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Godzira 12-18-2014 08:28 AM

I was rushed and didn't put any milk in my coffee this morning..

ugh damn.

chouchou 12-18-2014 11:26 AM

Learn to drink black........ you won't go back

kross9 12-19-2014 11:37 AM

conflicting job offers ughh

TOS'd 12-19-2014 12:00 PM

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Originally Posted by kross9 (Post 8571224)
conflicting job offers ughh

List out an extensive pros and cons list of each job offer. Then assign each job either heads or tails and flip a coin.

Godzira 12-19-2014 12:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kross9 (Post 8571224)
conflicting job offers ughh

3 months ago I was faced with this same conflict.... I've made a huge mistake.

omnomnomnivore 12-19-2014 02:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by coconutjelly (Post 8570642)
My bae came back from eastern ontario. SO happy right now :D

:considered: bae=bacon and egg? I would be happy too. :agree:

hchang 12-19-2014 02:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Godzira (Post 8571232)
3 months ago I was faced with this same conflict.... I've made a huge mistake.

Arrested Development reference?

Gucci Mane 12-19-2014 03:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Godzira (Post 8570741)
I was rushed and didn't put any milk in my coffee this morning..

ugh damn.

black coffee is best.

Godzira 12-19-2014 04:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Knight_KB (Post 8571302)
black coffee is best.

Baileys and coffee is best.

Godzira 12-19-2014 04:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by hchang (Post 8571288)
Arrested Development reference?

haha yes.


but actually I wish I took the other one :( it was less pay but I would've been so much happier. I worked there for a day then this job called me and offered me way more money



fml.

chouchou 12-19-2014 09:12 PM

hmm.. can men and women really just be friends?

Grim 12-19-2014 10:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chouchou (Post 8571419)
hmm.. can men and women really just be friends?

yes, if shes a lesbian.
true story

Energy 12-19-2014 11:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chouchou (Post 8571419)
hmm.. can men and women really just be friends?

no :(

etodac 12-19-2014 11:46 PM

Hallelujah I'm done with Chrismas shopping. Now for the big reveal.

Yodamaster 12-20-2014 01:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by chouchou (Post 8571419)
hmm.. can men and women really just be friends?

If they aren't your type (romantically) you can be best friends.

There was this lesbian chick at my high school that my buddy and I were good friends with, never an awkward moment.

tiger_handheld 12-20-2014 10:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Godzira (Post 8571316)
haha yes.


but actually I wish I took the other one :( it was less pay but I would've been so much happier. I worked there for a day then this job called me and offered me way more money



fml.


moral of the story: money can't buy happiness

Quote:

Originally Posted by chouchou (Post 8571419)
hmm.. can men and women really just be friends?

yes. the moment this lightbulb went on in my head, my relationships with females became genuine and it led to an awesome romantic relationship with another female [disclosure: this relationship has now ended but it was epic while it lasted].

etodac 12-20-2014 03:51 PM

My boyfriend unfortunately spilled water on his laptop and now it can't turn on. He's using his older and much slower laptop right now and he's still feeling guilty over his mistake. He jokes that I should be happy since he can't play LoL anymore, but I just want him to be happy and seeing him so unhappy is very uncomfortable. I hope his laptop makes a recovery :(

fs604 12-20-2014 04:33 PM

suggesting fwb with recent ex and she says "i changed, im not into asian guys anymore" lmao such a pathetic excuse that it's funny.

Akinari 12-20-2014 11:45 PM

What a fucking week of absolute shit.

Batshit crazy mum went into some kind of insane unprovoked emotional turmoil and called the cops on me for apparently "not listening to her and threatening her authority" after I came home without bringing her dinner. I literally shit y'all not. Zero exaggeration.

Was going to bring her shopping. She gets pissed in the middle of the day because when walking our dog, he ran away and wouldn't come back. She comes home after walking the dog hella pissed, goes to her room and slams the door saying she's not going anywhere anymore. I tell her, if she's not going to the US, I'm going to head out with friends, she says suit yourself go anywhere you please.

I leave at 3:30, come home at 9:30, mum goes into some kind of delusional trance and starts screaming at me at the top of her lungs and trying to be physically aggressive with me literally as soon as I step into the door and put my car keys down. I have no choice but to yell back asking what in the fucking world is wrong with her.

She ends up calling the police, two officers come and attempt to sort the situation out, one speaks to them, the other speaks with me.

After this 15 minute ordeal, the officers essentially just tell me to leave the house for the night to let my mum calm her shit down and prepare a long term goal to move out from the house.

One of the officers happened to be of Asian descent and told my parents off about how they have to respect the ways of the country and those who were born and raised liberally as opposed to the Asian way and essentially implied that they don't want to come back to the residence to do family counselling again.

Still pretty shocked and completely embarrassed to be sharing all this shit.

Was THE MOST awkward 40-50 seconds of my life being escorted out of my apartment down the elevators in complete silence as the officers got off at the main floor and I proceeded to the parkade. One of the officers followed my car for a few blocks to make sure I wasn't going back to the apartment before he turned into a side street as I made my way to a friend's house for the evening.

:facepalm:

I really have nothing left to say.

Fafine 12-20-2014 11:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Akinari (Post 8571772)
What a fucking week of absolute shit.

I really have nothing left to say.

no point in arguing with your parents bra
just leave the house and let them calm down.
don't like it? move out. simple.

PiuYi 12-21-2014 12:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Akinari (Post 8571772)
I really have nothing left to say.

wow, rough day

I totally feel for ya, sometimes life just throws us into situations we're not yet ready for (ie. having to leave home when you're not yet able to/prepared to) and it's an absolute nightmare. But take comfort in knowing you're growing from this and it's shaping you into the man you're going to be in the future. Whether that's for the better or for the worse is entirely up to you

Glad to hear you have a supportive friend to go to. Makes me more appreciative of the loving family and friends I've been blessed with and take for granted far too often

tiger_handheld 12-21-2014 10:11 AM

It's been that kind of weekend... social media, outdoors, friken songs on the radio, to some random folder on the computer.. WTF!

Can't help but think if the feelings are out of complacency or just knowing that we were almost there and thinking what-if..

TOS'd 12-21-2014 04:05 PM

^ :inoutugh:

l2_narain 12-22-2014 04:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Akinari (Post 8571772)
What a fucking week of absolute shit.

Batshit crazy mum went into some kind of insane unprovoked emotional turmoil and called the cops on me for apparently "not listening to her and threatening her authority" after I came home without bringing her dinner. I literally shit y'all not. Zero exaggeration.

Was going to bring her shopping. She gets pissed in the middle of the day because when walking our dog, he ran away and wouldn't come back. She comes home after walking the dog hella pissed, goes to her room and slams the door saying she's not going anywhere anymore. I tell her, if she's not going to the US, I'm going to head out with friends, she says suit yourself go anywhere you please.

I leave at 3:30, come home at 9:30, mum goes into some kind of delusional trance and starts screaming at me at the top of her lungs and trying to be physically aggressive with me literally as soon as I step into the door and put my car keys down. I have no choice but to yell back asking what in the fucking world is wrong with her.

She ends up calling the police, two officers come and attempt to sort the situation out, one speaks to them, the other speaks with me.

After this 15 minute ordeal, the officers essentially just tell me to leave the house for the night to let my mum calm her shit down and prepare a long term goal to move out from the house.

One of the officers happened to be of Asian descent and told my parents off about how they have to respect the ways of the country and those who were born and raised liberally as opposed to the Asian way and essentially implied that they don't want to come back to the residence to do family counselling again.

Still pretty shocked and completely embarrassed to be sharing all this shit.

Was THE MOST awkward 40-50 seconds of my life being escorted out of my apartment down the elevators in complete silence as the officers got off at the main floor and I proceeded to the parkade. One of the officers followed my car for a few blocks to make sure I wasn't going back to the apartment before he turned into a side street as I made my way to a friend's house for the evening.

:facepalm:

I really have nothing left to say.

Time to move out. At this point you need to grow with new experiences and your folks need to as well. Long-term it will work out..

melloman 12-22-2014 08:34 AM

If my mom ever went crazy like that, not sure what I'd do..

I'd probably let it slide once, but the second time she did it, police would come with me, I'd grab my stuff.. and on the way out I'd look her in the eye and say.. "You know you just lost a son. I hope you're happy." And watch her cry and tell her to fuck off. :joy:

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Not a bad weekend. Went by too quick, atleast I have a 5-day weekend coming up. :awwyeah: Xmas stats!


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