i should've asked. i'm such an idiot. saw you going up the elevator and all i had to do was stop the door from closing and ask. now i may have missed my chance forever.
choked as fuck. venthardmadasfuckgonnabeatthefuckoutofsomeone
why do you honestly have to be like this baby you make me wanna fucking die sometimes, you did something wrong and now your the one leaving me like holy shit the only FUCKING think I want is you I want to be with you no matter what but your making it so fucking hard on me babe I just want to fucking love you without crying can't you do that I'm TRYING SO HARD and you leave me when im at my worst just because im upset? why do you have to do this Im fighting back so hard and I want to love you with all my heart because your worth it your number 1 but how can i when you always leave me and im scared CAUSE YOU ALWAYS SAY THAT YOU WON'T BUT HOW DO I KNOW THAT YOUR NOT TRICKING ME I DON'[T WANT TO LET YOU GO FOR EVEN A SECOND , im so fucking choked right now and I don't know what to do I JUST WANT YOU PLEASE HONESTLY HOW MANY TIMES DO YOU HAVE TO DO THIS TO ME im crying so hard right now so mad I'm going to fuck someone up either myself or someone elsek, fucujkjxczkczxkzxckzxckzcxkzcxkzckx SO PISSED WHY WHY ARE YOU LEAVING ME WHEN YOU CALLED ANOTHER GUY CUTE HUH WHY COULDN'T YOU JUST LEAVE HIM ALONE, ITS SO FUCKING HARD BUT WHENEVER WE FIGHT YOU LEAVE ME AND I'M ALWAYS THE ONE FUCKING ALONE UPSET WITH NO ONE AND I DON'T WANT THAT I JUST WANT FUCKING YOU TO KNOW THAT YOUR MY FUCKING EVERYTHING YOU DON'T KNOW HOW MUCH YOU FUCKING MEAN TO ME DO YOU ?YOUR THE GREATESTSE FGRSFSDDSFFDS........... But please don't stop trying /: can you get your act better thats all im asking for thats all I need I don't want to have trust issues with you anymore i want to be able to know everything is the truth i shouldn't be even thinking about you and another guy and i want to THROW MY LIFE away for you to trust you enough not to talk to anyone else thats a guy in a fuckin flirty way all and all I love you catherine and even though I'm mad and upset your still in my heart and always will be.
choked as fuck. venthardmadasfuckgonnabeatthefuckoutofsomeone
why do you honestly have to be like this baby you make me wanna fucking die sometimes, you did something wrong and now your the one leaving me like holy shit the only FUCKING think I want is you I want to be with you no matter what but your making it so fucking hard on me babe I just want to fucking love you without crying can't you do that I'm TRYING SO HARD and you leave me when im at my worst just because im upset? why do you have to do this Im fighting back so hard and I want to love you with all my heart because your worth it your number 1 but how can i when you always leave me and im scared CAUSE YOU ALWAYS SAY THAT YOU WON'T BUT HOW DO I KNOW THAT YOUR NOT TRICKING ME I DON'[T WANT TO LET YOU GO FOR EVEN A SECOND , im so fucking choked right now and I don't know what to do I JUST WANT YOU PLEASE HONESTLY HOW MANY TIMES DO YOU HAVE TO DO THIS TO ME im crying so hard right now so mad I'm going to fuck someone up either myself or someone elsek, fucujkjxczkczxkzxckzxckzcxkzcxkzckx SO PISSED WHY WHY ARE YOU LEAVING ME WHEN YOU CALLED ANOTHER GUY CUTE HUH WHY COULDN'T YOU JUST LEAVE HIM ALONE, ITS SO FUCKING HARD BUT WHENEVER WE FIGHT YOU LEAVE ME AND I'M ALWAYS THE ONE FUCKING ALONE UPSET WITH NO ONE AND I DON'T WANT THAT I JUST WANT FUCKING YOU TO KNOW THAT YOUR MY FUCKING EVERYTHING YOU DON'T KNOW HOW MUCH YOU FUCKING MEAN TO ME DO YOU ?YOUR THE GREATESTSE FGRSFSDDSFFDS........... But please don't stop trying /: can you get your act better thats all im asking for thats all I need I don't want to have trust issues with you anymore i want to be able to know everything is the truth i shouldn't be even thinking about you and another guy and i want to THROW MY LIFE away for you to trust you enough not to talk to anyone else thats a guy in a fuckin flirty way all and all I love you catherine and even though I'm mad and upset your still in my heart and always will be.
I try to stay out of this thread ..
no offence but, it sounds like you're in your first relationship. It sucks because you expect the the other person to share the same emotions, and the same level of emotion, but unfortunately here it's not the case. You're naive for believing that, but learn from your mistakes. The fact that she's alway the one leaving you when you fight should tell you something. Sometimes a third person's perspective can be the most sane.
She's your first, you're gonna think the following
1) I want to marry her
2) She's the only one for me
3) She's so amazing, I'll never find a girl like her
4)We fight a lot but it's worth it because we love each other
5) I'll never find someone like her ever again
It's bullshit. You may/may not be in love with her, but she seems like she likes the idea of you, but doesn't really love you. You gotta look past this. Say she leaves you, what's gonna happen? Depressed for a week or two, then you decide fuck this shit, she's not worth it. Start going to the gym, start busting your ass in school, a few months go by and whose going to be in the better place? Part of growing up is learning when something is going to work, and when it isn't. Never ever fall into the trap of thinking "we've been together xx amount of years, omg, I can never leave her".
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no offence but, it sounds like you're in your first relationship. It sucks because you expect the the other person to share the same emotions, and the same level of emotion, but unfortunately here it's not the case. You're naive for believing that, but learn from your mistakes. The fact that she's alway the one leaving you when you fight should tell you something. Sometimes a third person's perspective can be the most sane.
She's your first, you're gonna think the following
1) I want to marry her
2) She's the only one for me
3) She's so amazing, I'll never find a girl like her
4)We fight a lot but it's worth it because we love each other
5) I'll never find someone like her ever again
It's bullshit. You may/may not be in love with her, but she seems like she likes the idea of you, but doesn't really love you. You gotta look past this. Say she leaves you, what's gonna happen? Depressed for a week or two, then you decide fuck this shit, she's not worth it. Start going to the gym, start busting your ass in school, a few months go by and whose going to be in the better place? Part of growing up is learning when something is going to work, and when it isn't. Never ever fall into the trap of thinking "we've been together xx amount of years, omg, I can never leave her".
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Dear 16-year-old me,
First of all, stop fucking trying to play the "nice guy". You're not being a nice guy, you're being an ingratiating worm and people see right through it. It doesn't help, and the fact that it doesn't help isn't the fault of girls or society.
Avoid niceguyism. Being considerate and playing the "nice guy" are not the same thing. One is genuine kindness; one is pathetically doing shit for others to bribe them into liking you. People will know the difference.
Relax. Don't try so fucking hard. Show consideration for people, and never take advantage. Always add value; never lower it. They WILL notice how you treat them, and their opinion of you will adjust accordingly.
Don't try to get people to like you; like them first, and the rest will follow. Be glad to see them, smile when you talk to them. Be genuine with this, or it won't count. People aren't dumb.
Say nothing negative about anyone unless you do it to their face, and don't do that unless you're defending something or someone you believe in. When it's time for that, though, don't hesitate. Use tact if you can, but don't back down.
You know that friend you have who talks behind other friends' backs? He does that to you when you're not around. If YOU do that, people won't trust you any more than you trust him. Plus, they'll hear about it, and you'll lose them and everyone in their circle. It doesn't matter if others are gossiping about someone; see the good in them or say nothing. No exceptions.
Never compromise your integrity. Don't sacrifice yourself, but otherwise do the right thing at all times, solely because it is the right thing. Make ZERO effort to get recognition for being thoughtful, respectful, or even cool; just do it, whether you think people will notice or not. If your little 16-year-old brain needs a selfish reason, consider this: Eventually, even by sheer coincidence, people WILL learn of your actions, and they'll know whether you tried to get credit or not--no matter how subtle you tried to be. That will be the moment when they decide who you are.
Life is not fair and you are not a unique snowflake. Learn to use and love the social framework instead of bitching about it. Learning to play the game and enjoy it is a lot easier than whining about how girls don't like nice guys and blah blah blah. If people don't notice how awesome you are, that's your fault, not theirs.
So, you're starting to hit the gym. That's good, but you need to have more discipline. Work out even when you don't feel like it. When you get tired, push on. And just lifting isn't enough! You need cardio too, chubby, it's the only way to get that six-pack you want.
Stop giving a fuck about high school drama. Two years from now, you'll graduate and everything will be erased: social circles, reputation, your feelings for that chick you're pining for. Only the lessons will remain, so make them count.
Yes, you will get laid. Eventually it will happen a lot, with increasingly hotter girls. Don't worry about that now, and don't invest time, money, and effort into trying to score; invest it in becoming more awesome, and the rest will follow. Work on yourself, and soon pussy will be everywhere you are.
The friend zone is a trap. There are ways to defeat it, but you have to know what the fuck you're doing. Until then, it's better to eject and not waste time. Your time is precious.
She isn't The One. Stop it.
If you have an opportunity, stop being a pussy and take it. That girl who invites you over to watch movies alone wants to fuck you, dumbass. Don't wait for the perfect moment, just be a boss and make a move.
Grades come first. Get that scholarship before you worry about anything else. High school drama falls away like chaff, but school loans are forever.
If you need motivation, here are pictures of my three most recent female dalliances. Now get to it.
Love,
Future You
fuck, that was awesome i was genuinely the nice guy that everyone loved and i always thought i would forever be stuck in the friend zone. But i never stopped being the nice guy (cus it was a genuine feeling) and look where im at now ? Fuckin lovin life!
ps : i wish i talked/thought like you when i was 16...
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that feeling when you sittin on the couch watchin a movie with your girlfriend and she gives you a light warm kiss on the cheek and puts her head back on your shoulder like nothing ever happened....
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CAUSE YOU ALWAYS SAY THAT YOU WON'T BUT HOW DO I KNOW THAT YOUR NOT TRICKING ME I DON'[T WANT TO LET YOU GO FOR EVEN A SECOND , im so fucking choked right now and I don't know what to do I JUST WANT YOU PLEASE HONESTLY HOW MANY TIMES DO YOU HAVE TO DO THIS TO ME im crying so hard right now so mad I'm going to fuck someone up either myself or someone elsek, fucujkjxczkczxkzxckzxckzcxkzcxkzckx SO PISSED WHY WHY ARE YOU LEAVING ME WHEN YOU CALLED ANOTHER GUY CUTE HUH WHY COULDN'T YOU JUST LEAVE HIM ALONE, ITS SO FUCKING HARD BUT WHENEVER WE FIGHT YOU LEAVE ME AND I'M ALWAYS THE ONE FUCKING ALONE UPSET WITH NO ONE AND I DON'T WANT THAT I JUST WANT FUCKING YOU TO KNOW THAT YOUR MY FUCKING EVERYTHING YOU DON'T KNOW HOW MUCH YOU FUCKING MEAN TO ME DO YOU ?YOUR THE GREATESTSE FGRSFSDDSFFDS........... But please don't stop trying /: can you get your act better thats all im asking for thats all I need I don't want to have trust issues with you anymore i want to be able to know everything is the truth i shouldn't be even thinking about you and another guy and i want to THROW MY LIFE away for you to trust you enough not to talk to anyone else thats a guy in a fuckin flirty way all and all I love you catherine and even though I'm mad and upset your still in my heart and always will be.
my plan is going well!
why does a girl who i haven't spoken to in 5 years randomly bones me....
i was genuinely the nice guy that everyone loved and i always thought i would forever be stuck in the friend zone. But i never stopped being the nice guy (cus it was a genuine feeling) and look where im at now ? Fuckin lovin life! 
