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Old 06-11-2012, 02:07 PM   #12276
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if u hang out wit a girl ur chasing and shes constantly texting with other guys and openly talk about it to her friend right infront of u.... is it normal to get pissed off?

mind u i know im not in the forbidden zone of no return. and i know im probably high up as fuk on her list of guys

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Old 06-11-2012, 02:10 PM   #12277
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if u hang out wit a girl ur chasing and shes constantly texting with other guys and openly talk about it to her friend right infront of u.... is it normal to get pissed off?

mind u i know im not in the forbidden zone of no return. and i know im probably high up as fuk on her list of guys
Odds are either you're ridiculously insecure, or she is. Possibly both. Unless you're overestimating how high up you are. Which is also possible.
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Old 06-11-2012, 02:21 PM   #12278
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Odds are either you're ridiculously insecure, or she is. Possibly both. Unless you're overestimating how high up you are. Which is also possible.
well in my defense i feel offended tbat im taking her out of my time just to deal wit dat shit. i know a little bit is fine but if its all the time then why am i wasting my time wit dat shit?
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Old 06-11-2012, 02:54 PM   #12279
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well in my defense i feel offended tbat im taking her out of my time just to deal wit dat shit. i know a little bit is fine but if its all the time then why am i wasting my time wit dat shit?
Took me a few tries to comprehend.

Girls like that can't be satisfied. You're chasing her. She has a group of, say 10 guys chasing her.

In her mind, it's "if this guy has a problem with me, I'll just move onto the next guy." You have 1 of her, and she has 10 of you.

Simple relationship economics. If neither of you are exclusively dating, and she can move onto the next guy with out lifting a finger, then she's going to do that.

I would take a stand and let her know she's being disrespectful, or else she's not gonna stop doing it. That or drop this girl altogether and move onto the next.
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Old 06-11-2012, 05:19 PM   #12280
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Old 06-11-2012, 05:28 PM   #12281
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Took me a few tries to comprehend.

Girls like that can't be satisfied. You're chasing her. She has a group of, say 10 guys chasing her.

In her mind, it's "if this guy has a problem with me, I'll just move onto the next guy." You have 1 of her, and she has 10 of you.

Simple relationship economics. If neither of you are exclusively dating, and she can move onto the next guy with out lifting a finger, then she's going to do that.

I would take a stand and let her know she's being disrespectful, or else she's not gonna stop doing it. That or drop this girl altogether and move onto the next.
sorry for chingrish i was in a hurry to text a response hehe

but yes i came to the conclusion that

1) i'm gonna put my balls to use and tell her its fine to talk to other guys, just don't flaunt it when i'm around her

2) if she doesnt agree to those terms then... pz out
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I feel creepy wanting to call you now that you are out of high school, lol.


but alas, I can't bring myself to do it.


Maybe I'll call you in 5 years.
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Old 06-11-2012, 11:33 PM   #12285
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All I can do now is pray ...... no money to hire good lawyer... hope not 5-10. or even 20 thats too much.... i was shocked when I read the news.... now we wait!...... I don't know what to feel .... your my dad... but i dont know to feel sad or what.... its like blank.. if anything they should at least let you do time back in canada cause you have no family over there... you'll be depressed.. i dont say this often or ever. but i miss you.
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I'm sick of women who constantly bitch about how they should really find a "nice" guy for a change, instead of dating douchebags and jerks. Yeah, there are a lot of guys who are assholes, but it's also your fault for choosing those fucktards over genuinely nice guys. Where have all the good guys gone? You either turned them down or broke their hearts. Hell, chances are you left the majority of those poor saps rotting in the friendzone.

Yeah I realize not all women are like this. But you know what, I'm bitter. And women made me this way.
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I'm sick of women who constantly bitch about how they should really find a "nice" guy for a change, instead of dating douchebags and jerks. Yeah, there are a lot of guys who are assholes, but it's also your fault for choosing those fucktards over genuinely nice guys. Where have all the good guys gone? You either turned them down or broke their hearts. Hell, chances are you left the majority of those poor saps rotting in the friendzone.

Yeah I realize not all women are like this. But you know what, I'm bitter. And women made me this way.
It's completely true. I've been friend-zoned so many times. Some women are blind and don't see a good thing in front of them. They searched for something broken and 'try' to fix it. I've become very bitter in the process as well.


to answer tod's, yes being there at the event and all the people, the amazing music, the great sightings and of course the experience. worth the waits
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Haven't posted here in a long ass time, but still keep up with the readings in this section lol

Life doesn't go accordingly like the alphabet or numbers, it's not just 123s or ABCs, it can go a variety of ways. Life contain ups and downs, but I realized that I'm going through way more downs than ups. I want to be more involved in activities other than school, but I never get the motivation to do so. I really want to finish my school so I can start my life in the 'real' world, but at the same time I want to stay in school because it's good time and experience with friends. Money wise, I'm on a really tight budget with everything. Money is running dry, I'm just barely surviving each month...

I miss driving my 2 so fucking much too, I know the ideal choice would be to sell it, but I just can't let it go. I'm the kind of person that treasures everything I have and having to let anything go just hurts. Maybe I will be able to buy it back in the later years?... who knows. Everything is just a pain in the ass...
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We spend so much time polishing ourselves in the hopes of glossing over our deep-seeded insecurities. For self development, I took time to submerge myself in my past and touched that chink in the armor. I broke down and cried like i was 5 years old. Now i could bury that shit again but what good would that do? I'm better than that. I will work through this. But man, does it ever hurt..
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Old 06-12-2012, 02:20 PM   #12292
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I'm sick of women who constantly bitch about how they should really find a "nice" guy for a change, instead of dating douchebags and jerks. Yeah, there are a lot of guys who are assholes, but it's also your fault for choosing those fucktards over genuinely nice guys. Where have all the good guys gone? You either turned them down or broke their hearts. Hell, chances are you left the majority of those poor saps rotting in the friendzone.

Yeah I realize not all women are like this. But you know what, I'm bitter. And women made me this way.
fuck the friendzone......

@THREAD, hey someone misses me while im gone!! sadly its not the one i was chasing
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Old 06-12-2012, 04:26 PM   #12293
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Don't ever throw yourself out there like that. Go find somebody else. You deserve better. But you'll have to get hurt in order to move on.
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It's completely true. I've been friend-zoned so many times. Some women are blind and don't see a good thing in front of them. They searched for something broken and 'try' to fix it. I've become very bitter in the process as well.


to answer tod's, yes being there at the event and all the people, the amazing music, the great sightings and of course the experience. worth the waits
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@THREAD, hey someone misses me while im gone!! sadly its not the one i was chasing
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i'm glad you chose to go to cali with your bestfriend then saving up and coming to my home next year with me..even if ive asked you long ago.

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Is there something wrong with me? Is it because I have a kid with no father? why does my mom have to be so traditional. it's the 21st century for god sake rarely do we ever see a fucken family... I will find someone that will love my son as much as i do and will love me too., just not now. but one day.. that day will come I'm still young things can wait.. meanwhile i just think like his dad is dead like he died . my son will have a dad just not a biological one ... things take time I have to find myself first. it will be hard for me to explain in the future.. it's hard enough being a single mom.....


I hope taking the class I'm taking will put me back on my feet and find myself. Teach me how to connect with people, set boundaries with people and so on...
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