i enjoyed spending time with you tonight :)

Indeed, though her breaking the promise is really not that bad (we promised not to go clubbing until she was legal and we`d go together), it`s just how she makes herself a hypocrite by blaming peer pressure and whining when I say I might as well go before summer ends. To further add to the frustration, she doesn`t tell the guys there that she`s taken (even guys who she thinks or knows they have a crush on her).

Oh. One thing she said to me is that one of the things you ABSOLUTELY MUST DO while there in China is to go clubbing because the clubs are everywhere and that`s just what you do... I asked her, should I go roll a joint of B.C. Bud just because it`s what you do when in B.C.?

She`s back a week after school starts. So for all you fine RS ladies that means I`m available until then ;)

I promised her I wouldn`t go see any female friends of mine while she was away, and fuck me in the ass because I`ve been had - she`s been seeing her guy friends there, and with the the aforementioned omitting of relationship status to her guy friends, I`m getting pretty annoyed. Especially after hearing these things the day after I turned down dinner alone with a cute girl (with c-cups :O).

As for lying about little things, my guess is that he just doesn`t want to be bothered. Lots of girls get annoyed if you just tell them straight up that you don`t wanna be bothered or are busy, so for most guys it`s a little white lie that lets them chill in peace.

wow, i actually didn't know girls can be so.... i can't find the correct word for it but i hope you get the gist of what i mean. it's 5 am so you can't blame me if my brain fails lol! but i can somewhat relate.. my ex told me he doesn't want me to go out much while he's away and doesn't want me to see any of my guy friends either. (which i lived up to my words because i didn't for his sake) but there he goes, fucking some other bitch over there and coming back as if nothing happened. all the while acting as if he's single. anyways! enough of my ranting, sorry about that lol

but the thing is, what if your gf doesn't call or anything if you were to go out? only expects a call or txt msg to let her know where you're going, etc. because i usually don't bother calling my bf or anything, i always feel as though i am bothering him. soo.. i wait until he calls me when he's free LOL!

It doesn't matter how many times she'll say don't call or it doesn't matter who you're with, because in the end all of us guys will think that you WILL care and will get insecure and cause a whole whack load of fuss which is something all guys hate to get into.

Ok let me get this straight, she's basically doing whatever she wants while shes on vacation and when she gets back, you two get back together like it never even happened?

If China is anything like HK, then shes right that clubs are everywhere and partying is pretty much standard on the weekends. But clubbing and drinking does not change her relationship status on Facebook, she did.

She's not telling guys shes taken cause she wants to flirt and is enjoying whatever attention they are giving her, its as simple as that.

awww group hug guysdon't mind that thing poking into your thigh, it's just my boner.

man i just realised you guys are so fucking young. i keep thinking people here are at least 23 or some shit.

some of you guys are still in highschool or just recently left highschool. don't stress over this shit.

go play some starcraft, or whatever games kids play these days. cs if that's still around. concentrate on life and work and money.

if you guys stress out over this shit, wait till you have to stress out over marriage, or kids, or making morgage payments.

take a chillpill, chillax, crack open a beer (well if you're old enough haha, yeah i know it's 935am whatever, it's summer for you guys, time has no meaning), watch some porn, jerk off, play video games, go loiter around in a mall with your buddies and check out chicks.

Yeahhhhh CS:S and DotA ftw. If you haven't played DotA get some buddies who play or want to play and go get yourself hooked on that. Stressing over gaming >>> stressing over girls, as it's temporary haha

^ ulic you make yourself sound like an old grandpa *pictures ulic smoking on some cigar typing out this crap*

Ulic for president

Well I can't say my situation's anywhere as bad as yours (I'm pretty sure she's not fucking around, at the very least... I hope...). Pretty sure she likes the attention but I can understand that; however, I let girls know straight up that I'm taken.

!nhan is pretty close to the mark:

Personally, I'm someone who HATES to get disturbed and interrupted when I'm really into something. Sometimes, I just wanna chill at home on a Saturday night, by myself (rather than get home at 2 am after a full-on date), so I'll make shit up or say I've got homework. And if I don't give an excuse not to see her, I usually get the "You don't love me as much" or the "I love you more than you love me" or the "You don't want to see me"...

...and not many girls are considerate enough to give you your own space when you need it. It's really as simple as that, I think.

Technically we're still together. If I even mention not being together on the phone, it's like the call gets redirected to Niagara Falls lol... I think you're absolutely right in that she likes the attention, now that I think about it it's happened before, that she's keeping guys around who like her without making it clear that she's taken.

I still don't get it though; isn't it fair for me to go clubbing since she broke the promise already? It's not like I'm going there to get laid (considering how I can't dance, and I'm a little antisocial) but I just wanted to go check it out with some friends. (She told me to go to a gay club on the phone the other day cause she was pissed, and she said I'd be popular there... =_=;)

I stayed up until 4 am playing CS:S, woke up at 2 pm. I know I sound fucking emo for saying this but when I woke up, I just felt so depressed and wanted to just close my eyes for good.

I am so fucking lost. I really don't want to think of her anymore. I don't even know how I'll handle her return here.

The only way out of this situation is to hit on some JB... thank god I have friends with little sisters who have hot friends...

IM FUCKING 18 hahahhahahahaha

Ok so what do you want with her? Do u want to be with someone who would have so little regard (and respect) for your feelings that she can just magically become single whenever she feels like it? If she's so into getting guys attentions and toying them around then maybe she shouldn't be in a committed relationship in the first place.

I think you should go clubbing...and don't just do it for revenge. Actually go out and have fun. Forget her (even if it is just for the night)

It's over, twice she's done the FB dump man... :(

I give up. I officially fucking give up.

Its her loss, she sounds like a bitch (no offence) Although I bet you as soon as she gets back from vacation shes going to come crying and saying shes sorry and wants you back. Well at least till the next time she has some guy chasing her and giving her attention again.

Do not let the vicious cycle repeat itself, or you will just end up wanting to kill yourself.

Wow... when did it get Dear Abby in here? God you guys are how old? Max 19? Get over it. There will be other people for you to date. If the bitch can't be bothered to keep a simple promise (though why the fuck you two made that dumbass promise I have no idea), then she's not worth the time or the effort. Fuck her one last time when she gets back into down and then dump her sorry ass. Don't be a whiny pussy and play her retard games.

Oh ya, and that really did sound emo. You might want to talk to your doctor about that.

Thanks for the kind words. :) (And the harsh ones directed at her XD)

I'm 19.

Well the dumbass promise was her idea, and I thought since I don't even really go party it wouldn't be any harm. And I thought it wouldn't even be hard to keep, guess I was wrong. If getting back at her is the thing to do though, then the good-old RS standby (stick it in her ass) will be top priority... otherwise I don't plan on talking to her at all.

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I hope you get kidnapped or buried in an earthquake or molested or something (you'd probably like that last one wouldn't you).

don't play the "i want you back game"
it will only push her further, if you drop out of the radar, or don't reply her calls she'll probably come crawling back

it's agonizing and painful on yourside to do that, but it could work, and you don't really have a choice.

stop playing games. you're getting annoying!

stop calling me wanting to hang out just because you're bored and all your friends are overseas right now and you're all alone here.

Deep down inside I have a feeling that you're just using me, and theres nothing between us going on.

FUCK OFF!

okay, maybe you've heard this from other people before but i just have to say this: fuck her. not literally lol! but she isn't worth your time if she doesn't think twice about how shitty she makes you feel when she does that. it's kind of clear that she isn't taking you seriously when she can't tell guys that are interested in her that she's taken. how hard is that? making things awkward? seems like a load of bull shit to me

the song called "don't call me baby anymore" pisses me off

my gf has a massive tendancy to over react. anyone else?

I don't intend on talking to her at all. I'm crushed but at least now I know for sure she's not the right one after all.

That last four sentences were exactly what I told her. And too late, I already fucked her RS style lol.

Dude remember I was like your GF personality-wise (and you're like my ex personality-wise lol)... Just don't be like my ex and do shit that will obviously make her jealous or angry (I know I've told you a million times but you keep doing it). People don't just overreact over nothing, no matter what there's always a reason.

srsly? cause my second gf would always over react, like when I was out in a family dinner(extended family as well) and she would not believe me.... at all, non stop text messages and trying to call me and when I get home and give her a call she demands to know who I was with --;even though I told her it was family. she always assumed I was with some other girl

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well, it's good to know that you're not still lingering around her when she treats you like crap. even if she gives you that load of bull shit about changing and wanting you back, please ignore her for your sake. i'm speaking from experience and trust me, i know it's kind of hard to turn away when you care so much about that person.

first thing's first, did you do something to make her that insecure? i don't understand why girls are that way at times. i'm more like the guy in relationships, i am so laid back LOL! it starts getting the guy questioning if i actually love them or whatnot. *sigh* it's not my fault i'm not emotional T_T

I broke up with my last gf because I"m a listener/responder Its what I good at, and well she isn't a talker.....and I nearly exploded thinking of how to break up... so I did the worst thing ever...
HAHAHAHAHA I used facebook >_> **relationship status-change-Hongy is now single
my fucking god I'm tired...