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Man, I shoulda talked to you more in high school. Got kinda cute over the last few years... :S

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Originally Posted by kakucaekz (Post 8386041)

Man, I shoulda talked to you more in high school. Got kinda cute over the last few years... :S

That's because she discovered make up

^ its ok

Lots of guys miss out on these opportunities.... Gotta be able to see the potential

If you got a dream, go for your dream, nothing can stand in your way.

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Originally Posted by hk20000 (Post 8385870)

I wonder if you will be stuck in snow with that low slung sports car of yours...

She won't need you, probably has a guy to plow her already.

:okay:

No clue what I'm even doing any more. Motivation is gone, haven't interacted with anyone that wasn't a coworker in weeks, and I've been attacking everything with a biting cynicism lately. Even trying to find someone is losing its appeal, and that's a hard realization to swallow. Guess I can keep letting my old self slip away until it kills me.

:fulloffuck: hangs out for 3 days straight then totally loses communication
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Originally Posted by ksceric (Post 8386250)

She won't need you, probably has a guy to plow her already.

:okay:

Know that already but car is still gonna get stuck. :suspicious:

First time being alone together. Although it wasn't that long, it put a smile on my face.
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^ Just because you're not a med student, it doesn't make you any less of a person.
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Gotta ask yourself... Are you the one that makes her smile? Are you the one that brightens up her day? If so, who gives about that med student. For all I would care, he can just buy her more things
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Srs... Fuck malls during the holidays. And I never learn when it comes to doing shopping earlier. :fulloffuck:

Walking around whistler at night. Couples everywhere :alone:
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Sigh. 3 months later and I thought these feelings would fade.. Even being with someone else hasn't stopped the feels from coming back.

Alright, alright. Tis the season for you to just realize it and come back to me you stubborn woman.

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Originally Posted by OGCStrike (Post 8386757)

Walking around whistler at night. Couples everywhere :alone:
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I see you.
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Originally Posted by PK-EK (Post 8386596)

One cannot feed a family with a kind heart and simple smile.

Put it this way, its easy for her to find someone else in this world.
I don't have to worry that she won't find the one.

That's true, but there are always options. Why are you letting this image or situation beat the shit out of you? Control your emotions, and think. The moment you wish her well and tell yourself that you aren't good enough is the moment you lost. You're going to ask yourself why did I not try or what if for the rest of your life.

You might be a 'lowly' mechanic now. You could be a millionaire in the future it all depends on what you expect of yourself. Pull yourself out of that rut. If you think she's better with you than make it so. Put your tears away, go try first and if it doesn't work out, be thankful it happened.

I know you got this man. Go hard, or die trying.

Forgive, not because they deserve forgiveness. But because you deserve peace
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I wouldn't say this is friend-zoned. I think you're still good, but you should take the next opportunity you get to ask her out. I think she is giving you signals by what I have read. The worst she can do is say No, then you can move on. And if she says Yes, then its your chance to give it a shot. Don't think too much into it, it's honestly just a question. Just ask :) keep us updated. It seems like u really like her, don't be jealous of some other guy she hangs out with at school. You don't know him and to you he doesn't exist. To answer one of your questions, she doesn't see you as the "Dominant" male.. that's just weird to say, but she sees you as protection, she trusts you, and she likes being around you, I think this is a great signal for you to pick up on.

With your explanations on how your future will be and all that stuff, you're putting the cart before the horse. You don't know what she's ACTUALLY thinking. So find out!!!!

Good luck :) It took me months to ask out my gf initially, I was thinking she was too pretty for me, she's way too smart for me (med), she will think I'm no good and she had a few other guys pursuing her at the same time that I thought were a way better match for her than I was. But I just put it all aside, the jealousy, the self doubt, and anything negative I had in my mindset and just asked her... she said yes. 6 years later, about to put a ring on it.

edit: I should say I had known her for years but only started seeing her in that light months before I asked her out.

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Originally Posted by PK-EK (Post 8387041)

What the fuck happened last night?
Help me figure this one out guys:

Friend B and Girl B had a crazy history together that consists of:
making out with each other the first time they met in High School.
Being each others rebound for a few months.
Friend B always just touching her inappropriately under the table at our group dinners

Girl B was so regretful of the make out session that she stopped talking to him and cut him off for 2 years.

2 years later Friend B purse Girl B once and again but with no luck.

Fast forward to last year both Friend and Girl were single at the same time. Friend B thought he could use this and try to Get Girl B.
Girl B was in rebound mode so she lead him on. But Girl B finally came in sense and once again told him that she was not interested in a relationship with him.

Fast forward to last night. Friend B was being really touchy with Girl B (hes done this before) and made things really awkward for her, but she doesn't want to confront him because it will make it even more awkward.

After the party, Girl B tells me that he was being touchy with him again. and I got very angry and emotional
because during the last 3 years Friend B has been Off and on With the same girlfriend and is currently still dating his girlfriend.

Girl B then tells me how I should cock block him whenever I have a chance (because we only see Friend B when we are in our "group")
and then I make a comment about how he will probably think that I like Girl B and back off.
and she agreed to it.....

Has Girl B (cliché) "friendzoned" me?
or does she truly see me as a dominate male that can "shelter" her from this guy?
How impossible would it be for me to confess my emotions to Girl B down the road?
Fuck, i'd be amazed if just one person here understood what my feelings are and what my question is.

PK, I can tell you at this moment you are not the only one going through something like what you just mentioned. I had my chance but I didn't act upon it and now I am fighting with myself everyday still wondering if I still do.