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Relationship & Gender DiscussionTHIS SPACE OPEN FOR ADVERTISEMENT. YOU SHOULD BE ADVERTISING HERE! The thin line between love and hate
Mature discussion about understanding the opposite sex...
It's been a while since I went for a girl. I can't say I have feelings for you yet. Because of my past because of what I've experienced. I try to draw myself away from the emotional attachment. Why should you be any different? Statistically speaking are you going to be the one? You're a number, I'm a number it's hard to stop thinking so cynically.
It's rather nice to have a change from not getting a response back from girls to you giving me a response even when I say stupid shit. Does that mean something? Fuck it. You're probably just being nice and we're in the same circle of friends you don't want it to be awkward. It's nice that when we stop talking you message me the next day going sup? I'm not used to those things. I'm used to being treated like shit. I'm used to having nothing. And here you are doing opposite of what they did. Always asking me back what about you-- although I know you don't put your heart into it that's a nice gesture. Even though I get butterflies when I saw those random texts... I'm still going to suppress my feelings. I'm not going to lose my mind and my time.
i just friendzoned a girl and it felt GREAT. she was pretty and had a few key things I would love about her and to date her but the fact she was an introvert (i'm an extrovert) I couldn't self justify dating you.
Man, i was so into you but thankfully I put you in the friendzone. Now i feel great and don't have to freaking worry about anything or giving a shit.
i thought i was in love with you for the last 3 years. talking to you, being with you, was so comforting. i wasnt scared to be me around you. but i was scared of commitment, let you go and broke your heart. even though we were never together, it felt like we were. then you ended up dating some dick and your life went down hill. break up after break up i tried to convince you to leave him. you were blinded, and so was I. 3 months ago i heard you were leaving to the other side of the country. little time to say what i wanted to say. i poured what i had left of my heart to you, thought you'd change and forget about your ex. i've moved on and found someone new, she was different, but at the same time she was comforting. she reminded me of you, and that was a bad thing. our long talks just sparked memories of you and me, i couldnt carry this on much longer. i broke up with her with the thoughts of you running through my mind. i felt horrible telling her the reason why i liked her so much. she hated the fact that i compared you to her. i thought i had my life set out after that. wait for you to come back so we could be finally together. but i found out you still text your ex, snapchat, call, facebook everything. but it didnt hurt... i realized i no longer had feelings for you. the 3 year chase wasn't worth it anymore. you werent worth it anymore. the time, the money, the hurt. you werent worth anything to me anymore. the moment i knew you still had feelings for you ex, i was set free. 2 weeks later, i saw a cartier love bracelet online. it reminded me of something. something one of my friends wear. my heart dropped the moment i found out what it resembled. I realized that my heart longed for you. an old friend, someone that has been there forever. but being too late now, realizing that someone else has you in their life. my heart aches everytime i see you. i can no longer do anything but sit by and watch as you happily live your life, knowing i'll never have a chance, because i broke your bestfriend's heart.
‘Promise me you’ll always remember: If ever there is a tomorrow when we’re not together, there is something you must always remember. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. But the most important thing is, even if we’re apart, I’ll always be with you.’
Slowly,very very slowly. As the days go by I find it harder and harder to find a reason to hold on. I made a promise, I will keep that promise even if it puts me in an early grave. This I guarantee you. Posted via RS Mobile
I sorted through my phone of all these pictures of you in it. There were so many emotions but you were so happy in almost all of them.
I found a couple of my favorites that put a smile on my face and I showed it back to you on instant messaging, but in return you said something is wrong with me holding on to pictures of you after we broke up and you had to cut me off.
One step at a time. I feel childish, but removing you off snap and deleting our messages is going to help me get to a better place. A place without you.
It's unfortunate. I was well aware that an individual leaving a relationship that unintentionally finds themselves on the doorstep of another always arrives with baggage. I just wanted to be, and you made me believe, that I was the one that would help you unpack.
In the end, no regrets. We had a great run - but it's time to better myself, and that involves removing you.
Hah...yeah...I am stupid. I feel like we will never be the same. I still see that he's a dick, and despite me being there for you all the time, I'm still just the person in the shadows.
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