Because we're good friends and we don't want to change what we have?
I have this hard crush on you, that I can't even move on.
I'm so stuck being there .... that I reject a lot of other guys who asks me out on dates..
I just feel like maybe WE could give it a shot.
If it doesn't work we will still remain good friends.
It's a lot better than not trying.
At this point it's not even a crush any more.
This sucks... I'm too much of a pussy to say anything.

^^not often does a girl find themselves in your position

Simplicity - a concept/idea absent from the female brain

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"I don't want to ruin the friendship" is a cop out. It's what people say when they aren't sure there's much more than friendship to be had, or know that the relationship wouldn't last and would rather be your friend than throw it away for sex. If he feels the way you do, it will be worth it to him to risk the friendship for...love? If he's not willing to risk it, be thankful that he respects you and likes you enough to know that he does want you around as a friend for a long time, rather than just throw the friendship away for sex.

lol it's funnier that this is coming from you.

lol the irony of the situation

y u got to be so indecisive/iffy

I miss her but I have a girlfriend for 3 years now. To this day I wondered why did she break up with me? Should I message her?

if you want to jeopardize your current relationship for some closure, i'd say go for it

EDIT:

Hope this break up is the right direction for my life...

“I want to be your favorite place to go when you’ve had a bad day or a good day.”

Why. I ask myself every night, why?

Why can't you just apologize when you fuck up?

Sick and tired of letting shit slide because I don't want to deal with the counter-attack.

Stop listening to your 4-times divorced mother and your twice-divorced sister unless you want to follow the same path.

So frustrated with job hunting right now. Not many jobs I'm interested and many that I am I am not qualified for. A lot of jobs aren't even posted and I really need an in! Urgh, keep on trucking.

On the upside, health is great and the bf is awesome. Have to count my blessings.

What kind of industry/field?

So my friend sent me this after saying I'm too slow,
and I asked him, I didn't understood what he meant.
"When you catch a fish whack him on the head so he won't get away"
I think he thinks I wanted him to be my boyfriend.

Like how the f*** do you react to that?
Telling me that he has a girlfriend
and that I was too slow?
Like WTF.
maybe it does bother me because I'm over reacting
how am I supposed to know I should be the one asking him out?
Maybe I still live in the world where it should always be the guy asking the girl out

^ or maybe you took way too long to make up your mind whether you like him or not and he just lost interest.

You lost to another girl who was able to keep him interested and made up her mind faster.

guy can't wait forever; there are other fish in the sea you know.

I need a new sugar mama.

Communications. I work in non-profit right now, but am considering profit and non-profit at this point.

Tough, I know some recent communications graduates and its pretty hard to find things. I suggest you apply for the ones you don't think you're qualified for as well. Doesn't hurt in the end either. Good luck on your search!

broke up with my gf..... still friends in social media compared to others where we deleted each other. How does this work now?..... she wants to be close friends still but eh.....

does sugar mama's exist in vancouver :lawl:

Good luck with that...