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Originally Posted by rzrshrp
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Thanks everyone :'), I guess I just got overwhelmed because all of my friends are in relationships and it feels odd... Ex. going out to eat or something as a group and awkwardly sitting there while they all PDA, etc.
And congrats on the proposal dude! | All my friends are either married or are getting married. 3/4 of them are unhappy as fuck. Don't do it just because everyone is doing it and pressuring you. Do it on your ownterms and if you do it just because, you're most likely going to wind up unhappier because it won't be like how you imagined it to be.
If you go out there, how many "couples" are on their fucking phones? That's like 80% of the night gone for those couples. I never want date those girls anymore. Who cares.
If it bothers you so much go find a group or club and be amongst people. Key word being "people"; not a place just to find a chick. Just open up to people. You only build character and confidence. I've truly only fell head over heels for my first, and one that I will probably never be able to see again. Those where the two best times of my life because I wasn't even looking for someone, it just happened because I was happy and people in general like being around others who are happy. I gotta say though, even when I was on cloud 9 with my first girlfriend, problems arose that I couldn't even imagine until I was actually in the relationship.
Just do your own thing and improve yourself. Trust me, patience and bettering yourself and getting worldly experience only adds to your desirability. You are only 20, you've not even scratched the surface of what this world has to offer. Gtfo and do shit. That is possibly the best advice I can ever give in my lifetime. |