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I've been single for so long now, that I have become quite happily content with the fact. So much so, that whenever the situation to make a move on a girl arises, I either don't care enough to do so, or am just so content with how things are right now that I can't be bothered. Essentially, I don't care that I'm single, or not getting laid for that matter. Shit's good. |
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waiting 6 months to make a move was already beta enough, this will make you downright annoying, do you want to be known as the annoying beta bitch? just friendly advice |
@jonwon great post what is ceo'ing ? |
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fuck rs has become misc |
Forgot to call gf because too busy doing car stuff oops :troll: |
wcb... such a pain in the fucking ass... |
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"If I wanted to screw around, I could do it if I want to, but this girl I want to be with forever...." You are putting yourself through this emotional blender, and we are trying to give you advice from bro's who have been there before. She's not worth it, and trust me... trusssssttttt me, there are plennnnty of girls out there who would love to be with a guy like you, and be worthy of your love. If she's doing this emotional rollercoaster with you when you're not even together, just IMAGINE IFF you guys got together, IT WILL NOT BE ANY EASIER, IT WILL GET HARDER AND HARDER TO KEEP HER HAPPY. I'm not telling you to screw around with other chicks, im trying to say keep your emotions in check, if you want to just be friends with her, that's totally cool, TURN OFF YOUR FEELINGS (guys can absolutely do this, I haven't met any guy who doesn't come with this feature). Again not telling you to screw around, but go and MEET other people! Get out of your circle of friends comfort zone, you'll surprise yourself. Spoiler! My Speak It Out: My goal and my ultimate career in life is to be happy with myself. So far, I'm doing a good job. |
First ever heartbreak. God, this sucks. Better sooner than later, I guess. |
PK-EK I think one day you'll have an epiphany where you will see that vision before you. What I am talking about is that from all my experiences, I tried hard to get a girlfriend. It came to a point where I took a long hard look into my reflection and asked, is it me or them? Is there a problem with myself? What's stopping me from having a girlfriend? It is indeed my fault. I never developed myself. Would I have dated past me? No, I was way too clingy and emotional. So here I am, developing myself. Trying to set goals and getting out more. I'm still not having much success with women. But from going on dates with other girls (even when I'm not interested) I learn more about myself and what I want. And what you will come to understand in your own time--hopefully, is that it's actually very easy to get a girl who likes you. It truly is. I've experienced it once and I know many couples who got together once the feeling is mutual and it's quick. My last girl I "dated" I went on 2 or 3 dates with her. It took so long to even schedule a date with her, that I knew that I was the one holding on. So I broke it off. She still has my number. Did she message me? No. I talked to her daily and I threw it away just like that. And you know what? I dodged a bullet. I won't waste my time on someone like that. DL;DR It's easy to get into a relationship with someone who likes you, or going on dates with someone who has interest in you. |
^ great post buddy. exactly, you pour so much in and the girl doesn't even blink an eye. PRAISE THE LORD for not getting sucked in. don't waste your time like that. Remember to ALWAYS invest in yourself. i saw a quote: "I dare you to invest in something that's INSIDE your brain than outside of your body" invest in a hobby, to be a better person, than spending money on clothes, toys, gfs etc. so so deep on many levels. |
Sigh, starting to feel really depress.. to the point where I don't wanna hang out with friends cause I don't wanna bring negativity around. |
I'm glad I finally moved on. Even though you finally realized what it meant by the saying "you never realize something good until its gone". I'm already gone. http://memecrunch.com/meme/189H9/no-...arts/image.png |
First job interview in over two years... Fuuucccckkkk. |
^good luck bro!! so many thanks on this page we've all been there PK-EK i've been there recently in fact you'll get tired of chasing someone that doesn't return the feelings sooner or later...how quickly you get to that point varies for everyone but i find that if you keep yourself busy doing other things, especially things that you enjoy instead of being in a rut thinking about that girl all day then that day will come sooner than you think. when it comes you won't even realize it. also if the girl msgs you from time to time give minimal attention. if you're looking to maintain the friendship keep the convo to a few lines and say you're busy ttyl if she really wants to catch up let her move mountains to see you cause its about time she returned the attention you gave her. always keep busy invest more time in yourself instead of others. invest time to improve yourself learn new things and people will naturally gravitate to you. also, being busy doesn't necessarily mean you should be doing something productive, you could just be busy watching shows, working on your car, cruising, taking naps, more naps lol as long as these tasks involve having you as the first priority. |
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It's so important for us guys to realize that not all girls will fall for us, and if we keep pushing forward and attempt to grab the attention of girls who are simply not into us, it's a complete waste of time and won't generate anything more than a friendship, if at all. I speak from firsthand experience. If a girl is not interested, it's very obvious, and she'll more than likely politely turn down most, if not all of your advances. Once a girl falls for you, it's very obvious, and that's your green light to take things to the next step. |
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^ Pretty sure I hit middle of the road with that interview today; didn't sleep much as I was anxious for it, and stumbled on my words a number of times. Oh well, 7 spots open to 14 candidates... Only gotta beat out half of em! |
damn.. I really hate getting reminded of her pasts == |
disregard women, acquire aesthetics and currency brahs |
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Unless u mean ex's. then yeah fuck that shit Posted via RS Mobile |
struggle now and life the rest of your life as a champion :alone: |
All I can say is I miss you. That is all. |
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