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MAKE UP YOUR FUCKING MIND AND STOP BEING CRAZY

first ticket of 2014…..

time to reinstall that radar detector

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Originally Posted by yogenfruz (Post 8394988)

It's like because I'm the most recent one to have been dumped, all my close friends are coming to me for coping advice... Come on, just live your life; stay busy and keep your mind off it. Don't let it crush you.

Hookers or gigolo's. :fuckyea:

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Damn, I hate this recovery from being sick.. How the fuck did this even happen?!

Hey if she cheated on me she will cheat on you too. Just sayin'.

Clean clothes to wear, hot shower every day, food for every meal of the day. How did I ever get so lucky, I no longer have any complaints.

Time to give back.

6 days into the new year and I got sick already. Bleh.

Love how that song applies to so many troubled relationships :okay:
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She still doesn't get it. I don't think she ever will.

I'm through.
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u ok PK-EK?

Just give yourself time and some distance. You'll be fine. Plenty of girls out there! Seriously!

DISREGARD WOMEN...
.................................................. .............. AQUIRE SANITY

I cant stand when an ex publicaly tells people she is happier and stronger a year later after breaking up.

Of course you would tell people your happier. Who in the right mind would tell everyone they are less happy still. Our relationship was great and Im sure you were just as happy when we were together as you are now with your new boyfriend. No more, no less.

Confidence... why beat around the bush? Well don't bring it up now until she's back from her trip.

You don't want to think she got the message though, you want to know, and you want a response. How are you going to get a proper response if you don't outright ask her the question? Don't talk too much about feelings growing and all that fluff, just be like, "I have a great time whenever I'm with you, I was wondering if you wanted to go out on a date with me?" It's not a date, until its a date. You guys have been friends so asking her to hang out more often is just a sign you want to hang out with her as a friend.

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Originally Posted by PK-EK (Post 8396230)

OK Guys, I need help
I don't know what the fuck I just did...
(tonight is the night I have decided to tell her how I feel about her)
Shes leaving for a trip tomorrow; so Tonight we hung out; had dinner just the two of use.
Went to the bar to grab a drink with another friend.
After the bar; she drove me home.
And when we got to my house. I told her:
Me: These last few months have been really amazing.
Her: IDK if you're being serious but ok....
Me: I'm very serious. I just wanted to tell you that My Feelings for you have grown.
Her: HAHA yea! considering how much we use to hate each other.
Me: but I'm serious, I want to be that person that can Be Funny yet. Be serious for you.
Her: ok.... Thank you (very neutral vibe from her, not super happy but not surprised is the best I can describe her emotions) Message you when I get home.
Me: Okay, have a good trip, Bye. (walked into my garage and didn't look back)

WHAT THE FUCK GUYS.....
Was I not bold enough? was I playing that too friendly?
FUCK....... IDK I think she got the message... but like... her reaction was so... neutral

In those three days, go grab a beer, and chill out. lol.

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Originally Posted by PK-EK (Post 8396279)

update:

Looking at the glass half full

we are still talking now

so....
my worse fear didn't come true..
its not awkward!!!! :D

so either she has similar feelings.
or
she totally "friendzoned" the idea and thought of it as nothing.

I like to keep my head up high
look at it on the bright side

waiting for her to come back.

The next Three days is going to be Hell

Spoiler!

Been in a similar situation...idk man, but women are surely confusing...i'm pretty sure she knows exactly what you mean, and her talking to you is just to continue where you have left off so your friendship doesn't feel awkward. I feel that the time just comes and then you will realize for sure whether or not she has feelings for you. Heck, most women dont even understand why they have feelings for the guy too. STAY STRONG BROTHAAAAAAAA

life is great. 2014 has been awesome so far.

y'all need to quit wallowing in self pity and just stop giving a fuck when she doesn't. there is no point being hung up or sad about someone who doesn't feel the same way about you. why give someone all your time in the day when she won't even give you a minute.

fullsrs give less fucks and your life will be a lot better. having a gf is not the end goal to all happiness. it's just a bonus on the side. you make yourself happy by doing shit you love.

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Originally Posted by PK-EK (Post 8396230)

WHAT THE FUCK GUYS.....
Was I not bold enough? was I playing that too friendly?
FUCK....... IDK I think she got the message... but like... her reaction was so... neutral

If a woman likes you, you should never have to have that kind of awkward conversation. She should have given you plenty of signs like getting in your physical space, laughing at your lame jokes, texting/calling at random times of the day, giving you compliments, giving you the eye, etc.

I'm telling you this because I was once an awkward 20-something too.
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Originally Posted by !Nhan (Post 8396328)

QFTMFT!

Just lean in for the kiss next time, PK-EK.
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pk ek hate to tell you but you're deep in the friendzone. She knows you like her. Of course she knows. Shes playing it off like nothing cause she doesn't want it to be awkward. And want to lose you as a friend.
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