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PK-EK 02-10-2017 12:23 PM

I'll let you guys wait a couple more days.

maybe i'll spill it tomorrow or Tuesday

Armind 02-10-2017 12:25 PM

:speechless:

Kamui712 02-10-2017 01:33 PM

lame... u asked the board for help and now you're going to hold out?

you sir, are now in the permanent friend zone.:lawl:

Armind 02-10-2017 01:34 PM

Probably Evo's brother.

PK-EK 02-10-2017 01:50 PM

I'll say this.

I feel like she put on more makeup than the last couple times i saw her... but that could just be me over thinking. but she was dressed in her "stay home clothing"

Conversation wise, If you ask the average person. she didn't talk much (but i still feel like its more of an improvement than when i tried talking to her when we hung out as a group)

She messaged me after i left thanking me for bringing food over and complementing the icecream that i brought over (best she's tasted since she moved to Canada)

On the fence about asking for a second date.
I feel like even if she had interest in me, it would be the slightest, and with the pace of advancement she has shown me; I would get very frustrated......

Armind 02-10-2017 02:14 PM

Wear a go pro next time :lawl:

SpeedStars 02-10-2017 02:28 PM

PK, :yuno: why you always get girl-friends but not girlfiends

PK-EK 02-10-2017 02:48 PM

I actually had a moment of realisation yesterday

I don't want to be tied down, i'm too selfish for that.
Someones gotta be pretty special in order for me to change my lifestyle for them

PK-EK 02-10-2017 02:58 PM


tofu1413 02-10-2017 03:56 PM

Don't over think it. Be bold, make a move. Consequences can be dealt with later.

Inaii 02-10-2017 04:06 PM

Wait when was the first date? Did I miss something?

ZN6 02-10-2017 09:29 PM

^^^ he got into her house with concent; had no netflix, no chill. Just a DVD and a DVD player

/Coles

Inaii 02-10-2017 09:42 PM

I wouldn't call that a date....

ZN6 02-11-2017 06:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PK-EK (Post 8822464)
I actually had a moment of realisation yesterday

I don't want to be tied down, i'm too selfish for that.
Someones gotta be pretty special in order for me to change my lifestyle for them

Don't try to justify it by thinking you'll never yield. If one comes along that you truly fancy, I guarantee you will bend over backwards. All the dudes who I know who are still hand-some were too headstrong and not willing to compromise and will be hand-some until it's too late.

It makes them less and less desirable the longer they are single. Think about it, skills, like everything else, you either use it or you lose it. If you don't hone your relationship skills while you are still maleable under 40, the skill becomes non-existant.

I used to justify why I was single every time I failed with a girl and didn't get back up on that horse, but you find out that no matter how hard you try to put it off, the draw is companionship. I'll be honest, it sounded like you didn't make it seem like you were looking forward to it.

Replace all that shit with "Let's do ______" with something that she's interested in.

ZN6 02-11-2017 06:50 AM

Inb4 Armind: fuck?

Kamui712 02-11-2017 09:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PK-EK (Post 8822464)
I actually had a moment of realisation yesterday

I don't want to be tied down, i'm too selfish for that.
Someones gotta be pretty special in order for me to change my lifestyle for them

Quote:

Originally Posted by ZN6 (Post 8822559)
Don't try to justify it by thinking you'll never yield.

^ agreed, you're trying to justify your way out of what you felt was a failure. It wasn't a failure at all, you did show you not selfish and are willing to put in the work. Look how much work you put into one night, just keep trying - hone your skills in reading people. Then you know when its worth your time to pursue or not.

jpoon 02-11-2017 05:48 PM

beep <3

PK-EK 02-12-2017 11:24 AM

Flowers and chocolate ordered.

Watch me crash and burn guys. It wouldn't be the first time.

Mr.Money 02-12-2017 01:10 PM

better be that baller as fuck purdys not this pot of gold watered down shit :cool:

ZN6 02-12-2017 03:21 PM

Better have went one step up with godiva

MG1 02-12-2017 07:15 PM

Pot of Gold, lol.

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PK-EK 02-12-2017 09:35 PM

Its fine. She's not richmond exspensive.

I bough her nestea brownie drunk sticks and she said it was the best she's ever had in canada
#setthebarlow

Inaii 02-12-2017 09:38 PM

wtf are nestea brownie drunk sticks? I'm afraid to google it...

ZN6 02-13-2017 07:54 AM

When it sounds so proposterous that I had to google "nestea brownie drunk sticks"

Not sure if engrish or just drunk. Non-existant product from google or my googling skills are substandard

6793026 02-13-2017 08:46 AM

Girl 1
I'm actually happy. Girl I met last week didn't work out. Cause I couldn't have spend more than with her; dating someone 7 years younger didn't help. She had a good head on her shoulders, but I kept on thinking of how many time she used the word "like" in a sentence and it was staggering.

Girl 2
Online chick. We are are in a world of 2016, people's attention's span are down to minutes if not seconds, tried to just reach out to her for a "friendly" coffee and offered to whatsapp. She was not comfortable which I can fully respect. I just dont want to be messaging someone 10 times a day (literally) and do it for over 2 weeks and then have it be ruined cause 1st date doesn't work out.


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