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melloman 05-27-2016 12:14 PM

^^ Everyone has different life goals.

I'd rather not have kids until I have my career more sorted out, yet my SO wants kids before a certain age. It gives me some time, but having a deadline sure sucks.

Any hope to you guys is that my uncle and aunt (brother and sister) were both single until their 40's. Now in their mid-50's they are both happily married and enjoying life. Only downside is if you want kids, but women are having those later and later now with modern medicine.

:thumbsup: chins up

jinxcrusader 05-27-2016 03:54 PM

In my opinion society is getting a little bit skewed in priorities. My parents were not wealthy and had three kids. We turned out fine. Comfort is really relevant. I understand some people want a 100k+ salary, a mortgaged property and one or two cars before starting a family. I disagree with that mindset. I don't want to be in my mid thirties before that is all set into place and I'm already comfortable with what I have. Wealth isn't only measured by salary and possession.
That is not to say to pop out a kid when you are in a lot of debt or in a scenario where you can't even take care of yourself BTW.

anjewree 05-27-2016 05:56 PM

Killed my last final exam for this semester

EvoLove 05-27-2016 07:24 PM

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Originally Posted by anjewree (Post 8759062)
Killed my last final exam for this semester

Final or mid term?

guurl 05-28-2016 12:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by jinxcrusader (Post 8759035)
In my opinion society is getting a little bit skewed in priorities. My parents were not wealthy and had three kids. We turned out fine. Comfort is really relevant. I understand some people want a 100k+ salary, a mortgaged property and one or two cars before starting a family. I disagree with that mindset. I don't want to be in my mid thirties before that is all set into place and I'm already comfortable with what I have. Wealth isn't only measured by salary and possession.
That is not to say to pop out a kid when you are in a lot of debt or in a scenario where you can't even take care of yourself BTW.

agreed. when having kids you just make it work. whether you have a high salary or not.
it's not like youll be stuck in one place. during the process it would motivate you to do better to provide as well

Galactic_Phantom 05-28-2016 12:58 AM

Anxiety is crippling my life, doc refuses to medicate me...sigh

anjewree 05-28-2016 01:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EvoLove (Post 8759073)
Final or mid term?

Final

FOREVER 05-28-2016 05:06 PM

that feeling when your empire is ruined and you have to rebuild it again :okay:

Vansterdam 05-30-2016 05:58 AM

hold the door

!e.lo_ 05-30-2016 07:14 PM


Presto 05-31-2016 03:30 PM

I went to my boss' wife's memorial service, today. I gotta say this was the best one I've ever been to. It wasn't a service of mourning. It was a celebration of life. There were a few tears, but a lot of laughs. I didn't know my boss' wife, but after the service I have a good understanding of who she was, and all that she accomplished.

Vansterdam 06-02-2016 06:48 AM



Inaii 06-02-2016 09:07 PM

Dealing with stupid high school drama at work. Boss told me to just ignore it because I can't get 100% proof and to just kill it with kindness. I want to leave... but... discount... /sigh

JShifter 06-02-2016 09:13 PM

every time you meet someone , the conversation builds up like a big flame for a day or two having so much to talk so much interest then some how seems like someone poured water and it burn't out.

illestchk 06-05-2016 07:27 AM

Don't ever shit while taking a bubble bath.

Inaii 06-05-2016 10:00 AM

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Originally Posted by illestchk (Post 8761192)
Don't ever shit while taking a bubble bath.

:inout:

guurl 06-05-2016 03:48 PM

these k dramas are hitting me in the feels :okay:
i cant stop watching them!!!

<3 envee 06-06-2016 09:09 PM

Everything looks better when the sun goes down...

Vansterdam 06-07-2016 03:29 AM



!Nhan 06-07-2016 04:51 PM

LOL same shit different pile

JShifter 06-07-2016 09:35 PM

it sucks when your the only one single in your friends group, that feel

B!tch 06-08-2016 11:12 PM

at my age you think I would have learned not to get all excited and my hopes up.

JShifter 06-12-2016 02:42 PM

There's always that moment when you think you found the right girl then ten seconds later you find out she has someone eles, mood kill

604778 06-12-2016 06:01 PM

It amazes how two faced some people can be.

melloman 06-13-2016 12:30 PM

3 more weeks.
Three more works.
3 more weeks.

Then this year of school will be over. Get another piece of paper, and a summer "vacation."
Yet work is supposed to pick up and it'll just end up being a trade off, the bright side? Atleast I'll be getting paid for my "after hours" work.


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