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02-27-2015, 09:36 AM
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#20401 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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gf changed her work schedule and the only day we were both able to spend time with each other for the whole day is now no more.
Also said she doesn't feel like having sex anymore until she "figures out what she wants" 
She's not avoiding me, still acting as usual, no change in attitude or anything at all.
Her reason for changing her work schedule is so that she can make more money to support me financially 
Not sure what to make of all this
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[12-03, 19:06] meme405 That e30 is so mexiflushed I thought we were in albuquerque
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02-27-2015, 10:01 AM
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#20402 | | うに
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Originally Posted by Akinari  gf changed her work schedule and the only day we were both able to spend time with each other for the whole day is now no more.
Also said she doesn't feel like having sex anymore until she "figures out what she wants"
She's not avoiding me, still acting as usual, no change in attitude or anything at all.
Her reason for changing her work schedule is so that she can make more money to support me financially
Not sure what to make of all this | 1. You need to make more money (selling drugs works good)
2. She finds sex with you boring, you're not pleasing her; make her want it, make her beg for it.
3. if you keep this way; you'll loose her. spice things up. stop this cruise control BS
4. spending too much time with each other might be a bad thing
5. I don't know what I'm talking about
6. Don't listen to me
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Originally Posted by TOS'd The reason for Speak it Out is to actually set PK-EK up with someone, whether that be someone from this thread or outside of RS. | | |
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02-27-2015, 10:15 AM
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#20403 | | I *heart* Revscene.net very Muchie
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Originally Posted by Akinari gf changed her work schedule and the only day we were both able to spend time with each other for the whole day is now no more.
Also said she doesn't feel like having sex anymore until she "figures out what she wants"
She's not avoiding me, still acting as usual, no change in attitude or anything at all.
Her reason for changing her work schedule is so that she can make more money to support me financially
Not sure what to make of all this | sounds like a cheat . avoidance, no sex...
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Hey guys,
Can someone tell good or unusual dating spots? Or what was your the most unusual date? THanks for sharing!
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Originally Posted by Mr.HappySilp my bedroom =D | Quote:
Originally Posted by dhillon09 that's a great secret date spot,
i bet no girl in vancouver has seen it. | | |
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02-27-2015, 10:15 AM
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#20404 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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Originally Posted by PK-EK 1. You need to make more money (selling drugs works good)
2. She finds sex with you boring, you're not pleasing her; make her want it, make her beg for it.
3. if you keep this way; you'll loose her. spice things up. stop this cruise control BS
4. spending too much time with each other might be a bad thing
5. I don't know what I'm talking about
6. Don't listen to me | 1. I make enough money for sure
2. I'm the one who finds sex with her boring, and I complain to her all the time about it
3. Stuff is always spicy from my perspective, but then again it's hard to get her spiced up
4. I feel like this might be the case
5. Women are cray
6. What is life
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[13-03, 11:25] MG1 when you hit the brakes, it shoots cum at pedestrian - bukkake
[12-03, 19:06] meme405 That e30 is so mexiflushed I thought we were in albuquerque
[12-03, 23:03] rb when i see a modded element. I have nothing but respect. either the parents kicked him out or the guy is killing hookers in the back | |
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02-27-2015, 11:12 AM
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Originally Posted by Akinari 1. I make enough money for sure
2. I'm the one who finds sex with her boring, and I complain to her all the time about it
3. Stuff is always spicy from my perspective, but then again it's hard to get her spiced up
4. I feel like this might be the case
5. Women are cray
6. What is life | spend time with someone that wants to spend time with you.
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Originally Posted by jasonturbo Too bad it isn't about flipping cars to lose money, I'm really good at that. | Quote:
Originally Posted by SkunkWorks This wouldn't happen if you didn't drive a peasant car like an Audi... | Quote:
[14-05, 14:59] FastAnna You tiny bra wearing, gigantic son of a bitch
[15-05, 10:35] FastAnna Yeah I was dreaming of those big titties in that tiny bra
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Originally Posted by westopher I'd probably blow someone for that 911 | | |
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02-27-2015, 11:31 AM
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#20406 | | :inoutugh:
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^ its time for him to move on.
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02-27-2015, 11:51 AM
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#20407 | | OMGWTFBBQ is a common word I say everyday
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Originally Posted by Akinari gf changed her work schedule and the only day we were both able to spend time with each other for the whole day is now no more.
Also said she doesn't feel like having sex anymore until she "figures out what she wants"
She's not avoiding me, still acting as usual, no change in attitude or anything at all.
Her reason for changing her work schedule is so that she can make more money to support me financially
Not sure what to make of all this | Unless she has a valid health-related reason to stop having sex with you, withholding sex to "figure stuff out" is a red flag. I wouldn't say that she's cheating, but she's probably feeling less committed to the relationship right now. You need to talk to her and figure out what's going on.
Unless you two live together, she shouldn't feel any onus to support you financially.
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02-27-2015, 12:05 PM
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#20408 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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No health-related issues, no cheating I'm confident she's just not that kind of person. Although she says she doesn't really feel like having sex lately, we still have sex, she just doesn't really get in the mood for it, but it still happens it's just really shitty sex.
She certainly is less committed to the relationship, but then again I may be as well, but I'm just not sure what she's thinking. We've had conversations about this lately already, she cites a lack of confidence in her own future for her actions. For example, she's getting caught up in school, in work, and familial pressure of all sorts. Of course, these could just be excuses I'm making up for her to make the situation seem better than it is, I don't know.
Lately, whenever she says ridiculous things, or things that just really don't make any sense, she doesn't let me get mad, and as soon as I do it becomes my fault for blowing up at everything she says, regardless of whether or not what she's saying is right or wrong.
She did apologize to me last week however, for being selfish and saying she's been planning her future a lot and all the things she wants to do, but she never factored me into her future or any of her future "travel plans." I kind of brushed it off since she was apologetic and said she'd appreciate me more.
Not too sure where to go forward at this point given that we've already had talks. It's not that the relationship has turned sour in any way shape or form, we're still on great terms, still act like a couple and see each other very often.
Again, not too sure what to think of everything. It's not that I'm dissatisfied with the way things are right now, she's done so many things in the past to support me when I was most in need and I honestly wouldn't be where I am right now if it wasn't for her support. Sure the sex could be better, but there's not much else I can complain about aside from that. Her family treats me like family, she treats me really well, but sometimes the things she says and the things she does are so far off it's like she has two distinct personalities.
And as far as financial support goes, strangely, she feels obligated to support me financially in ways that make it seem like we're living together, even though we're not.
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[13-03, 11:25] MG1 when you hit the brakes, it shoots cum at pedestrian - bukkake
[12-03, 19:06] meme405 That e30 is so mexiflushed I thought we were in albuquerque
[12-03, 23:03] rb when i see a modded element. I have nothing but respect. either the parents kicked him out or the guy is killing hookers in the back | |
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02-27-2015, 09:52 PM
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#20409 | | God of Unce
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wow... speechless. Where's my bottle of scotch?
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02-27-2015, 11:30 PM
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#20410 | | RS has made me the bitter person i am today!
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Originally Posted by Akinari 1. I make enough money for sure
2. I'm the one who finds sex with her boring, and I complain to her all the time about it
3. Stuff is always spicy from my perspective, but then again it's hard to get her spiced up
4. I feel like this might be the case
5. Women are cray
6. What is life | How much do u make
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02-28-2015, 01:56 AM
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#20411 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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Originally Posted by Gerbs How much do u make | Enough for my age and current lifestyle
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[13-03, 11:25] MG1 when you hit the brakes, it shoots cum at pedestrian - bukkake
[12-03, 19:06] meme405 That e30 is so mexiflushed I thought we were in albuquerque
[12-03, 23:03] rb when i see a modded element. I have nothing but respect. either the parents kicked him out or the guy is killing hookers in the back | |
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03-01-2015, 12:42 AM
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#20412 | | 14 dolla balla aint got nothing on me!
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>_< why did I go see you yesterday.....bad idea....
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03-01-2015, 02:52 AM
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#20413 | | Banned By Establishment
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I met you through friends tonight, there was a connection there, we probably would've hung out all night and laughed at each others corny jokes .... hell, I even told you I had kids and you said you wanted to meet them.... we touched we flirted we exchanged our numbers and you even gave me a long kiss goodbye.... I might see you again.... If your ugly cock blocking "my bff she needs me to drive her home cuz she doesn't have a boyfriend and I feel bad for her and I'm sure she likes you"......dies.
Tell your cockblocking friend thanks, thanks for not making this a TIFU post between me and you.....You sweet dirty girl you..... I'll be more sober next time we meet.  | |
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03-01-2015, 07:47 AM
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#20414 | | iceboy & saucywoman are my parents!
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Originally Posted by Akinari 1. I make enough money for erement
2. I'm the one who finds erement with her boring, and I complain to her all the time about it
3. Stuff is always spicy from my perspective, but then again it's hard to get her in the erement
4. I feel like this might be the erement
5. Women are erement
6. Gf is Erement |  fixed
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[23-07, 02:53] LSF22 the guy who i just saw had like 5 or 6 cars on his lawn needs a ride
[07-10, 15:42] nabs tbails14 = the legend continues
[27-10, 19:44] slickrick (to ts14) NO NOT THE EXHAUST
[07-10, 22:42] Ri2 If I had a real one I'd fap til it turns blue probably
[05-01, 16:24] Geoc ts you're a never ending inspiration for the inner buddy guy in all of us
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03-01-2015, 12:50 PM
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#20415 | | Mod.
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No matter how many time we try to over look things and try to compromise, one person will always have certain expectations that the other person cannot live up to. If this has taught me anything, it's that in order to be with someone, to love someone, you have to be able to see the bigger picture. If you are unable to do that, then no matter how many times you try to make it work, it just won't.
Expectations will ALWAYS lead to disappointment.
Over thinking will ALWAYS kill happiness.
You were a blessing and a lesson, and you are one that I won't soon forget. I hope that one day you are able to love again with your all and that he treats you as good as I did.
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03-01-2015, 03:33 PM
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#20416 | | Rs has made me the woman i am today!
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I think I'll mod my car instead. | |
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03-01-2015, 04:04 PM
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#20417 | | Willing to sell body for a few minutes on RS
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so hard trying to get over my ex gf
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03-01-2015, 05:23 PM
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#20418 | | Rs has made me the man i am today!
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Originally Posted by mk1freak I met you through friends tonight, there was a connection there, we probably would've hung out all night and laughed at each others corny jokes .... hell, I even told you I had kids and you said you wanted to meet them.... we touched we flirted we exchanged our numbers and you even gave me a long kiss goodbye.... I might see you again.... If your ugly cock blocking "my bff she needs me to drive her home cuz she doesn't have a boyfriend and I feel bad for her and I'm sure she likes you"......dies.
Tell your cockblocking friend thanks, thanks for not making this a TIFU post between me and you.....You sweet dirty girl you..... I'll be more sober next time we meet. | did I miss something?...I thought you had a happy family...
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03-01-2015, 06:47 PM
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#20419 | | Banned By Establishment
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I do that's why no Tifu. Shit happens when into the cups... But in this case I'm glad shit didn't happen . hence my thanks to her cb friend  | |
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03-02-2015, 01:02 AM
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#20420 | | I *Fwap* *Fwap* *Fwap* to RS
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Originally Posted by JSALES so hard trying to get over my ex gf | in the same boat bro
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holy hell it's been almost a month; but, it still hurts like a bitch
i don't think about it too much when i'm out, but it hits like a truck at night
she, on the other hand, took it like a champ. for such a sentimental girl, she wasn't fazed in the slightest
i've got a terrible case of oneitis... but i know i'm better than this
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03-02-2015, 07:52 AM
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#20421 | | MiX iT Up!
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Originally Posted by pinn3r in the same boat bro
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holy hell it's been almost a month; but, it still hurts like a bitch
i don't think about it too much when i'm out, but it hits like a truck at night
she, on the other hand, took it like a champ. for such a sentimental girl, she wasn't fazed in the slightest
i've got a terrible case of oneitis... but i know i'm better than this | likley because she emotionally checked out, got ready and then dropped the bomb on you.
agree that nights are the worst, but like they say it gets worse before it gets better.
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Sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is, it's not our loss, but theirs, for they left the only person who couldn't give up on them.
Make the effort and take the risk..
"Do what you feel in your heart to be right- for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't." - Eleanor Roosevelt | |
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03-02-2015, 08:32 AM
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#20422 | | 14 dolla balla aint got nothing on me!
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Originally Posted by pinn3r in the same boat bro
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holy hell it's been almost a month; but, it still hurts like a bitch
i don't think about it too much when i'm out, but it hits like a truck at night
she, on the other hand, took it like a champ. for such a sentimental girl, she wasn't fazed in the slightest
i've got a terrible case of oneitis... but i know i'm better than this | Iknowthatfeel.jpg
A year+ and going strong HNNNGH 
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03-02-2015, 08:45 AM
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#20423 | | #savethemanuals
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Originally Posted by Akinari gf changed her work schedule and the only day we were both able to spend time with each other for the whole day is now no more.
Also said she doesn't feel like having sex anymore until she "figures out what she wants"
She's not avoiding me, still acting as usual, no change in attitude or anything at all. Her reason for changing her work schedule is so that she can make more money to support me financially
Not sure what to make of all this | What, why? That can't be the only reason.
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03-02-2015, 08:54 AM
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#20424 | | I am Hook'd on RS
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every time i get your texts it just brightens my day.
every time i see you it's the best part of my week.
every time we cuddle and talk i always want to tell you that i'm so happy you chose Vancouver, that I'm so happy and grateful to have met you, that over the last two months, i've grown to care for you a lot. i want to know if there's a point to our 'dating' because i like you, and i'm all in.
we always have such a good time that i can't bring myself to bringing up that topic or starting it, to avoid making things awkward or making you feel like you're put on the spot.
i don't know what to do >.<
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03-02-2015, 09:47 AM
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#20425 | | :inoutugh:
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Originally Posted by hedonist every time i get your texts it just brightens my day.
every time i see you it's the best part of my week.
every time we cuddle and talk i always want to tell you that i'm so happy you chose Vancouver, that I'm so happy and grateful to have met you, that over the last two months, i've grown to care for you a lot. i want to know if there's a point to our 'dating' because i like you, and i'm all in.
we always have such a good time that i can't bring myself to bringing up that topic or starting it, to avoid making things awkward or making you feel like you're put on the spot.
i don't know what to do >.< | 
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