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Relationship & Gender DiscussionTHIS SPACE OPEN FOR ADVERTISEMENT. YOU SHOULD BE ADVERTISING HERE! The thin line between love and hate
Mature discussion about understanding the opposite sex...
Its been a year and a half since we've broken up after our 5 years. As much as I saw our decline slowly coming. I still think of you so damn much. I thought I was holding off good until now...My mind slowly caves in on our past together and wants you back so damn bad.
__________________ 05 Mazda 3 Sport
03 Nissan 350z
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Before sex, you help each other get naked. After sex, you only dress yourself.
Moral of story: In life, no one helps you once you're fucked.
When I didn't have a child, I refused to go on dates.
Now that I have a child, I'm sitting here thinking I haven't been on a date in like years!!
I miss someone always being there for you ...
on the other note... I need to go to rehab for some shopping issues.. Now I have a son I need to learn not to spend money and learn to save instead... but god damn it's so hard... I get like depressed then I go shopping.. reason why I get depressed it is because I didn't go shopping that week...
I could sit here and write a whole story about you, but ima keep this short.
To whom it may concern,
Spoiler!
for the last 20 years in my life you've never been there for me one bit. ive never asked for anything from you , but once you guys seperated it was hard to see my mother become the mom and dad in this family. After this surgery, it saddens me to see that you were never there beside my bed to see how i felt, you were never there to support my mother financially in paying for this surgery that costed 2500$. You know whats the funny thing? she only asked you to pitch in whatever you can, it's not the fact that she doesnt have enough to pay for it, its just that she wanted you to step up and play the role that you decided to play when you both made me. it's funny that you wanted to have me, yet you wont do anything to take care of me. she never said "hey you gotta pay half" im sure even 100$ woulda told my mom that you cared about me. but you couldnt even do that. So now, this is what i think of you. I have no men in my life to call a father, i only got my mom. i hope that one day you realize the damage you have done to our relationship and when the day comes that you ask for help, mark my words i will not be there for you. it's funny that the guy my mom is currently seeing, whom i dont like very much, even HE was there until 5am when i was out of surgery, he was there when he brought my bed downstairs so i wouldnt have to climb all the stairs, he was there to take me to the doc and bring me back home. you can't even being to comprehend how it feels that he was there and you werent. to say i dislike you would be a complimment, so ill save my words for myself. I just hope that one day, you look back and realize you never helped your first child in anything. not when he was scared for his first surgery and im sure you won't be there for any of my other ones in the future. but i hope you're there for your other son, cus im sure for him, you'd do anything. all i know is im going my way, and you sure as hell aren't coming with me.
sincerely,
the son you never cared about.
Manly tears shed I know that feeling when I was at the hospital
What can you fucking do when you're just a kid and your parents are going all out bitching at each other...seriously fuck
lol am currently on the same boat.
what i have been doing is taking my mom out and shopping with her and talk with her about it and let her vent out. its nice to have someone to talk to about your feelings sometimes and that really works well for me and i guess it does to her too. i did the exact same thing to my dad too to learn more about their sides. 2 months ago it got to a point where my parents wouldnt speak to each other and my dad wouldnt eat dinner together. he wouldnt be at home at all.
then my grandpa went into the hospital and my dad was there for her to comfort her through all of it. of course my grandfather going into the hospital was a shitty deal but it took a lot of tension and stress off my shoulders. then he passed away pretty peacefully and i was really happy to see my dad helping my mom get through everything despite all the shit my mom put him through.
give it a try and chill with your parents individually but know your own grounds.
Willing to stick a finger in a guys butt for the sake of science
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It's normal!! stop worrying bout it! lol
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damn, had an amazing night at my seminar. texted you out of excitement, oops. when you texted me back asking all those questions and being supportive i was even more amped, lol. it was nice to share it with you, just say hi then go off n do my own thing. having some wine then rooftop chillin with friends. i feel so inspired and today checkin off my passion goal for the week by meeting my fave author!
life is amazing
our view from last night, pics dont do it justice!!