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12-22-2011, 09:48 AM
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12-22-2011, 11:10 AM
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#10177 | | Banned By Establishment
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Originally Posted by Razor Ramon HG  My girlfriend never contacts me first. Brought it up before, but she still does it. Fuck it, time to do some no contact and let the bitch come to me. Ain't even going to say Merry Christmas until she comes back from NY.  | Worst mistake you'll ever make. Texting/Contacting her is a way of you letting her know your thinking of her.
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12-22-2011, 11:25 AM
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#10178 | | Banned (ABWS)
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| starting to develop feelings for one of my close female friends, even though i'm still with my girlfriend (been together 17 months) ...  fuckfuckfuckfuckfuck
maybe i should stop talking to her, & distance myself for a short while ... | |
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12-22-2011, 11:48 AM
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#10179 | | I *Fwap* *Fwap* *Fwap* to RS
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^ooooshitttt, yeah, you got a situationnn.
give it some time, see how your feeelings go, hope they just fade, or things turn out for the best
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12-22-2011, 01:12 PM
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#10180 | | Trollollolloing RS sine 2005
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whats the difference between:
i miss u too
and
i miss u too .... 
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Originally Posted by MajinHurricane I had some girl come into the busser station the other day trying to make out with every staff member and then pull down her pants and asked for someone to stick a dick in her (at least she shaved). | Quote:
Originally Posted by 1exotic Vtec doesn't kick in on Reverse. | Quote:
Originally Posted by Ulic Qel-Droma its like.. oh yeah oh yeah.. ohhhh yeah... OOoooOohh... why's it suddenly feel a bit better... ohhhh yeahh... ohhh...oh..fuck... it probably ripped. | | |
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12-22-2011, 02:27 PM
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#10181 | | I *Fwap* *Fwap* *Fwap* to RS
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Thinking.. just started working for a month.. should i buy presents for my family/extended family or wait until next year?
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12-22-2011, 06:41 PM
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#10182 | | 14 dolla balla aint got nothing on me!
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hope everything goes according to plan...
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12-22-2011, 09:55 PM
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#10183 | | -Stare-
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has finally realized why there is that saying.
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12-22-2011, 10:23 PM
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#10184 | | I Will not Admit my Addiction to RS
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I would come but I don't wanna see people like you. Posted via RS Mobile | |
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12-22-2011, 10:34 PM
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#10185 | | I Will not Admit my Addiction to RS
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opps
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12-22-2011, 11:15 PM
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#10186 | | I STILL don't get it
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12-22-2011, 11:27 PM
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#10187 | | Revscene.net has a homepage?!
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I know nothing changed and you still feel the same way. But i am happy to see you again and have a conversation with you just like old times.  | |
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12-23-2011, 12:26 AM
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#10188 | | Throw yo paws in da air!
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fuck..i needa get my head on straight in this. It's my career now and there's no other option...start taking it seriously christian
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12-23-2011, 02:03 AM
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#10189 | | Summertime Sadness
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Originally Posted by MajinHurricane Worst mistake you'll ever make. Texting/Contacting her is a way of you letting her know your thinking of her. | So... wouldn't that mean she's not thinking of him then? He said he's brought the topic of communication up but she's still the same....
All that being said... I would also say avoid the revenge route. Remind her that it really bothers you and that since a relationship is a two-way street with communication being a key component, and if she's not willing to address this issue, then maybe it'd be best to part ways before it gets worse.
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12-23-2011, 02:05 AM
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#10190 | | Editor
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text from my cousin today,
"Grandma said to come to the Christmas eve dinner."
I respond,
"Yep, we just assumed so, like every year."
he responds,
"ps btw my dad says you have no other places to go on that because you have no girlfriend haha lol"
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12-23-2011, 03:35 AM
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#10191 | | 14 dolla balla aint got nothing on me!
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First christmas.. Being single after 5 years... Its lonely not only single but also parents are not coming home for christmas  ... They both doing their own thing mom on her 2 month vacation and dad .. Away as always.. Sigh.. Posted via RS Mobile | |
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12-23-2011, 05:51 AM
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5:51 how to sleep :/
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12-23-2011, 06:48 AM
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youre like two different people.
we are like a married couple irl
but when we are texting/online its like someone stole your phone
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12-23-2011, 10:27 AM
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#10194 | | Banned By Establishment
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Originally Posted by LSF22 So... wouldn't that mean she's not thinking of him then? He said he's brought the topic of communication up but she's still the same....
All that being said... I would also say avoid the revenge route. Remind her that it really bothers you and that since a relationship is a two-way street with communication being a key component, and if she's not willing to address this issue, then maybe it'd be best to part ways before it gets worse. | Some girls hate texting/shy awkward.
If she doesn't like you she wouldn't be going out with you.
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12-23-2011, 11:13 AM
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#10195 | | (╯°□°）╯聽不到 ╮(°□°╮)
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you cant hide body language.
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12-23-2011, 12:48 PM
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#10196 | | Zombie Mod
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I need a friggin' vacation.
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12-23-2011, 12:52 PM
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#10197 | | How I Mod your mother
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Originally Posted by LSF22 So... wouldn't that mean she's not thinking of him then? He said he's brought the topic of communication up but she's still the same....
All that being said... I would also say avoid the revenge route. Remind her that it really bothers you and that since a relationship is a two-way street with communication being a key component, and if she's not willing to address this issue, then maybe it'd be best to part ways before it gets worse. | I think he should do it. Not so much for revenge, but more for himself. Why should he put in the effort if she isnt going to? A relationship isnt take take take. You gotta give a little to get a little and it takes both of you to solve even little issues.
If she gets her panties in a bunch over him not texting/contacting her, then obviously she's going to have to compromise instead of letting him do all the work. If she isnt willing to do that, then he knows what he has to do, because clearly him voicing his concerns doesnt mean shit to her as of now
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12-23-2011, 12:58 PM
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#10198 | | I contribute to threads in the offtopic forum
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Originally Posted by !e.lo_ text from my cousin today,
"Grandma said to come to the Christmas eve dinner."
I respond,
"Yep, we just assumed so, like every year."
he responds,
"ps btw my dad says you have no other places to go on that because you have no girlfriend haha lol"
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12-23-2011, 01:32 PM
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#10199 | | Banned By Establishment
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Originally Posted by !Yaminashi I think he should do it. Not so much for revenge, but more for himself. Why should he put in the effort if she isnt going to? A relationship isnt take take take. You gotta give a little to get a little and it takes both of you to solve even little issues.
If she gets her panties in a bunch over him not texting/contacting her, then obviously she's going to have to compromise instead of letting him do all the work. If she isnt willing to do that, then he knows what he has to do, because clearly him voicing his concerns doesnt mean shit to her as of now | Depends. If I remember correctly he's in a pretty new relationship. Some girls just like to take, not because they are being selfish, but because they don't know better. I think it's just better that during the dating phase you find out stuff she likes to do and pretend you either a) like it, or actually like it, because she will be more inclined to ask you out. Also I don't think some girls realize how exhausting it is to always be the one that is trying to make the relationship, when it should be two sided.
I know it's pretty frustrating, but some girls are just bad at dating. I know some very attractive smart girls, who let there other things in their life take over and constantly complain why they are single, when they wont open up when someone gets interested in them.
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12-23-2011, 01:51 PM
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#10200 | | How I Mod your mother
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Originally Posted by MajinHurricane Depends. If I remember correctly he's in a pretty new relationship. Some girls just like to take, not because they are being selfish, but because they don't know better. I think it's just better that during the dating phase you find out stuff she likes to do and pretend you either a) like it, or actually like it, because she will be more inclined to ask you out. Also I don't think some girls realize how exhausting it is to always be the one that is trying to make the relationship, when it should be two sided.
I know it's pretty frustrating, but some girls are just bad at dating. I know some very attractive smart girls, who let there other things in their life take over and constantly complain why they are single, when they wont open up when someone gets interested in them. | You do make a good point, but IMO he should do it as a "feeler" as well. See where he stands so he's not ALWAYS having to bend over backwards to make it work. If she has a problem with him not contacting her, then thats another chance for him to REALLY voice his concerns.
If she doesnt even notice, then maybe he can take a step back and evaluate his situation.
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