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JShifter 01-11-2017 05:38 PM

I hate being jealous, Feeling jealous is the worst feeling especially towards a girl. Jealousy kills , Sometimes I wish this feeling didn't even exist. It drives me nuts

fliptuner 01-11-2017 05:46 PM

^^^ Give less fucks

Euro7r 01-11-2017 05:59 PM

Taking it eazyyyyy, no point stressing over anything I cannot control.

ZN6 01-11-2017 06:23 PM

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Originally Posted by StylinRed (Post 8815920)
If I could I would lol



Omg ya kind of does I guess

I can't see going myself I'd probably just sit in the room the whole time and mope

My buddies are offering to all come with and making it a guys weekend, but fml I'm not up for that either, just wanna crawl into a hole

If you're gonna waste your ticket, waste it with buddies and get wasted. I get it, it hurts but the more you crawl into a hole and thibk about it, the more it hurts. At least when you're out with buddies, you don't think about it as much. Just preoccupy yourself and load up with...


Holy fuck this thing is 7 years old now???

PK-EK 01-12-2017 09:13 AM

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Originally Posted by StylinRed (Post 8815920)
.......
My buddies are offering to all come with and making it a guys weekend, but fml I'm not up for that either, just wanna crawl into a hole

You should really do it.
I usually find that if I push myself out of the "QQ Zone" even if i'm trying really hard and being uncomfortable, it eventually works.

You lie to yourself enough, you'll eventually start believing it.

You'll have a great time with your friends

StylinRed 01-12-2017 12:00 PM

I'm going to go, but I'm going to speak to her in person, got things I want to, and need to, say but I won't do that over the phone

I'm oddly feeling better today, not sure if it's cuz I'm distracting myself or what, or maybe it's because I have a goal to see her and talk... anyway, and no I'm not hoping to fix it or whatever, just going to unload a buncha shit off my mind

JSALES 01-12-2017 12:36 PM

Just started the semester and there's this cute girl in my class, is it too soon to ask her out lol

Fafine 01-12-2017 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by JSALES (Post 8816112)
Just started the semester and there's this cute girl in my class, is it too soon to ask her out lol

what u gotta lose

dapperfied 01-12-2017 01:02 PM

Too soon? Better do it before it becomes too late.

ZN6 01-12-2017 02:29 PM

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Originally Posted by StylinRed (Post 8816104)
I'm going to go, but I'm going to speak to her in person, got things I want to, and need to, say but I won't do that over the phone

I'm oddly feeling better today, not sure if it's cuz I'm distracting myself or what, or maybe it's because I have a goal to see her and talk... anyway, and no I'm not hoping to fix it or whatever, just going to unload a buncha shit off my mind

I say fuck it, you drag this shit out and it won't help you heal. There's a thing called the NCR. No Contact Rule. You spill your shit? What then? She's gonna dump your ass right then and there, AGAIN. then right back to QQ. Naw man, don't do it. It ain't worth your time bruh.

Fuck it dude, I've been down that path, better make it clear cut and move on. It's worse when they come back and they say sorry and they'll always be there for you like 4 years later and try to come back to your life. Bitches be complex.

If you want an example on how fucked up shit got, look a few pages back when Evo was still chasing LG. Don't let it happen to you. If shit is done, it's done. No sense venting to some chick who couldn't care less. Save your energy and do shit that helps you.

FYI Evo's LG friend hates me in particular because I pretty much called out everything that was going to happen in their little love escapade. She hates it because she knew I was on to her game.

Fafine 01-12-2017 02:34 PM

^ what he said just cut contact and bounce.

Stylinred, do you have a back bone? are you a man? save yourself some dignity.
She blindsided you and dumped your ass, she dont care about you. Just leave it at that.

Armind 01-12-2017 02:37 PM

Ghost.

Presto 01-12-2017 03:30 PM

I'm sorry StylinRed. That's some fucking shit. Have a good time in Hawaii. With your friends, or by yourself. Some solitude, and doing whatever you want can be good. When I needed to get away from a done relationship, I just got in my car and drove. I picked East, the first time, and made it all the way to an hour past Medicine Hat. Then, I got sick of the staring at the flat lands of the prairies, and I turned around and went home. It was a good time of collecting my thoughts.

Skittlez160 01-12-2017 04:31 PM

"The people we surround ourselves with either raise or lower our standards. They either help us to bcome the-best-version-of-ourselves or encourage us to become lesser versions or ourselves. We become like our friends. No man becomes great on his own. No woman becomes great on her own. The people around them help to make them great. We all need people in our lives who raise our standards, remind us of our essential purpose, and challenge us to become the-best-version-of-ourselves."

That being said....break up with your loser BF already! Hahahaha....

6793026 01-12-2017 05:50 PM

Classic girl issue: What's good on paper doesn't mean shit.

Girl hunted me down cause I fit the zodiac, age + horoscope profile she wanted.

1st few msgs on whatapps she got me doing all these personality tests; meh, let's give it a shot, pretty cool etc.

back and forth and 2 days later, she got me doing more and more personality tests. Bottom line, she wants to make sure I'm the right "fit". What she doesn't realize was jumping all the hoops = makes her secure and happy, but her selfish satisfaction meant I still know NOTHING about her.

No personality test can measure chemistry, lust, looks or passion. No wonder the girl has still been single all these years.

TL; DR: Stop chasing after the unicorn or finding "the perfect guy", all your time spent on finding meant time wasted not being in the game; by then, you're an expired good.

ZN6 01-12-2017 06:31 PM

^^^^ Waaaaaait a minute. That sounds familiar. Meyers brigg tests and shit? Has a cat? I remember someone like that years ago.

!Aznboi128 01-12-2017 06:37 PM

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PK-EK 01-13-2017 07:04 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Presto (Post 8816153)
I'm sorry StylinRed. That's some fucking shit. Have a good time in Hawaii. With your friends, or by yourself. Some solitude, and doing whatever you want can be good. When I needed to get away from a done relationship, I just got in my car and drove. I picked East, the first time, and made it all the way to an hour past Medicine Hat. Then, I got sick of the staring at the flat lands of the prairies, and I turned around and went home. It was a good time of collecting my thoughts.

Pretty much exactly what I do

My Vancouver to Calgary and back drive really really helps me.
So much to think about while driving. i love it
and when you're sick of thinking just focus on driving thru those twisty roads between Revolstoke and Banff. <3

StylinRed 01-13-2017 07:31 AM

Thnx guys omw to the airport now with the shuttle
Few friends invited themselves along looks like

You guys are right, normally I wouldn't even think about going to vent... bleh

I'll see

Thnx guys

PK-EK 01-13-2017 07:48 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by StylinRed (Post 8816322)
Thnx guys omw to the airport now with the shuttle
Few friends invited themselves along looks like

You guys are right, normally I wouldn't even think about going to vent... bleh

I'll see

Thnx guys

HAVE A WONDERFUL TIME!

ZN6 01-13-2017 08:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by StylinRed (Post 8816322)
Thnx guys omw to the airport now with the shuttle
Few friends invited themselves along looks like

You guys are right, normally I wouldn't even think about going to vent... bleh

I'll see

Thnx guys

I better get a souvenir for steering you in the right direction.

Armind 01-13-2017 08:41 AM

Get him a stuff teddy bear OpieOP

604778 01-13-2017 01:53 PM

Not how I wanted to start the New Year...

Akinari 01-13-2017 10:43 PM

Is it too much to ask if I want to find a unicorn who is into cars just as much as some of us on here? Don't even know where to look lol.

tofu1413 01-13-2017 10:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Akinari (Post 8816477)
Is it too much to ask if I want to find a unicorn who is into cars just as much as some of us on here? Don't even know where to look lol.

I managed to make one :awwyeah:




One that criticizes cars specifics more in depth than I do :pokerface:


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