Fuck this low cal diet, these fucking injections and the rest of this shit, but otherwise what a nice afternoon!

Exams, exams and projects.. so tired of school

I don't want to sound rude, i'm just genuinely curious

How old were you when you did this? how long have you guys been together?

I met her in 2009, when I was 30. She was 20. So, we've been together for 7 years. Our 4th wedding anniversary is in 2 months.

Time flies.

Going after the little ones ehh :badpokerface:

Sometimes i wish that i could just switch jobs so i can be with you... that way we wont violate any company policy's, and it doesn't look like i am giving you special treatment even though i already have, just a little bit...

:badpokerface:

Your not the only one, lool i'm 23 going after a 17 :badpokerface:

The older you get the more you less interact with your friend's, seems like im so distant from them now, the things you like to do they don't like to do. I wish one day I can just bump into people with the same goal and ambitions. These days it feels like my co workers are closer friend's then actually friends.

you end up spending more time with coworkers because you're in the same building for 4-12 hours, days of the week.
most people have a busy life; work, family, significant others, bills to pay, whatever it may be.
good friends will make time for each other, may it be once a week or once a month. other times, people move away for job opportunities or what have you.
it's the natural progression of life and we can't live in the high school mentality anymore.

just grab a coffee or lunch with friends. doesn't have to be a big event to get together.

I agree, I moved away from Vancouver for work, and the way it is with my friends is, either I make plans to go back down, or they come up here when they have free time.

I hang out with my friends a couple times a week, usually anywhere from 4-10 of us hanging out, playing games, cooking food, or whatever. I usually watch hockey with my dad and brother a couple times a week during hockey season. Talk to my best friend (who moved away several years ago) every day.

Relationships take work and sacrifice. It doesn't matter if it's a significant other or a friend, if you don't put in the effort, it's going to fade away eventually.

Last week was the last time I had any interaction with more than two people outside of coworkers and family in over three months. Felt like I barely belonged even though I was with people I knew. People that I used to Whatsapp with seemed to have created new groups without inviting me back in, and that's what hits hard considering they probably fucking hate me.

I think I've reached the point where I can say I have no friends. I've disconnected from so many people that it's like I barely know them now. And to never have been personally invited to anything in nearly a year sets in the fact that no one cares that I exist.

^Wut? I thought you had fun scootering?

^ I enjoyed it, but I felt like I was looking from the outside a bit.

Seeing Pokemon Go everywhere... so sick and tired of this overhyped BS

Having thoughts of whether my choice a few months ago to give us a second chance was for the better, or if I'm simply prolonging the inevitable and wasting both of our time? I'm so completely lost, especially after all the things you've done for me these past few months, yet everything you've given me is seemingly material, perhaps I'm just not understanding your efforts to try and connect with me on a more emotional level, or maybe I'm not opening myself up enough to you? Perhaps we're simply not meant to be? Is it still the stupid language barrier? Vastly different family values and personal values as well?

Fuck, I'm such a mental wreck right now. I feel a heavy blanket of guilt that comes and goes. I thought moving out of the house away from family and closer to friends would help me clear my mind and open my mind, so far it's done nothing but give me more time to think of the "what ifs".

Both of you need to understand the concept of the 5 love Languages
Its a good book (just ignore the Jesus is great part)

http://www.fiercemarriage.com/files/...marriage_2.jpg

We all have a Primary Love Language, and that is the one we use and receive love the best in.
If your partner knows how to speak your unique love language then it makes you feel much more loved. and if you understand their love language then you will understand how much they love you.

My primary language is Acts of Service. So if someone was do say something like: "Hey, I know you've been really busy with work tonight, so I'll come over and bring you your favourite dinner and we can eat it at the office while you work" That would make me feel more loved then a million words of "I love you"

If your Primary is Quality time. It would be something as simple as giving your S/O one day in a week to go on a date. and spend time with each other one on one.

Figure out what both of your languages are and see how it works.
I've watched your relationship grow, and i would hate to see it die.

Cheers

here is the exam if anyone was to know what their Langauge is
https://www.iacac.org/wp-content/upl...-Languages.pdf

^ BTW
Leenda D on youtube fucking butchers the five love languages in her new video


If you were going to be stupid and go buy the book.
I recommend the "Singles edition" for couples. the Auther has a stupid mindset and think anyone who isn't married is still considered "Single"

The original book was written for married couples. i don't think that might be a good fit for you guys, but i have not read that edition before.

^it's a really good book and I've hinted to all my X gfs to read it.

What people have to realize is you need to get both of you to match one another. It's great to figure out which category you are, the hard part is how to do what your significant other needs.

For guys, it's not uncommon to be under physical touch and words of affirmation. There are people who are LOST as fuck to fulfill the other side.

Man why does everyone assume im a player or a fuckboy like cmon really

friendzoned. don't think i can get out of it. what a bad place to be in lol

Don't overthink anything... Don't overthink anything...... Don't overthink anything..... FUCK!

Maybe watching the sunrise tomorrow will help me think of something.