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12-12-2014, 10:26 PM
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#20051 | | Even when im right, revscene.net is still right!
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Or you could phone her and ask her if she'd be interested in going to (X) activity with you.
Texting is wimpy, anyone can text, and she knows that you have all the time in the world to say something that might appear to be interesting. If you just call the girl, there is no time for you to bullshit around, and she'll know that whatever you say hasn't been thought over a million times to make it seem perfect. The only excuse I can imagine for not calling is if you literally have no game whatsoever. Phoning someone is infinitely more personal than texting, you can pick out real emotion from a conversation over the phone because you're actually talking to someone. The guy in the video is correct, the woman you're after probably has ten men texting her constantly, be the one who actually phones her and you instantly stand out.
Another point that he tries to make in that video is how you need to make the conversation fun, calling someone is way more interesting than texting, it's a delicate balance that will reward you if done right. Half of the "fun" work is done for you if you can keep a conversation without being awkward. And it makes you look like you have a pair, a good conversation tells her that you're sharp as a tack.
I'm sure that you could still score a date if you're good at texting, but you're turning down a free advantage that is going to give you a leg up on the competition.
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12-13-2014, 08:45 PM
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#20052 | | I Will not Admit my Addiction to RS
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My current life circumstances have compelled me to put the following on my own vehicle. 
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12-14-2014, 12:58 AM
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#20053 | | Diagonally parked in a parallel universe
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It hurt to see all those tears streaming down your face.  But you're strong, and determined. You'll be fine. I know it.
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12-14-2014, 10:31 AM
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#20054 | | 14 dolla balla aint got nothing on me!
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Since now we act like we don't know each other at work but when we get to see each other after work I appreciate you so much more. I hate kissing but with you its much different. I love kissing you. I wish we can spend more time with each other. Then again I feel we shouldn't be continuing this especially if I want to stay at this store . ... what to do what to do...
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12-14-2014, 11:02 AM
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#20055 | | RS controls my life!
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12-14-2014, 03:43 PM
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#20056 | | Everyone wants a piece of R S...
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Originally Posted by ilovebacon  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WP7Eo0OfbQ4
wow this might help myself and a few of you | I believe if you have to watch videos on how to talk/text to girls, then you have no hope of "seducing" them. It's pathetic man, in the words of nike "just do it". Practice makes perfect not youtube videos.
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12-14-2014, 08:14 PM
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#20057 | | MiX iT Up!
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alone with thoughts. the past. the present. the future.
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Sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is, it's not our loss, but theirs, for they left the only person who couldn't give up on them.
Make the effort and take the risk..
"Do what you feel in your heart to be right- for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't." - Eleanor Roosevelt | |
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12-14-2014, 10:21 PM
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#20058 | | God of Unce
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Stay safe..
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12-15-2014, 01:50 PM
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#20059 | | RS controls my life!
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Getting parts in the mail that I've been waiting 2 weeks for. Coming home from work happier than a kitten under a leaky cow to finally put my car back together... to find they are all broken into pieces because "the lady at the post office said they'd be fine without any packing."
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Originally Posted by SkunkWorks I believe cars are meant to be driven. I see zero point in having a beautiful car and never driving it. Might as well have Miranda Kerr in your bed and sleeping on the ground cause you don't want to fudge her mascara...
We go through our entire lives being told what to do every step of the way. The garage was always the one place where you could indulge in your own passion, with not a care for the outside world. | | |
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12-15-2014, 01:52 PM
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#20060 | | My name is Michael. J. Caboose, and I hate BABIES!
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Originally Posted by Godzira Getting parts in the mail that I've been waiting 2 weeks for. Coming home from work happier than a kitten under a leaky cow to finally put my car back together... to find they are all broken into pieces because "the lady at the post office said they'd be fine without any packing."
sigh .. |  I hope the sender returns your money for being an idiot.
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"Can you match my resolve? If so then you will succeed. I believe that the human spirit is indomitable. If you endeavour to achieve, it will happen given enough resolve." -- Monty Oum Quote:
Originally Posted by STATUS105 IF I FIND YOU
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12-15-2014, 01:58 PM
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#20061 | | RS controls my life!
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Originally Posted by Inaii I hope the sender returns your money for being an idiot. | He was doing me a favour so I can't even be mad. I thanked him anyways and do appreciate him trying.. I just can't believe he wouldn't wrap the injectors up.. everyone knows the pintle caps are like glass and shatter if you look at them.
if I would have known I would've just bought a rebuild kit from the start and saved myself waiting a month.
I just wanna drive my car. I get really grumpy when its in pieces like this
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Originally Posted by SkunkWorks I believe cars are meant to be driven. I see zero point in having a beautiful car and never driving it. Might as well have Miranda Kerr in your bed and sleeping on the ground cause you don't want to fudge her mascara...
We go through our entire lives being told what to do every step of the way. The garage was always the one place where you could indulge in your own passion, with not a care for the outside world. | | |
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12-15-2014, 02:29 PM
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#20062 | | reads most threads with his pants around his ankles, especially in the Forced Induction forum.
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Originally Posted by phunky.FOB Since now we act like we don't know each other at work but when we get to see each other after work I appreciate you so much more. I hate kissing but with you its much different. I love kissing you. I wish we can spend more time with each other. Then again I feel we shouldn't be continuing this especially if I want to stay at this store . ... what to do what to do... | Keep it professional at work and go wild after work!
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12-16-2014, 04:23 AM
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#20063 | | Diagonally parked in a parallel universe
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Speaking of work, I'm going to be running a portion of the staff training/refresher/inservice in January.. Guess I've been around long enough to do something like that, lol. Nervous and pumped at the same time!
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12-16-2014, 04:03 PM
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#20064 | | OMGWTFBBQ is a common word I say everyday
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Really bothers the shit out of me when people say they'll do something and then don't do it.
i understand if something comes up, just be a grown up and say it, I don't give a shit.
Brushing it off and pretending that they didn't say it in the first place?
Seriously? Why even say it in the first place? I hate to sound like a whiny little bitch but stop saying shit you can't follow through on.
As someone who'd go the extra mile to keep my word, this really pisses me off.
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12-16-2014, 05:35 PM
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#20065 | | Even when im right, revscene.net is still right!
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Originally Posted by Yodamaster Fuuuu
There's this girl in my Tourism class (don't ask) that I've been getting along with pretty well, and I like her, but she's only on the verge of turning 18.
I just turned 21, so I don't know whether asking her out would be appropriate. She looks 20, so she caught me off guard when I asked her how old she was. |
I got her number today.
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12-17-2014, 09:24 AM
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#20066 | | Ready to be Man handled by RS!
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I always start my day with my best intentions... Then there are people with intentions that just conflicts.
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12-17-2014, 02:02 PM
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#20067 | | I STILL don't get it
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Is it normal to stress over Christmas shopping because I have no fucking clue what to get my boyfriend and it's a week away. Seriously so much stress.
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12-17-2014, 02:04 PM
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#20068 | | My name is Michael. J. Caboose, and I hate BABIES!
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^don't worry, I'm in the same boat lol
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"Can you match my resolve? If so then you will succeed. I believe that the human spirit is indomitable. If you endeavour to achieve, it will happen given enough resolve." -- Monty Oum Quote:
Originally Posted by STATUS105 IF I FIND YOU
I WILL EAT YOUR RICE! | | |
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12-17-2014, 02:17 PM
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#20069 | | I STILL don't get it
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Originally Posted by Inaii ^don't worry, I'm in the same boat lol | What's your game plan? We should strategize and compare notes lol
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12-17-2014, 02:19 PM
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#20070 | | My name is Michael. J. Caboose, and I hate BABIES!
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He's big on superheroes, so probably something related to that. Not sure though, might go car related (trying to be as vague as possible since he's on here lol)
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"Can you match my resolve? If so then you will succeed. I believe that the human spirit is indomitable. If you endeavour to achieve, it will happen given enough resolve." -- Monty Oum Quote:
Originally Posted by STATUS105 IF I FIND YOU
I WILL EAT YOUR RICE! | | |
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12-17-2014, 11:44 PM
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#20071 | | Ready to be Man handled by RS!
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New girlfriend has been great. Beautiful, nice to talk to, similar interests, and crazy high sex drive. It's been a month of good times now. The only thing is... she is still not over the dude she was casually banging a few weeks before we met. She tells me she doesn't talk to him anymore but I see on Instagram she is all over every one of his pictures, even the recent ones. So I looked at his followers list and didn't see her name in the mix. Yup, I guess she regularly searches him up manually just to send him little online hints that she still likes him. I'm not sure what gets me more, the fact that she lies to me, or the fact that she still likes him. Trying real hard to look at this objectively... maybe she's afraid of conflict.. maybe its hard for her to let go.. Fuck it. Nothing's ever perfect and thats okay.
How should I handle this situation? If I bring it up, then I'm an overly possessive creep (which is true but I don't exactly want to show that lol). If I just ignore it, it just stops me from feeling intimate with her. Really hope I could get some input from you guys...this shit is bugging me a lot
EDIT: Wow. Rereading this shit was hard. Cringeworthy.. I guess I'm in love, because this is such a trivial thing to get worked up about.
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12-17-2014, 11:57 PM
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#20072 | | The Brown Reason
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Originally Posted by slingblade New girlfriend has been great. Beautiful, nice to talk to, similar interests, and crazy high sex drive. It's been a month of good times now. The only thing is... she is still not over the dude she was casually banging a few weeks before we met. She tells me she doesn't talk to him anymore but I see on Instagram she is all over every one of his pictures, even the recent ones. So I looked at his followers list and didn't see her name in the mix. Yup, I guess she regularly searches him up manually just to send him little online hints that she still likes him. Fuck it. Nothing's ever perfect and thats okay.
How should I handle this situation? If I bring it up, then I'm an overly possessive creep (which is true but I don't exactly want to show that lol). If I just ignore it, it just stops me from feeling intimate with her. Really hope I could get some input from you guys...this shit is bugging me a lot | Best thing to do? Ignore it.
If you're going to do anything, be prepared to commit yourself fully or you come off as weak. That weakness is not attractive -- you never want to make a girl think you need her more than she needs you -- especially within the first couple months
What do i mean about committing yourself fully?
Giving her passive aggressive remarks about the guy / bringing up the guy in the midst of a fight = weak = not fully committing to your decision.
If her actions with the other guy bothers you that much, tell her in an adult manner and tell her you don't want to talk to her while she's still got feelings for him. After about a week of no-contact she'll come running back to you ... or be back with the other guy.
tl;dr -- leave it as it is, or confront it head on
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Originally Posted by bcrdukes fuck this shit, i'm out | | |
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12-17-2014, 11:58 PM
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#20073 | | NOOB, Not Quite a Regular!
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My bae came back from eastern ontario. SO happy right now  | |
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12-18-2014, 12:10 AM
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#20074 | | Ready to be Man handled by RS!
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Originally Posted by dhillon09 Best thing to do? Ignore it.
If you're going to do anything, be prepared to commit yourself fully or you come off as weak. That weakness is not attractive -- you never want to make a girl think you need her more than she needs you -- especially within the first couple months
What do i mean about committing yourself fully?
Giving her passive aggressive remarks about the guy / bringing up the guy in the midst of a fight = weak = not fully committing to your decision.
If her actions with the other guy bothers you that much, tell her in an adult manner and tell her you don't want to talk to her while she's still got feelings for him. After about a week of no-contact she'll come running back to you ... or be back with the other guy.
tl;dr -- leave it as it is, or confront it head on | Thanks man!! The road I've been taking has been just leaving it and looking past it. There's always this part of my brain that dwells on it every time I talk to her or see her, but no one ever said that relationships would be easy.
Thanks so much for the response. This shit was bugging me and I had to talk about it with someone, or else I would just lose sleep over it
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12-18-2014, 02:03 AM
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#20075 | | Banned By Establishment
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