Speak it Out

[BrRsn]

we see you! come out of the woodwork!

Allow shit to hit the fan further!
Come on, I gotta go to bed soon. Got class early tomorrow

[TOS'd]

dis gunna be good

[hk20000]

There's nothing spectacular about this drama. People following this thread have known that I have made many attempts to return her stuff, I have no problem with that all the way, all the time, even if you tried to block me in every way possible, the only thing left is the SMS route, or instigate you somehow here (which I succeeded, but I rather you have PM'd me). I left for Los Angeles for a week and returned just before Vday so I came back and check on you a bit see if you finally might want to grab ur stuff, in doing so I felt like I can tie all the loose end and move on.

Don't forget, you are the one that use SIO as the reason to disconnect from me previously, so I could really care less how SIO affects your life; since it's not intended to direct at anybody and there are no names, that's how SIO is supposed to work, until you bring it about like this. Revscene is not your facebook

Then you throw a tantrum about how I can't even talk to you somehow, even when you, against me giving you the benefit of the doubt, tell me outright you have been cheating on me for months (or at least dare me to think that, which there really is no motive unless that is the truth). I really don't care or give a crap, I was hoping we can talk as human beings what's done is done, all that was left is tie the ends and move on.

I have moved to a new house right after you left me, I haven't even completely unpacked here yet. Do you think I could even care about what you still got here? Your bag of stuff just surfaced after my LA trip. I should have listened to my friends and just threw them away outright, your flak as soon as we SMS is unnecessary at this stage so I suddenly don't feel like letting you have your stuff any more.

Let's keep SIO the SIO, you missed your window I'm not going to respond any further to what happened between us this is not fight club. And Revscene is not a dating service site. If you want to talk this out like an adult you can PM or SMS me whichever way you like.

I also reported you to the RS mods for having multiple alias. You are welcome.

[Lamboda]

^
GIFSoup

Very eloquently put. 10/10 entertainment.

[320icar]

Would read again
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[!Nhan]

SIO?

[320icar]

Originally Posted by !Nhan

SIO?

Speak it out.

Took me a couple minutes to figure it out too
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[TOS'd]

Now we need the other side of the story.

: D

[ecchiecchi]

First time a already broken couple duke it out in SIO?

[yray]

multiple aliases

opcorn:

[TOS'd]

Originally Posted by ecchiecchi

First time a already broken couple duke it out in SIO?

Second time I've witnessed a couple duke it out on here. But the first time was more like taking jabs at each other without actually escalating.
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[melloman]

[BaoTurbo]

Originally Posted by TOS'd

Now we need the other side of the story.

: D

In for other side of story as well

[T4RAWR]

Originally Posted by dachinesedude

unless someone passed away, you really need to man up

every post you make about your relationship make you look beta as fuk, im not dissing you but i just want to warn you, you're showing all your cards way too soon

from your other post its only been like what, 100 days? and you already buying her all that shit for valentines, crying in her arms, etc.

just friendly advice, start wearing the pants in the relationship

wish i could thank more than once

[SimplyComplex]

Just to clarify a few things before I end this off.

As everyone else suggested, I should've just cut you off and not bother to respond.
However, it's been practically half a year and you still have the need to post random things and twist the story however you want it to make yourself feel better. Those that know me know the whole story, and that's enough.

But first of all in case you still don't get the message; this "officially" ended way back in Sept/Oct... But I'm sure you knew it was heading in that direction long before that.

Secondly, if it is over, it IS over, just because you insist that it isn't doesn't mean I "cheated" if it's been like 1-2 months, it's called moving on.

Third, after the way you reacted when I called it off, I felt no reason to talk you as you insisted that I was in denial and you could "win" me back, after I told you countless times to simply let it go. Creeping on my Facebook and downloading all of my photos and posting it into an album on your own personal Facebook is beyond disturbing. Not to mention hanging around outside my house/work.

Fourth, you keep badgering me to be friends, while at the same time bad mouthing me on SIO. Asking to hang out and help you get a new girlfriend is very awkward and not something I want to be apart of. With you constantly sending me weird messages and so-called "drunk texts" on WhatsApp, LINE, etc. I had to block you.

Fifth, it made no sense for you to contact me after half a year, blaming your other close friend on RS for your actions after the break up. I believe he is a better person than that, if not than that's my mistake. Not only that, you casually talk to me as if you're doing me a favour, and continue to belittle me. I had already told you months before if you refuse to give me my stuff back then you might as well throw them away. There's nothing of value at your place anyhow. Why you packed up my stuff when you were moving into your parent's new place is beyond me when the relationship was over in Sept/Oct and you moved in December. Your "attempts" to return anything was only this recent contact, while you tried to negotiate looking for my stuff if we were to remain "friends, no thank you after everything.

I have nothing more to ask, so stop harassing me. You can report this account all you want, I simply don't need you messaging me on all mediums with the bipolar attitude, talking big when other people are around, then trying to be "friends" or something otherwise.

Just let it burn, past is past. It's been far too long for this to continue.

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TL;DR Coles Notes:
Stop living in the past and bringing up history.

END

[nabs]

Okay guys, I think we're done here with the "Speak it out" drama. You had your fun.

The reasons I love this thread is as follows:

1. You can feel free to speak your mind about anything you feel like

2. No one judges you for anything you say

3. You can be as vague as you like

4. Everyone supports each other in here

Let's bring this thread back to where it was a few days back. Any more talking about the drama between the two members in question, the users post will be reported. No more egging on please.

[Inaii]

1. You can feel free to speak your mind about anything you feel like [...] Any more talking about the drama between the two members in question, the users post will be reported.

You just contradicted yourself nabs

[TOS'd]

Originally Posted by SimplyComplex

Third, after the way you reacted when I called it off, I felt no reason to talk you as you insisted that I was in denial and you could "win" me back, after I told you countless times to simply let it go. Creeping on my Facebook and downloading all of my photos and posting it into an album on your own personal Facebook is beyond disturbing. Not to mention hanging around outside my house/work.

179 days to go..

[Lamboda]

GIFSoup
I feel like joker reading all this hate and drama LOL.

[Mr.HappySilp]

Is this going to be one of those he said she said kind of thing now?
When the relationship ends it ended and that's it. Best to leave it in good terms if possible. It shows both person is mature and able to solve an issue like adults.

Yea it hurts when my ex ended the relationship. Guess what we talk about it, we dealt it in a mature way and we still chat and go out for dinner as friends. And yes she still have some of my stuff but that's ok coz she need it for the time being. And yes she rather have a long distance relationship with someone else it hurts in the beginning but hey if she isn't happy with me and I force her to stay or do things that try to make her stay, she wouldn't be happy anyways and I wouldn't be happy in terms.

Seeing how I am a very very immature person (I still pokemon on my 3ds) I simply can't figure out why you two can't deal this in a mature way and just move on and face the truth.

[PK-EK]

Everyone is saying how immature these guys are and blah blah blah
But i don't see it as much as being immature. I see it at two dominant stubron people who think they are wise and Shit fighting about nothing.

What i see:
Guy loved the girl more than the girl loved the guy.
Girl eventually stopped loving him.
Guy was lost and tried everything in his power to win her back
Girl realizes she never loved him
Guy is just being naive. Girl is just being a b

/thread.


Can we talk about my girl problems now?
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[BrRsn]

Originally Posted by PK-EK

Everyone is saying how immature these guys are and blah blah blah
But i don't see it as much as being immature. I see it at two dominant stubron people who think they are wise and Shit fighting about nothing.

What i see:
Guy loved the girl more than the girl loved the guy.
Girl eventually stopped loving him.
Guy was lost and tried everything in his power to win her back
Girl realizes she never loved him
Guy is just being naive. Girl is just being a b

/thread.


Can we talk about my girl problems now?
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people that overuse the word love disgust me

if it is 'love' it's a mutual feeling -- a relationship shouldn't be like a parent to its child, or a puppy to its master. People watch too many movies where 'love is unconditional' and the bitch leaves the guy for 10 years and the dumbass makes her a fucking mansion to live in, and when they reunite after 10 years he shows her the house he's been making for them for 10 years ... that shit doesn't exist IRL (and yes, that was my crappy synopsis/ruining the ending of The Notebook for you).

I think most people make the mistake of pursuing their first relationship long after the 'best before' date -- there's that first relationship mentality that 'this is the one' and that's just the way it is ... then you break up, think it's the end of the world for a week or two, then you undergo some personal growth (hopefully) and realize it's not that bad at all; there's tons of fun drugs to try, new hobbies to pursue, and plenty of assholes in the same position as you!

looking back to just 4-5 years ago I was a completely immature prick (and online I still am I guess), the amount you grow around the time that people start to have their first 'real relationships' is huge

[320icar]

^^ yesss dhillon!!


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[123654123]

Originally Posted by dhillon09

people that overuse the word love disgust me

if it is 'love' it's a mutual feeling -- a relationship shouldn't be like a parent to its child, or a puppy to its master. People watch too many movies where 'love is unconditional' and the bitch leaves the guy for 10 years and the dumbass makes her a fucking mansion to live in, and when they reunite after 10 years he shows her the house he's been making for them for 10 years ... that shit doesn't exist IRL (and yes, that was my crappy synopsis/ruining the ending of The Notebook for you).

I think most people make the mistake of pursuing their first relationship long after the 'best before' date -- there's that first relationship mentality that 'this is the one' and that's just the way it is ... then you break up, think it's the end of the world for a week or two, then you undergo some personal growth (hopefully) and realize it's not that bad at all; there's tons of fun drugs to try, new hobbies to pursue, and plenty of assholes in the same position as you!

looking back to just 4-5 years ago I was a completely immature prick (and online I still am I guess), the amount you grow around the time that people start to have their first 'real relationships' is huge

this fight was interesting while it lasted

[TOS'd]

Lasted? So it finished?
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