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terryjai 01-24-2014 08:01 PM

wow...really?!?!? this is how you treat me after i thought we had a good click/connection....guess i was wrong...

phunky.FOB 01-24-2014 09:49 PM

thanks for putting up with my bullshit.

ScizzMoney 01-25-2014 03:31 PM

Fell for the wrong sister. Why couldn't I have met her first??

!Nhan 01-25-2014 03:58 PM

jesus fuck you are so fucking cute it's not even funny. too bad you're SO much younger than me

ScizzMoney 01-25-2014 04:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by !Nhan (Post 8405874)
jesus fuck you are so fucking cute it's not even funny. too bad you're SO much younger than me

But you don't know how old I am.

:awwyeah: :toot:

Phozy 01-25-2014 09:18 PM

I keep losing things..what the fuck

Akinari 01-25-2014 10:58 PM

gf is going through difficult times with her friends' parents giving her mum shit about not "caring" enough and putting "limitations" on her and letting her do as she pleases i.e. having a boyfriend. Not only do they consistently keep asking her about our relationship together and what we've done, wanting to dig up details, they keep comparing her to their own sons and daughters. It's sad because there's nothing I can do about it and it's driving her crazy, and myself included. We're planning on going on a trip together this summer and once again her friends' parents are saying it'll be unsafe, and she should control her daughter. Not that her mum will actually listen to the bickering, but it's still annoying for her to have to deal with all this garbage from her friends' parents.

Jesus fuck mind your own business. Asian parents, is there really nothing better for you to do than comparing your sons and daughters from grades to dick/tit sizes?

Although I'm Asian, I'm glad my parents don't set/have never set any unreasonable limitations on what I can and cannot do. I've been brought up with a "common-sense first" and "you're responsible for your own actions" kind of way, and still live by that, my girlfriend as well, so it's quite agitating when people try and interfere with our relationship and apply pre-existing values regarding the "ideal" way to act on us.

:fulloffuck::rukidding::pokerface::stfu::facepalm: :ohgodwhy::fuuuuu::seriously:

palepilsenpin0y 01-26-2014 02:28 AM

I really need to stop dwelling on the past and start focusing on the present/future.

gloors 01-26-2014 03:21 AM

I always set myself up for disappointment
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!Nhan 01-26-2014 05:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ScizzMoney (Post 8405878)
But you don't know how old I am.

:awwyeah: :toot:

yes i do your profile told me so

PK-EK 01-26-2014 06:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Akinari (Post 8406058)
gf is going through difficult times with her friends' parents giving her mum shit about not "caring" enough and putting "limitations" on her and letting her do as she pleases i.e. having a boyfriend. Not only do they consistently keep asking her about our relationship together and what we've done, wanting to dig up details, they keep comparing her to their own sons and daughters. It's sad because there's nothing I can do about it and it's driving her crazy, and myself included. We're planning on going on a trip together this summer and once again her friends' parents are saying it'll be unsafe, and she should control her daughter. Not that her mum will actually listen to the bickering, but it's still annoying for her to have to deal with all this garbage from her friends' parents.

Jesus fuck mind your own business. Asian parents, is there really nothing better for you to do than comparing your sons and daughters from grades to dick/tit sizes?

Although I'm Asian, I'm glad my parents don't set/have never set any unreasonable limitations on what I can and cannot do. I've been brought up with a "common-sense first" and "you're responsible for your own actions" kind of way, and still live by that, my girlfriend as well, so it's quite agitating when people try and interfere with our relationship and apply pre-existing values regarding the "ideal" way to act on us.

:fulloffuck::rukidding::pokerface::stfu::facepalm: :ohgodwhy::fuuuuu::seriously:

Tackle it head on.
If it really is such a bother to you two
You should join them in a "family" lunch or something when the friend is there.
and then its your time to shine; you have to impress the shit out of them and make them like you. Being on your best behavior wont cut it.
You have to make them like you; make them love you.
They wanna talk about Chinese new years tradition, you have to wow them with all the little traditions you know.
They wanna talk about investing, you talk about investing.

and of course table manners

Bonus Points for paying for the bill, or at least attempting to pay for the bill

"if you can't beat them, Join them"

This will require a lot of premeditated homework, but there is nothing to loose.

It will also show your GF that you care so much about her. you not only want her to like you, but you also want the people around her to like you because that will make her life more happy and complete.

How did I come up with such a plan?
My Cousin was a bit of a slut and brought all her BFs to family dinners
and this one guy did something similar and it wowed me and the family.
It was also the guy that stayed with her the longest.

6793026 01-26-2014 07:07 AM

^ one hting i learned also when it comes to dating is to always take good care of their parents. Impress them, treat them with kindness and be overall respectful.

I'm dating a lot of rich girls, family owns billions, IPO companies, government officials etc, and where I don't have any means of money to their level, being courteous, well mannered and just being super respectful to their parents, really earned me a place in their hearts.

just like when you date a girl, the ONLY person you need to treat really well or impress is her best friend.

insomniac 01-26-2014 07:49 AM

Praying that this will work out
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k2damax 01-26-2014 11:57 AM

fuck u i hope u fail at life and never succeed at anything

JShifter 01-26-2014 05:44 PM

it's almost February you know what time it is? valentines Day jk more like lonely day

kkthind 01-26-2014 09:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sedan (Post 8406374)
it's almost February you know what time it is? valentines Day jk more like lonely day

On the bright side, more money for car parts

:fullofwin:
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bloodmack 01-27-2014 12:10 PM

forever alone party at my place! :alonehappy:

Lamboda 01-27-2014 12:14 PM

Spotted: Akinari driving his Element with revscene sticker on it :P
Spacious in there? :ifyouknow:

JD35 01-27-2014 05:03 PM

Pay up already, quit buying shit you cant afford.

TheMatty 01-27-2014 05:58 PM

kinda excited to go out Wednesday. Even though it's going to be a group of us, gotta figure out a way to get us alone

kkthind 01-27-2014 08:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JD35 (Post 8406851)
Pay up already, quit buying shit you cant afford.

:lawl: clementing

SpeedStars 01-27-2014 08:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TheMatty (Post 8406886)
kinda excited to go out Wednesday. Even though it's going to be a group of us, gotta figure out a way to get us alone

Driver her...then get "lost" :ifyouknow:

kakucaekz 01-27-2014 08:37 PM

There are hints that you two are done. Now I come in and see if it's true, but how? Fuckkkkk.

Qmx323 01-27-2014 09:36 PM

As Mike from Breaking Bad said...

"...No more half measures"

Not really racist! 01-27-2014 09:57 PM


fuarkkk


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