^:lawl:

He was there when I cleaned it, watching me and laughing. LOL.

Pussied out :fuuuuu:
I need more motivation...and I also need someone on the inside

isn't it funny how you trusted me not to rage and i trusted you to stick to the plan, but instead it just blew up on both ends.
what is teamwork and how do i fucking acquire it?

We flirted like crazy yet im too fucking oblivious to ask you to coffee....FML....arghhhhh

My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 8 months. About a year before we started dating, she had a long distance "thing" with a guy she had only met in person a few times. It wasn't necessarily dating, but it was definitely more than friends. This thing lasted about two months before the guy on New years eve sent her a text telling her he wasn't into her. About a year before that "thing" she was dating another guy for a few months, when one of her closest friends ( a guy ) kissed her as a "joke" to try to make her feel uncomfortable. She ended the relationship she was in because she was overcome with guilt.

The two people she continues to communicate with the most are the long distance guy and the "joke" kiss guy. When ive talked to her about it, she says she only sees them as friends. I feel bad because I feel like I don't trust her when it comes to this. But she constantly communicates with these two guys.

Its also ironic because she got really jealous of my relationship with one of my closest friends who's a female. It feels like a massive double standard to me, because in the four years of my friendship we've always been friends and nothing else, yet this bothers my gf. But she cant understand how constant communication with two people from her past that are the opposite sex and were definitely not just friends bothers me.

I never really had a big problem with it, until about 3 months into our relationship my gf and I had a very personal discussion, and a week later it came out that she had shared the whole thing with long distance guy. And I was choked.

Thank you to anybody that takes all the time to read this.
I would really appreciate opinions/advice.
Thanks

^relevant video

first autos event tmml. so excited :woot2:

If anybody has any opinions/comments/advice on my post above, feel free to pm me or write it here. Its much appreciated, I'm trying not to get too frustrated, but I'm beginning to lose sleep over this...

^ dude, it's pretty common sense. the girl don't understand the courtsey and the fact it bothers you.

just walk the fuck away and stop dealing with shit like this. throw her on the side of hte curb, say good bye and you'll be glad u moved on. simple as that.

It's hard to write a message that conveys everything that's going on, but seriously, after 8 months there is a lot of "good" in this relationship as well. And I want to do the best I can to make it work, but it has come to that point where I am seriously considering moving on from her, dealing with the issues, or trying to ignore them.

I do appreciate the honest answer, but I'm trying to think more along the lines of what should I say or do differently? Is it wrong for it to bother me? and what should I say to her about the issue?
I'm already aware that abandoning friends to keep her happy is ridiculous, especially when the only issue is that my friend is female.

Again, I really appreciate the advice.

feeling frustrated and de-motivated.. i just need help to get through this, next, and the final.

Can't hide anything forever

delayed girlfriend realization syndrome lol

fk u @ts14

Gregboat: your concept is great if you were in sales. debriefing on what you could have done better, but this is your gf. she gives you feedback and you both have chances to work things out.

this is the time when you have to pack up and go
i have come to realization there are some people in live you date, meet, fuck etc that just aren't at you caliber yet. they simply don't think the same, they don't act the same and there is nothing you can do to make them change.

is it possible to have htem change? yes... but that's only if it's a mother and son relationship.

Not enough sex :alone:

Honeymoon phase over eh

what do I want in life.....

when one door closes another one opens? wut

Tell her this if she is allow to keep two guys close as friends and both guys are more than friends with her in the past then you have to right to be close with your female friends as well. Just tell her is only fair that way.

If she doesn't like you talking another female then she have to change as well.

I want to express to you. But I am afraid.

Cheers to a good weekend! Excited for what happens next..

im a fucking idiot. i keep making the same stupid mistakes over and over with out even realizing it until its too late. fuck this. im done. just gonna take the easy route....

lost a key to all the spider-wraps and security cases at work
im fucked lol

We're going to build this together because you're my king and I'm your queen.



But do I really want that?..