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07-05-2016, 06:27 PM
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#21676 | | Ask me about killing a hobo and dumping his body in the river
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Originally Posted by PDKGD3  Grind while you're young, don't worry about women/relationships. Overtime whoever's meant to be for you will show up.
*Unless you're PK-EK, then you just keep reminiscing and become super jaded*  | In a way i am grinding right now. I moved away from Vancouver and started working up north as i save much more money. I just want some company... its so lonely up here...
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07-06-2016, 12:15 AM
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#21677 | | Work hard, Play Hard - Wiz
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I think its time for a change..
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07-06-2016, 08:55 AM
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#21678 | | うに
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Originally Posted by EvoLove In a way i am grinding right now. I moved away from Vancouver and started working up north as i save much more money. I just want some company... its so lonely up here... | I don't agree.
What happened with me, I was working two full time jobs making close to 6 figures. I had so much fucking money to spend. but i never had the time to spend it.
my day consisted of waking up at 7:30am - go to job #1
get off job #1 at 6:00pm and head to work at job #2 aiming to be there at 6:30
grab a quick bite to eat. work at Job #2 until 11-12 at night.
By the time i get home to shower and go to bed. it was usually 1am
the only friends I had were the ones I worked with at job #2
I worked both jobs for 6 days at week. and job #2 would take up most of my sundays.
I did this on and off for two years.
I really made me appreciate my family.
At the end of it. I lost my shit and quit Job #2
I didn't have a life. I worked so much and I didn't know what to do with all the money i made.
You need balance in your life. Money isn't everything.
It'll only make you happy for so far.
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07-06-2016, 10:14 PM
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#21679 | | Ask me about killing a hobo and dumping his body in the river
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Originally Posted by PK-EK I don't agree.
What happened with me, I was working two full time jobs making close to 6 figures. I had so much fucking money to spend. but i never had the time to spend it.
my day consisted of waking up at 7:30am - go to job #1
get off job #1 at 6:00pm and head to work at job #2 aiming to be there at 6:30
grab a quick bite to eat. work at Job #2 until 11-12 at night.
By the time i get home to shower and go to bed. it was usually 1am
the only friends I had were the ones I worked with at job #2
I worked both jobs for 6 days at week. and job #2 would take up most of my sundays.
I did this on and off for two years.
I really made me appreciate my family.
At the end of it. I lost my shit and quit Job #2
I didn't have a life. I worked so much and I didn't know what to do with all the money i made.
You need balance in your life. Money isn't everything.
It'll only make you happy for so far. | Im making close to 6 figures after taxes, but i do go on vacations (every half a year) and have fun, which consist of going back to Vancouver and partying with friends as most of them (including me) are still this the partying stages of life. other then that i basically work 7 days a week since i honestly have nothing better to do up here....
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[18-10, 14:35] ZN6 Evo if you here: Say what your heart feels, cause those who matter don't mind, and those who mind shouldn't matter
[26-07, 14:46] ZN6 I gonna nibble on your scrotum
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07-07-2016, 09:15 AM
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#21680 | | My homepage has been set to RS
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07-07-2016, 09:31 AM
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#21681 | | うに
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Originally Posted by EvoLove Im making close to 6 figures after taxes, but i do go on vacations (every half a year) and have fun, which consist of going back to Vancouver and partying with friends as most of them (including me) are still this the partying stages of life. other then that i basically work 7 days a week since i honestly have nothing better to do up here.... | Then I guess you've got it more handled then me.
You are probably much more emotionally stabled too lol
I found that even going to Vancouver to visit every other month and having fun and burning money didn't do anything for me.... ahahah
Keep it up while you can. and at the end of the day; even if you can't find true love, you can always just buy one and be a sugar daddy.
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07-07-2016, 09:41 AM
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#21682 | | I answer every Emotion with an emoticon
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Try adding something in the mix; eg// getting seriously sick. It'll make you appreciate no money will solve anything. When you're sick (or in hospital), and having zero friends come and visit you, you suddenly realize all the "fake" friends at work / acquaintances suddenly means nothing. Pretty similar to just liking a post on FB.
I had that and realized money with good work life balance is key. I've just recovered from a yearly long battle with a rare sickness and put everything in perspectives.
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07-07-2016, 10:52 AM
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Originally Posted by PK-EK I don't agree.
What happened with me, I was working two full time jobs making close to 6 figures. I had so much fucking money to spend. but i never had the time to spend it.
my day consisted of waking up at 7:30am - go to job #1
get off job #1 at 6:00pm and head to work at job #2 aiming to be there at 6:30
grab a quick bite to eat. work at Job #2 until 11-12 at night.
By the time i get home to shower and go to bed. it was usually 1am
the only friends I had were the ones I worked with at job #2
I worked both jobs for 6 days at week. and job #2 would take up most of my sundays.
I did this on and off for two years.
I really made me appreciate my family.
At the end of it. I lost my shit and quit Job #2
I didn't have a life. I worked so much and I didn't know what to do with all the money i made.
You need balance in your life. Money isn't everything.
It'll only make you happy for so far. | buy yourself something nice. But i understand how you feel. All the time you spend at work but all you get is money.. Still pretty shitty knowing that you have no one to spend the money with. I would change my attitude when i have tons of money.
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07-07-2016, 12:16 PM
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#21684 | | うに
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I really wanna go out and drink my problems away (even if its just temporally)
but i have work the next day
fuck my life
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07-07-2016, 03:37 PM
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#21685 | | Zombie Mod
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Originally Posted by PK-EK I really wanna go out and drink my problems away (even if its just temporally)
but i have work the next day | That's what sick days are for! 
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07-07-2016, 10:01 PM
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#21686 | | Need my Daily Fix of RS
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I need more friends with the same interest....
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07-08-2016, 12:31 AM
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#21687 | | WUB WUB WUB WUB WUB
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Holy shit. Can't believe what you told me earlier.
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07-08-2016, 04:46 PM
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#21688 | | Ask me about killing a hobo and dumping his body in the river
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Originally Posted by PK-EK I really wanna go out and drink my problems away (even if its just temporally)
but i have work the next day
fuck my life | I do that already... i have a hard time sleeping at night so i drink about 1 bottle of red or half a bottle of whiskey... before i can actually sleep...
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[18-02, 21:40] ICE BOY please come over and wrap me in your foreskin.
[18-10, 14:35] ZN6 Evo if you here: Say what your heart feels, cause those who matter don't mind, and those who mind shouldn't matter
[26-07, 14:46] ZN6 I gonna nibble on your scrotum
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07-09-2016, 08:36 AM
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#21689 | | うに
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Originally Posted by EvoLove I do that already... i have a hard time sleeping at night so i drink about 1 bottle of red or half a bottle of whiskey... before i can actually sleep... | I would be really careful about that. not only is it bad for your liver.
but I've read in a couple of forums from people who would drink every night to help them sleep. and then they cut themselves off all of a sudden and they started getting withdrawal symptoms like seizures. scary stuff. its a scary world out there. watch yourself
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07-09-2016, 08:53 AM
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#21690 | | うに
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Originally Posted by PK-EK I've been talking to her for 4 months now.
I made it very clear from the start that i was interested in her. she made it very clear that she wasn't looking for a relationship.
We stopped talking for a little while and one day she messages me again
(yes, I know she just wanted attention)
But she says that She can't just stop talking to me because I shared so many personal things with her. (at this point on, i knew i was kinda fucked)
so now it drives me crazy.
I have this obligation to talk to her everyday when i know I really shouldn't.
I need to move on from her. but with the way things are going, i don't have the heart to just stop talking to her. It would make her so sad that she would be loosing a friend.
I'd do anything to make her happy. she is very important to me.
how long do you think before I tear myself up inside?
Yes, I know. I'm a fucking idiot and i should of just walked away and moved on. | so on Tuesday night we had a talk.
she told me how its not fair for me to keep talking to her because i'm just practically waiting for her.
she also told me she would totally understand why i would need my space and that it would be okay that i didn't talk to her.
I thought that would be it. and I could start rebuilding my walls that i put down for her.
She went to Vegas yesterday. and I get a drunk message from her...
What the fuck. i thought we made things crystal clear. I need to not talk about you and not think about you if i need to move on.
so the stupid/crazy/child/fairtail me is telling myself
"hey! PK-EK
she still thinks about you, deep down inside she does like you. that is why she drunk messaged you. you still have a chance with her."
FUCK!
I need a fucking drink
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07-09-2016, 09:16 AM
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#21691 | | HELP ME PLS!!!
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She's trying to be nice to you dude. Move on.
You really want to spend your time brooding over this one girl, that's telling you to get lost?
What you need to do is change your scenery and take a vacation where there are hot scantily clad girls around so they're not perceived as some magical unicorn. Try Mexico, Brasil, Bali, Florida, Cali. For the most part the women here are ice cold gold diggers.
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07-09-2016, 02:11 PM
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#21692 | | Editor
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Originally Posted by DragonChi ...take a vacation where there are hot scantily clad girls around so they're not perceived as some magical unicorn. Try Mexico, Brasil, Bali, Florida,Cali. For the most part the women here are ice cold gold diggers. | I miss SoCal
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07-09-2016, 03:45 PM
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#21693 | | Ask me about killing a hobo and dumping his body in the river
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Originally Posted by PK-EK I would be really careful about that. not only is it bad for your liver.
but I've read in a couple of forums from people who would drink every night to help them sleep. and then they cut themselves off all of a sudden and they started getting withdrawal symptoms like seizures.
scary stuff. its a scary world out there. watch yourself |
I try to watch myself, i only drink if i really cant sleep, i normally get off work at 11pm, and if i cant sleep by 2/3 am ill have a few drinks, not mixed so basically i choose a nice bottle of Merlot or some whiskey 
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[18-02, 21:40] ICE BOY please come over and wrap me in your foreskin.
[18-10, 14:35] ZN6 Evo if you here: Say what your heart feels, cause those who matter don't mind, and those who mind shouldn't matter
[26-07, 14:46] ZN6 I gonna nibble on your scrotum
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07-10-2016, 01:51 PM
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#21694 | | I *Fwap* *Fwap* *Fwap* to RS
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Where's the loyalty at now a days? True colors have definitely shown
Don't call me best friend if you're just going to go against me
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07-11-2016, 08:55 PM
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#21695 | | MiX iT Up!
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RS needs a damn singles group.... dudes and chicks. PK-EK is taking the emo to a whole new level recently...
I'm sure we all have single chick friends who are like "sisters" to us.... Bring them? Singles meet up?
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Sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is, it's not our loss, but theirs, for they left the only person who couldn't give up on them.
Make the effort and take the risk..
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07-11-2016, 09:14 PM
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#21696 | | Editor
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Originally Posted by tiger_handheld RS needs a damn singles group.... dudes and chicks. PK-EK is taking the emo to a whole new level recently...
I'm sure we all have single chick friends who are like "sisters" to us.... Bring them? Singles meet up? | guaranteed sausage fest
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07-12-2016, 07:18 PM
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#21697 | | Throw yo paws in da air!
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sometimes i wish i could call some of you my best friends, but i want my best friend to be the person when they ask them whos THEIR best friend, that my name gets brought up.. I can count them in one hand, wait i dont see any fingers up 
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07-12-2016, 07:30 PM
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Horryy fut it's dark in here.
Dear diary,
I couldn't find my damn Squirtle today. #firstworldproblems
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07-12-2016, 09:30 PM
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#21699 | | うに
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Originally Posted by PK-EK so on Tuesday night we had a talk.
she told me how its not fair for me to keep talking to her because i'm just practically waiting for her.
she also told me she would totally understand why i would need my space and that it would be okay that i didn't talk to her.
I thought that would be it. and I could start rebuilding my walls that i put down for her.
She went to Vegas yesterday. and I get a drunk message from her...
What the fuck. i thought we made things crystal clear. I need to not talk about you and not think about you if i need to move on.
so the stupid/crazy/child/fairtail me is telling myself
"hey! PK-EK
she still thinks about you, deep down inside she does like you. that is why she drunk messaged you. you still have a chance with her."
FUCK!
I need a fucking drink | And tonight.... We are talking like we use too.
Saying our goodnights and sweet dreams.
But this time. I know. She doesn't love me like i love her.
And that's the only damn thing im holding onto. The only thing that will get me thru this.
If she did love me like i loved her. She would tell me that i dont need to go on a diet. And she would be more worried about my damn dog in her dealth bed. And how my manger is a cunt and i almost quit on the stop on friday.
That's it. Keep doing your thing. Keep showing me you dont love me. I dont need to hear. I need to see it. And feel it.
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07-13-2016, 04:13 PM
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#21700 | | Zombie Mod
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I'd recommend not contacting her, and respond to her texts the next day. Be aloof. Make her wonder why you aren't available. Be inaccessible, and drive her crazy. Contact her back in a week, and see if anything has changed.
I did this to my wife when I first met her. It drove her nuts, but I definitely had her attention when I called her after a week 
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