REVscene - Vancouver Automotive Forum


Welcome to the REVscene Automotive Forum forums.

Registration is Free!You are currently viewing our boards as a guest which gives you limited access to view most discussions and access our other features. By joining our free community you will have access to post topics, communicate privately with other members (PM), respond to polls, upload content and access many other special features. Registration is fast, simple and absolutely free so please, join our community today! The banners on the left side and below do not show for registered users!

If you have any problems with the registration process or your account login, please contact contact us.

Go Back   REVscene Automotive Forum > Vancouver LifeStyles (VLS) > Relationship & Gender Discussion

Relationship & Gender Discussion THIS SPACE OPEN FOR ADVERTISEMENT. YOU SHOULD BE ADVERTISING HERE!
The thin line between love and hate
Mature discussion about understanding the opposite sex...

Reply
 
Thread Tools
Old 04-12-2013, 01:10 AM   #16376
I contribute to threads in the offtopic forum
 
Fcukedd's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2010
Location: Home
Posts: 2,988
Thanked 2,051 Times in 676 Posts
Failed 211 Times in 48 Posts
When you're a bystander of your parents fighting..feeling so fucking useless

Let me grow up sooner so I can move out

Fcukedd is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-12-2013, 01:11 AM   #16377
mb_
WUB WUB WUB WUB WUB
 
mb_'s Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: Surrey
Posts: 7,843
Thanked 7,084 Times in 1,922 Posts
Failed 202 Times in 90 Posts
Didn't picture that growing up was anything like this when I was younger...
__________________
FEEDBACK (9-0-0)
SPOTTED



Quote:
Originally Posted by slowguy View Post
fuck you hipster
Quote:
Originally Posted by trollguy View Post
then fuck you hipster akinari
Quote:
[23-05, 11:34] FastAnna suck a dick ygay
mb_ is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 04-12-2013, 01:46 AM   #16378
dlo
Los Bastardo owned my ass at least once
 
dlo's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: vancouver
Posts: 6,084
Thanked 7,930 Times in 1,432 Posts
Failed 1,279 Times in 298 Posts
school... ur literally killing me and i still got 2 months left..
__________________
Quote:
[08-12, 00:25] Iceman-19 the owner was someone i knew. trusted him. that blew up in my face like i was a 19 year old jap girl at a bukkake party.
dlo is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-12-2013, 02:35 AM   #16379
I Will not Admit my Addiction to RS
 
Join Date: Oct 2011
Location: Richmond
Posts: 555
Thanked 431 Times in 125 Posts
Failed 21 Times in 8 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by Fcukedd View Post
When you're a bystander of your parents fighting..feeling so fucking useless

Let me grow up sooner so I can move out
E.D.C.5 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-12-2013, 10:27 AM   #16380
RS has made me the bitter person i am today!
 
Qmx323's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Richmond
Posts: 4,866
Thanked 2,642 Times in 878 Posts
Failed 218 Times in 79 Posts
Waiting for your answer, positive or negative.
Qmx323 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-12-2013, 11:20 AM   #16381
Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?!
 
tomatogunk's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: vancouver
Posts: 839
Thanked 1,726 Times in 302 Posts
Failed 412 Times in 43 Posts
I am having a motherf*cking-tastic day!!
tomatogunk is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-12-2013, 12:46 PM   #16382
I subscribe to Revscene
 
boatcaptain's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: russia
Posts: 1,942
Thanked 1,179 Times in 301 Posts
Failed 119 Times in 32 Posts
duno what hurts more right now.my heart or my left wrist
boatcaptain is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-12-2013, 01:55 PM   #16383
:inoutugh:
 
TOS'd's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: ඞ
Posts: 9,982
Thanked 5,849 Times in 1,842 Posts
Failed 970 Times in 279 Posts
what to do...
TOS'd is online now   Reply With Quote
Old 04-12-2013, 04:23 PM   #16384
Captain Happy Bubble is my Homeboy
 
BorLorBao's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2008
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 314
Thanked 136 Times in 43 Posts
Failed 14 Times in 7 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by TOS'd View Post
what to do...
Do what you feel is best.
__________________
It is what it is
BorLorBao is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-12-2013, 04:26 PM   #16385
:inoutugh:
 
TOS'd's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: ඞ
Posts: 9,982
Thanked 5,849 Times in 1,842 Posts
Failed 970 Times in 279 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by BorLorBao View Post
Do what you feel is best.
Turn back time.
TOS'd is online now   Reply With Quote
Old 04-12-2013, 06:00 PM   #16386
What hasn't Killed me, has made me more tolerant of RS!
 
Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: n
Posts: 198
Thanked 446 Times in 58 Posts
Failed 177 Times in 28 Posts
don't needa worry about what you're doing..
we are now seperate..
at the end of the day..
DinhNg is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-12-2013, 09:12 PM   #16387
Even when im right, revscene.net is still right!
 
palepilsenpin0y's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Vancity
Posts: 1,382
Thanked 4,550 Times in 463 Posts
Failed 215 Times in 66 Posts
Moving on up.
__________________
Quote:
Originally Posted by LiquidTurbo View Post
Paying for sex? Isn't that was dating is? :trollface.jpg:
Quote:
Originally Posted by buddy View Post
my rule of thumb when picking between 2 or more girls .. always go with the one with bigger boobs
palepilsenpin0y is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-12-2013, 10:34 PM   #16388
mb_
WUB WUB WUB WUB WUB
 
mb_'s Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: Surrey
Posts: 7,843
Thanked 7,084 Times in 1,922 Posts
Failed 202 Times in 90 Posts
"I'm with my bf"


Posted via RS Mobile
mb_ is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-13-2013, 12:56 AM   #16389
'
 
insomniac's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2010
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 4,664
Thanked 6,557 Times in 1,111 Posts
Failed 797 Times in 212 Posts
happy birthday nhan!! i know youll see this cause youre gonna post emo shit in here. keep your head up! focus on your goals, thinking about things that dont matter wont do you any good! not sure whats going on in your life but you can always hit me up. dont waste your awesomeness! be happy bro
__________________
Buy & Sell Feedback (53-0-0)
insomniac is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
This post FAILED by:
Old 04-13-2013, 01:28 AM   #16390
Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?!
 
yogenfruz's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: Victoria
Posts: 881
Thanked 448 Times in 155 Posts
Failed 78 Times in 21 Posts
Fuck I'm dumb..
__________________
PSN: gThorpe92
Quote:
Obviously, you're suffering wankers cramp.
yogenfruz is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-13-2013, 03:24 AM   #16391
#deephouse
 
knight604's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2010
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 4,194
Thanked 4,704 Times in 1,243 Posts
Failed 469 Times in 123 Posts
just wait until your back.. shit is going to end well
__________________
/// x AMG
knight604 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-13-2013, 04:10 AM   #16392
Mod.
 
!Nhan's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: east vanner
Posts: 7,134
Thanked 1,769 Times in 684 Posts
Failed 87 Times in 28 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by insomniac View Post
happy birthday nhan!! i know youll see this cause youre gonna post emo shit in here. keep your head up! focus on your goals, thinking about things that dont matter wont do you any good! not sure whats going on in your life but you can always hit me up. dont waste your awesomeness! be happy bro
th;anks uno!~
__________________
NiteShadow
flickR
93 Civic Si (RIP)
97 Civic CX (POS)

!Nhan is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-13-2013, 12:37 PM   #16393
うに
 
PK-EK's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: /
Posts: 1,312
Thanked 1,008 Times in 402 Posts
Failed 136 Times in 68 Posts
I actually wanted to put your name down on my $500,000.000 life insurance policy...
but then i couldn't of done it without not tell you.
__________________
Quote:
Originally Posted by TOS'd View Post
The reason for Speak it Out is to actually set PK-EK up with someone, whether that be someone from this thread or outside of RS.
PK-EK is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 04-13-2013, 08:23 PM   #16394
I am Hook'd on RS
 
Join Date: Aug 2012
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 73
Thanked 23 Times in 10 Posts
Failed 2 Times in 2 Posts
As my first year at uni comes to an end, it makes me think more and more about the experiences I've had, particularly the people I've met

It feels weird, I've made many "friends", but most of them are mere acquaintances, and I don't think that I will see them again after this, and seeing so many people already having formed their clique/group makes me feel even more alone. I don't know when it is that I'll find a group of people whose friendship extends more than just studying together for a course, or just having a casual conversation, people who I am going to see again after this, people who I can go out and have fun with. It really hits that it's over you when you are exchanging goodbyes, and you get that "I'll see you around".

I don't know if this is the norm, but I'm just not feeling it. Having very few friends from highschool already, it is hard... I feel surrounded by people, but alone at the same time like I don't share a connection with anyone. Maybe it's because of the lack of clubs/events I join/go to, I don't know. All I know is that it doesn't feel right.

But, I'd rather have 4 quarters than 100 pennies.

Does everyone else feel this way about uni? Feel free to add any input. I just don't know what to do anymore...
rzrshrp is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-13-2013, 08:57 PM   #16395
Wunder? Wonder?? Wander???
 
Lamboda's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 215
Thanked 320 Times in 96 Posts
Failed 13 Times in 4 Posts
^ It's the same feeling. Throughout my 3 years at uni, I haven't made that many lasting friendships. Most of my close-best friends are from highschool and work. It seems to me that acquaintances stay acquaintances until you hang out with them outside of school. I feel that it really needs to be 1 on 1 and not in a giant group. I'm in some student clubs and I haven't really made any super close friends there. Everyone's just friends.

I found that it takes two in the relationship. I mean, usually you have to make the first move and ask if they want to chill or hangout. When you starting doing that, then it's totally cool. I personally don't bother with people who don't have time for me.

Also, don't always think of it's hard making close friends in uni. Think about it, you just met the person and took some classes for about a semester. You're asking too much. Your best friends have years and years of experiences, laughter and memories. You have to start from scratch at uni with someone new. It took me 1-3 years of building a foundation for one of my best friends, and it was totally worth it.
Lamboda is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Old 04-13-2013, 09:45 PM   #16396
I am Hook'd on RS
 
Join Date: Aug 2012
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 73
Thanked 23 Times in 10 Posts
Failed 2 Times in 2 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by Lamboda View Post
^ It's the same feeling. Throughout my 3 years at uni, I haven't made that many lasting friendships. Most of my close-best friends are from highschool and work. It seems to me that acquaintances stay acquaintances until you hang out with them outside of school. I feel that it really needs to be 1 on 1 and not in a giant group. I'm in some student clubs and I haven't really made any super close friends there. Everyone's just friends.

I found that it takes two in the relationship. I mean, usually you have to make the first move and ask if they want to chill or hangout. When you starting doing that, then it's totally cool. I personally don't bother with people who don't have time for me.

Also, don't always think of it's hard making close friends in uni. Think about it, you just met the person and took some classes for about a semester. You're asking too much. Your best friends have years and years of experiences, laughter and memories. You have to start from scratch at uni with someone new. It took me 1-3 years of building a foundation for one of my best friends, and it was totally worth it.

Wow, that's exactly how I feel dude. Spot on. The people from my highschool have WAY different mentalities than I do, that's why I don't associate with most of them anymore.

Yeah, the initial move is crucial, but I always wonder if it ever goes past the semester when you have classes are together. I've made a few "close" friends last semester, but it just sorta faded away with time, the convos just died out and we eventually just became another 'Hi' on campus, and they got replaced by the new people I met... I don't know if this the cycle of university, don't know what to feel about that. I guess my program is partly to blame as UBC is a very competitive and somewhat anti-social as well, and that my faculty is HUGE, and I don't know a good 75% of them anyhow. It certainly takes two people to make a friendship, but I mean there has to be an extent to how much effort one puts in, eventually you get tired of it. Some people I've met, they never even bother to contact/stay in touch outside of classes, it's just sad, but nevertheless they would still talk normally in person if I've met them.

I was thinking the EXACT same thing! I just saw photos on Facebook of a group of friends that met this year in university and are so tight, they hang out celebrate birthdays together, EVERYTHING! I've seen a lot of those types but It sorta hit me at that point, I have "friends", but at the end of the day, who's there to make real memories with? It was a sad epiphany cause I don't know. But maybe I'm just bad at carrying it forward, and maintaining friendships.

Just wanted to blow off some steam, thanks for the input dude.
rzrshrp is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-13-2013, 09:50 PM   #16397
#deephouse
 
knight604's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2010
Location: Vancouver
Posts: 4,194
Thanked 4,704 Times in 1,243 Posts
Failed 469 Times in 123 Posts
Fuck, where are you?
__________________
/// x AMG
knight604 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-13-2013, 10:08 PM   #16398
PRINCESS
 
MeowMeow's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2011
Location: Mushroom Castle
Posts: 1,521
Thanked 790 Times in 344 Posts
Failed 74 Times in 27 Posts
Quote:
Originally Posted by knight604 View Post
Fuck, where are you?
I'm here
Posted via RS Mobile
MeowMeow is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-13-2013, 11:13 PM   #16399
"Entertainment" mod.
 
CorneringArtist's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2009
Location: Surrey, BC
Posts: 5,117
Thanked 3,432 Times in 1,051 Posts
Failed 161 Times in 60 Posts
I'm putting my health on the line to get more opportunities at work, and all they can tell me is "step it up some more, and we'll see"? Guess I need to seriously injure or kill myself working to prove myself to them since "stepping it up" for the last year isn't enough.
CorneringArtist is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-14-2013, 12:08 AM   #16400
I subscribe to the Fight Club ONLY
 
6793026's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: BC, HK, USA
Posts: 7,465
Thanked 2,400 Times in 1,005 Posts
Failed 166 Times in 73 Posts
^ don't worry harder, work smarter
6793026 is offline   Reply With Quote
This post thanked by:
Reply

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off



All times are GMT -8. The time now is 04:11 PM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.11
Copyright ©2000 - 2024, vBulletin Solutions Inc.
SEO by vBSEO ©2011, Crawlability, Inc.
Revscene.net cannot be held accountable for the actions of its members nor does the opinions of the members represent that of Revscene.net