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Old 08-07-2014, 11:21 AM   #19476
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Hey, here is a question,, whats your guys idea bout getting back with your ex?

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Old 08-07-2014, 12:18 PM   #19477
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Hey, here is a question,, whats your guys idea bout getting back with your ex?
No. Unless it was a good breakup where neither of you wanted to but due to outside factors were forced to break up in the first place. Otherwise, hell no, you broke up for a reason.
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Hey, here is a question,, whats your guys idea bout getting back with your ex?
"I and my bf met last year, till now, have been in a relationship for seven months, but recently, for the last two months, I found he changed a lil bit, does not care about me very much, and sometimes thinks I am annoying, he wont talk to me much or even doesn't want sex with me. so I think he may not love me any more, what should I do? I am so good to him that I don't wanna lose him, cuz its not an easy thing for a guy and a girl get to know each other, and be in a relationship, both of us should cherish this relationship and the time we have spent together, but I also cannot persuade myself to live with a guy who does not care about me, in addition, he becomes impatient to me easily these days, it's like he feels me love him so much and I could not leave him, yep, I love him very much but it does not mean I will stay with a guy who does not love me, I want a peaceful and happy life and a family, what should I do ... so frustrated..."

"thank you very much. yes, i totally agree with you, but actually we are not that close, like spending 24/7 with each other, and I had a talk with him yesterday, at first, everything was fine, but later, when I talked about something related to our relationship, he became impatient, maybe he thought i was talking too much on that topic or even though we speak out all the problems, we still can do nothing to fix them, like he said he found there are some problems about culture differences between us (cuz I was not born here, but he was born here) I really wanna him to tell me what those problems are, then I would like to try my best to solve those problems, but he refused to telling me anything. what I am thinking is, if you love somebody very much, then nothings gonna be a problem, nothings gonna stop you from loving her/him, or doing anything to make her/him happy, am I wrong? since we chose each other to be the partner at the beginning, then we should have thought about that there will be a lot problems happen later in our life, and when we encounter with these difficulties, what we should do is to overcome but not concede or doing nothing even stop moving on, right?

I dont think there is any problem will stop some one from loving /caring about the other one, the one he/she loves, but only one thing will stop it, that is your love disappears. right?"

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Old 08-07-2014, 05:26 PM   #19480
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No. Unless it was a good breakup where neither of you wanted to but due to outside factors were forced to break up in the first place. Otherwise, hell no, you broke up for a reason.
Well, yes, all break-ups have some certain reason I think, but what im thinking bout now is maybe the reason/reasons are not that severe that will lead to a break-up. after calm down and reflection, your thinking may change... but like I said, maybe... not sure.
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If it's this guy, don't bother.
You just feel like you're missing something in your life, but in fact you are better off without.

If you get back with him you will end up in like your old post and break up again
then it will go into a big circle


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well, thx. I think I may do something quite wrong that pissed him off once in a while, after some reflections, I got to know that it was mainly my fault, I just love him in the way I thought it should be, but not the way he wants or likes, I may ignore his feelings sometimes and hurt him so much, so really sorry for him. and he has now moved on with a new girl, I am really happy for him and wish him the best. but I do still have feeling for him. right now, I only can remember the happy times we spent together. all those memories can make me smile
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"I and my bf met last year, till now, have been in a relationship for seven months, but recently, for the last two months, I found he changed a lil bit, does not care about me very much, and sometimes thinks I am annoying, he wont talk to me much or even doesn't want sex with me. so I think he may not love me any more, what should I do? I am so good to him that I don't wanna lose him, cuz its not an easy thing for a guy and a girl get to know each other, and be in a relationship, both of us should cherish this relationship and the time we have spent together, but I also cannot persuade myself to live with a guy who does not care about me, in addition, he becomes impatient to me easily these days, it's like he feels me love him so much and I could not leave him, yep, I love him very much but it does not mean I will stay with a guy who does not love me, I want a peaceful and happy life and a family, what should I do ... so frustrated..."

"thank you very much. yes, i totally agree with you, but actually we are not that close, like spending 24/7 with each other, and I had a talk with him yesterday, at first, everything was fine, but later, when I talked about something related to our relationship, he became impatient, maybe he thought i was talking too much on that topic or even though we speak out all the problems, we still can do nothing to fix them, like he said he found there are some problems about culture differences between us (cuz I was not born here, but he was born here) I really wanna him to tell me what those problems are, then I would like to try my best to solve those problems, but he refused to telling me anything. what I am thinking is, if you love somebody very much, then nothings gonna be a problem, nothings gonna stop you from loving her/him, or doing anything to make her/him happy, am I wrong? since we chose each other to be the partner at the beginning, then we should have thought about that there will be a lot problems happen later in our life, and when we encounter with these difficulties, what we should do is to overcome but not concede or doing nothing even stop moving on, right?

I dont think there is any problem will stop some one from loving /caring about the other one, the one he/she loves, but only one thing will stop it, that is your love disappears. right?"

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If you get back with him you will end up in like your old post and break up again
then it will go into a big circle


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Old 08-09-2014, 11:53 AM   #19497
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btw, what have you guys dealt with your ex's stuff? I want some voice from guys plz, then I will have some ideas bout returning them to him or just throw them away. You guys may have already thought them as garbage, and wont want them back.Am I right?
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Walked out on you a year ago, BEST decision ever made. I just found out you have cheated on me during the time we were dating. Oh well. that's the past. I'm so over you already so it doesn't even phase me. Good luck with another one of your failed relationships.

I'm at a much better place, starting off with such an amazing gf that's just pure gold. Good luck growing old and you'll soon realize you're spiraling your life away. By the time you know your life is empty, you'll probably be sad as fuck.
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Walked out on you a year ago, BEST decision ever made. I just found out you have cheated on me during the time we were dating. Oh well. that's the past. I'm so over you already so it doesn't even phase me. Good luck with another one of your failed relationships.

I'm at a much better place, starting off with such an amazing gf that's just pure gold. Good luck growing old and you'll soon realize you're spiraling your life away. By the time you know your life is empty, you'll probably be sad as fuck.
If you really didn't care, you wouldn't be posting it here.

Being cheated on hurts, and finding out a year later would just put salt on the cut.

But I know you're not 100% over it, or you wouldn't be venting about it on the QQ thread.

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