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gloors 12-09-2014 11:48 AM

Fuck... That smile always gets me.. Ugh :heartsmile:

Armind 12-09-2014 03:39 PM

Try married friends.

Quote:

Originally Posted by PARANOiA-R34 (Post 8566946)
Friend 1: Works for minimum wage.

Buys $700 iPhone for GF as Xmas gift.

"Hey I can't do boys night anymore, money's really tight right now"

Friend 2: BROS FOR LIFE, BROS BEFORE HOES FUCK BITCHES GET MONEY

Gets GF.

Becomes terribly whipped and essentially forgets all of his friends, literally right after they finally have sex.

...

Dafuq. I hate my friends.


pinn3r 12-09-2014 11:27 PM

Woe is me in my Napoleonic plight.

Yodamaster 12-10-2014 12:58 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PARANOiA-R34 (Post 8566946)
Friend 1: Works for minimum wage.

Buys $700 iPhone for GF as Xmas gift.

"Hey I can't do boys night anymore, money's really tight right now"

Friend 2: BROS FOR LIFE, BROS BEFORE HOES FUCK BITCHES GET MONEY

Gets GF.

Becomes terribly whipped and essentially forgets all of his friends, literally right after they finally have sex.

...

Dafuq. I hate my friends.


Oh boy it isn't just you then.

phunky.FOB 12-10-2014 09:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mr.HappySilp (Post 8566612)
FWB?

Sometime to pass time with at work I suppose hahah jk



No more flirting at work....he got in trouble with his manager
I have to learn to keep work and relationship separate.

Mr.HappySilp 12-10-2014 10:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PARANOiA-R34 (Post 8566946)
Friend 1: Works for minimum wage.

Buys $700 iPhone for GF as Xmas gift.

"Hey I can't do boys night anymore, money's really tight right now"

Friend 2: BROS FOR LIFE, BROS BEFORE HOES FUCK BITCHES GET MONEY

Gets GF.

Becomes terribly whipped and essentially forgets all of his friends, literally right after they finally have sex.

...

Dafuq. I hate my friends.

You need to get a gf.

hchang 12-10-2014 10:37 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mr.HappySilp (Post 8567505)
You need to get a gf.

Or get friends who aren't pussies

6o4__boi 12-10-2014 12:34 PM

what. i seriously need to quit while i'm still winning.
why is it so hard to just leave things the way they are

Ikkaku 12-10-2014 10:47 PM

come in, leave such a strong and lasting impression, and then peace it suddenly

:QQ:

Tone Loc 12-10-2014 11:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mr.HappySilp (Post 8567505)
You need to get a gf.

I have a GF, have had one for 3 years.

...But I just don't believe in A) overspending on gifts while making barely enough to scrape by, then complaining endlessly afterwards, nor B) throwing my "bros" and family under the bus for merely sex, especially when it makes me a complete hypocrite.

Just my $0.02.

That being said, I do probably need friends who aren't pussies.

melloman 12-11-2014 07:36 AM

Nothing wrong with your friends, except they have fucked up priorities.

------------

Christmas is less then 2 weeks away. :pokerface: Good thing I already did all my shopping. :hat:

Godzira 12-11-2014 09:10 AM

interesting..

long post..

hedonist 12-11-2014 09:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Godzira (Post 8567929)
interesting..

long post..


Great post and words, though I just have a thought on the very last image. Though we can acknowledge and appreciate that there are others who have it worse, I don't think it's grounds to completely belittle the immediate problem that someone else has.

Be it someone lost their job, got their heart broken, had coffee spilled on their white shirt, there is no sense in reasoning with that person having a real-time reaction to their situation. Trying to justify that their immediate problem is minuscule compared to starving children in Asia and Africa is... insensible(?.. for lack of a better word) to them.

People are allowed to feel, to grieve, and to come to full understanding with their emotions. Belittling their situation by comparing spilled coffee to a kid in Asia that doesn't have food is comparing apples to oranges.

Perhaps next time someone comes to you with a problem, be it they lost a job, lost love, or had a minor oops, maybe take into consideration that they were upset enough to tell you about it. Let them express what they're feeling in that moment. Lending an ear will help them come to full cycle with their emotions sooner, and they'll grow to accept that what is, is, sooner.

Taking their problem and comparing it against someone who has it worse usually isn't the best tactic to help them get over it (if helping is your intention, or help is what they seek from you).

My 'deep' moment of the day, ladies and gentlemen.

Godzira 12-11-2014 09:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hedonist (Post 8567942)
Great post and words, though I just have a thought on the very last image. Though we can acknowledge and appreciate that there are others who have it worse, I don't think it's grounds to completely belittle the immediate problem that someone else has.

Be it someone lost their job, got their heart broken, had coffee spilled on their white shirt, there is no sense in reasoning with that person having a real-time reaction to their situation. Trying to justify that their immediate problem is minuscule compared to starving children in Asia and Africa is... insensible(?.. for lack of a better word) to them.

People are allowed to feel, to grieve, and to come to full understanding with their emotions. Belittling their situation by comparing spilled coffee to a kid in Asia that doesn't have food is comparing apples to oranges.

Perhaps next time someone comes to you with a problem, be it they lost a job, lost love, or had a minor oops, maybe take into consideration that they were upset enough to tell you about it. Let them express what they're feeling in that moment. Lending an ear will help them come to full cycle with their emotions sooner, and they'll grow to accept that what is, is, sooner.

Taking their problem and comparing it against someone who has it worse usually isn't the best tactic to help them get over it (if helping is your intention, or help is what they seek from you).

My 'deep' moment of the day, ladies and gentlemen.

woah.



good point, I didn't look at it from that perspective. I interpreted it as "stop being an eeyore and count your blessings rather than focusing on the negative."

but.. what you said.

Akinari 12-11-2014 10:13 AM

So fucking annoying.

My ex had the same birthday as my dad

My current gf has the same birthday as my mom

I can't please everyone at the same time

:fuuuuu::fuuuuu::fuuuuu:

PandaDog 12-11-2014 01:50 PM

Thank you SFU security team for reuniting me with my Del Sol key :fullofwin:

So choked losing it last night, was raining so hard and I had to transit home. Not to mention dealing with a relationship problem compounded with a morning final exam :okay:

Yodamaster 12-11-2014 03:59 PM

Fuuuu

There's this girl in my Tourism class (don't ask) that I've been getting along with pretty well, and I like her, but she's only on the verge of turning 18.

I just turned 21, so I don't know whether asking her out would be appropriate. She looks 20, so she caught me off guard when I asked her how old she was.

PandaDog 12-11-2014 06:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Yodamaster (Post 8568119)
Fuuuu

There's this girl in my Tourism class (don't ask) that I've been getting along with pretty well, and I like her, but she's only on the verge of turning 18.

I just turned 21, so I don't know whether asking her out would be appropriate. She looks 20, so she caught me off guard when I asked her how old she was.

Age is just a number :toot:

:accepted:

tofu1413 12-11-2014 06:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Yodamaster (Post 8568119)
Fuuuu

There's this girl in my Tourism class (don't ask) that I've been getting along with pretty well, and I like her, but she's only on the verge of turning 18.

I just turned 21, so I don't know whether asking her out would be appropriate. She looks 20, so she caught me off guard when I asked her how old she was.

you'll be okay :fuckyea:

tiger_handheld 12-11-2014 07:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Yodamaster (Post 8568119)
Fuuuu

There's this girl in my Tourism class (don't ask) that I've been getting along with pretty well, and I like her, but she's only on the verge of turning 18.

I just turned 21, so I don't know whether asking her out would be appropriate. She looks 20, so she caught me off guard when I asked her how old she was.

21/2=10.5+7=17.5

math checks out.
proceed with caution - road maybe bumpy with expectations.

Akinari 12-12-2014 11:05 AM

I was sleeping of course I didn't hear you call 4 times in the morning. Besides my phone was silenced.

Don't need to be a little bitch about it.

Godzira 12-12-2014 12:45 PM

Hope you guys all have a good weekend!

http://img.topyaps.com/wp-content/up...014/06/571.gif

320icar 12-12-2014 12:52 PM

Might lose my job because of someone else's screw up. Merry Christmas

Inaii 12-12-2014 03:21 PM

Don't see how they can legally fire YOU over someone else's mistake.

ilovebacon 12-12-2014 08:28 PM


wow this might help myself and a few of you


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