True. I'm 35 and mid 20's females think the gap is too big and 30+ Woman think I look too young. Not my fault I look after myself doubled by baby face lol

it's nice to be able to wear my high heels again.. how i miss thee

Today, I left my job. The one I helped to build and shape within a smaller company. Started as a dream and turned into a tragedy. Thankfully through the pile or rubble, I found a glint of light. I found something else. Better pay, less responsibilities. Next week, I start new and fresh and I cannot wait.

But part of me thinks of my friends who are still there and if they will ever leave. They deserve better but it's ultimately up to them I guess.

Anyone else spend more time worrying about the fate / welfare of others than yourself?

Also, I had one too many shots of Angostura 7 year. Life is a lot like this rum.........bittersweet

I really want to call out the people who say one thing and do another, y'all are the reason why the world is what it is today.

If you come across one of these kinds, give them a high five..in the face..with a chair.

Could be one of two things:

1. You look too young for women in their 30s because of the way you dress and/or carry yourself. Most women in their 30s want a man, or at least one who looks respectable, as opposed to a man-child. If you have a babyface, it should be seen as a good thing because most women will appreciate a man who ages well. Buy some good shoes, buy a few button-down shirts, a blazer and that babyface will no longer be seen as a liability.

2. The women you're pursuing are bar stars and have unrealistic expectations.

Thank you for all the advice. I've read them all and I'm in a better place now. Not better place as in heaven, but mentally. I'm not so desperate for a new job, just allowing myself time to find the right one, and find other avenues to improve while I do that.

I think im leaning towards No2. Lol. Except I don't meet them at bars/clubs since I don't club much these days

Can't wait to surprise the GF with a non-Valentines Valentines Day. I personally hate crowds, feeling in a rush to eat and vacate my table by greedy waiters, and the long lines at flower/card/gift buying places.... as I mentioned before in this thread, I also don't like the idea of some commercialized Hallmark holiday that has no bearing on my relationship other than giving girls a pissing contest over whose BF is "best", which is somehow shown by expensive gifts and Instagram food pictures.

I suggested we don't do V-Day this year, but I could tell from her browsing social networks and seeing everyone's V-Day that she was a little envious.

... so I am going to surprise her next week with flowers sent to her workplace, a home cooked dinner, movie at home and a cute dress/heels (great way to get her to wear something she ordinarily wouldn't, btw) that I haven't decided on yet. All without spending an eternity in line, with no stress, not wasting money on a rushed meal at a nice restaurant, and flowers that aren't given the infamous Valentines tax. Feels good man!

My valentines gift was the bf permitting the FD for the weekend :lol no better way to a rotary girl's heart than through a nice cruise on a fantastic day in an rx7 imo

when your bf/gf talks about the future do they say "my" instead of "our" or 'I' instead of "we"

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It kinda bugs me when he says that's what MY house is going to look like, or eventually "I'M going to travel to europe" etc.

Because unconsciouly he doesnt want to buy a house with you and travel to Europe with you

That's exactly what I'm worried about..

Over-analyzing doesn't help anybody. It came from the mouth of a guy, it could mean anything.

Eventually "I want to travel to Thailand, Malaysia, and Vietnam." Doesn't mean my gf wouldn't be coming with me. If you want a clear-cut answer, make a joke and say "so when are we going to Europe" and see what his reaction is and what he says. Jumping to a conclusion I'm sure already made you feel insecure of the relationship, and puts doubts in your mind.

And that is how a relationship fails.

I love the wisdom of experience

If he doesn't want you, I swear, I will date you; I will date the shit out of you. :fuckyea:

+1. It could be he doesn't want to be presumptuous to assume that you also want to do whatever he wants to do/go where he wants to go, especially if you hadn't discussed it specifically.

I'm not overanalyzing it or anything its just happened a few times.. and it kinda bugs me, I hope its just as you said.

..... If you went with it; you'd be the one pitying me

Don't give up your dream girl, PK..

Kristy B.... </3

HAHA PK lol.. "date the shit out of you" good one

So what are you doing different from him? Just continuous dating and breaking for Godzira. If you really want it, put it a ring on it. :3

I firmly belive there is always someone who loves the other Person more in a relationship.

I have a sense that Godzira is the one giving more then what she is getting in her current relationship.

Being a kid that grew up in a single parent family.
I'm sure my mommy issues will actually help me in this relationship. I know as a fact that I will be the one loving more in the relationship.
I am your classic pussy whipped guy
And that is exactly what Godzira needs. I'm the one, I am the last
#WongFu

the fuck lol