Just thought I'd ask out of curiosity because with my ex girlfriend who was chinese would sometimes mention that her exes would put food on her plate and I'm a white washed filipino so I don't expect to be doing any of that shit lol

公主病

Princess sickness (alternatively known as princess syndrome, Chinese: 公主病; or princess disease, Korean: 공주병) is a neologistic term used colloquially in some parts of Asia, notably Hong Kong, mainland China, South Korea and Taiwan, to describe a condition of narcissism and egocentricism, or 'princess' behaviour.[1][2] Conversely but less commonly, males with a similar outlook may be described as having 'prince sickness'.[3]


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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Princess_sickness

i've dated my fair share of what i thought were coddled/high maintenance and even some traditional leaning girls and I've never come across anyone who expected me to literally put food in their plate

only scenario i could think of is during event dinners or lunch (ie, events, big family gathering) and it's a heavy plate and i'm already serving myself, then i'd ask her if she wanted some and if she did then i'd put some in her plate as well

I could totally see this scenario happening:

At a big family dinner, your girlfriend is the shy type and she doesn't know anyone at the dinner.
so you see her not eating too much (being very polite and shy about it) so you put some food on her plate and make your grandma across the table smile.

To be a devil's advocate, it's the dude who lets this happen. Seriously, how pathetic is it when the guy his howling like a little bitch while grovelling on his knees.

Kid is like a dog that did something bad and now the chick has to discipline him for being a cheating little bitch.

Only reason I would get down to my knees is to a) tie my shoes, b) propose or c) wind up for a 昇龍拳

More like (modern) #feminism

Weird. Lol I always put food on my bfs plates first before myself. Common courtesy

lol what? I only put food on my mothers or elders

GF can grab her own


and if we eat together, I just grab some fried chicken and she can grab it after me

Only elders put food on people's plate if they are well liked. You can deny too if you don't want. Wastefullness is a no no.

Alright. I need ya'lls opinion here.

My friend introduced me to his cousin in September. She had just moved to Canada from mainland china for school.
Hes brought her along a few times to our gatherings. So shes not a new face.

Yesterday i asked her if she would like to have dinner with me.
Her answer was no she can't go out for dinner.
During the weekdays she doesnt stay out late. And on the weekends she needs to babysit her little cousin
But. She invited me over to her place so she could watch the kids at the same time.
I accepted.
But now im confused the fuck out of myself.
Why would she invite me to their house.......?
What the fuck are we going to do......?
She's got the home advantage on this one.... Litterally

I suggested i bring food over (she agreed)
What else are we going to do.....
Do i bring like a good children's movie over to keep the little one occupied while i get to know the babysitter?
Man. What did i get myself into.....

Maybe she'a testing you to see how you handle kids. If she thought you were #creeper, she wouldn't invite you into the home. Bring something you can all do like card games or board games so it takes the edge on having to focus on her or her on you.

classic speak it out response is whip it out and stick it in her bum

pop on some netflix for the kids and then get to know her in the kitchen or her room LOL

Be careful of the friendzone...

I have faith in PK-EK.

Go in expecting nothing. But be prepared for the unexpected. That way you don't get disappointed and if something lucky happens then you're set.

You're there to help her out with the kids. Show her you're good with that shit and responsible. Put the kid to sleep early and watch a movie alone with her or whatever cool idea you got. Don't push too far, but you need to make your intentions known. Walk the fine line.

Good luck man. "In the end, we only regret the chances we didn't take."

Or bring kid friendly games and help babysit. Like zn6 said, could be a test too, to see if you would be a suitable father figure.

Can't believe noone's said this... Don't go.

Its too early to meet any family - its friend zone territory. You need to be the one setting the stage/mood.

but then we wont get any more stories from PK :pokerface:

In before she uses PK-EK to babysit while she goes out with another guy. :pokerface:

Wher the fuck is this man's Thank Button???

He hasn't had one for a while now. I just fail him all the time and let him figure out which were actual fails.

bring over a scary movie and who cares if its too scary for the kids,with junk food and such...maybe even a pizza with drinks if you're baller. :devil:
i don't know who recommended a game board but bring a new gaming console first hehe.

Fuck it, go all in. Buy food and cook for her. 0-100 real quick :lawl:

Time to update resume and look for new job. Not going to continue working for a manager that doesn't appreciate my work/skills and keeping useless staff that cannot do their jobs.

I don't know how the fuck someone can pay a vendor twice with invoices dated only a few days apart. You must be a fucking retard to not realize they are for the same services they are charging us. Clearly attention to detail is not your forte, just quit the job and find something that better suites you bro. 46 years old doing accounts payable, go fuck yourself for giving me extra work to deal with. I apologize for sounding some cruel, reality is, business is business.

Good place to make it official for Valentine's Day? The plan is to go stargazing at Porteau Cove however the weather is pretty unpredictable right now, may be snowing, may be raining, may be cloud, may be clear, no clue.

The backup plan, if it's raining or cloudy would of course be to do it indoors somewhere or in a covered area. Anyone know a good romantic somewhat private area to go if it's raining?