make a move already dude! I feel like I'm reading a twilight novel :alonehappy:

http://scontent.cdninstagram.com/t51...MzI4NDMxMzgz.2

crescent heights and noise hill part (remember, i'm in Hicktown Alberta)

There's another saying that goes along the lines of "With friends like that, who needs enemies?"

Cut your losses, if they were your friends, they wouldn't pull that kind of shit that they know will truly hurt you deep down.

:facepalm:

Do you really list out negatives as a reason to date someone? Like when I date someone I always talk about the good things about her first. Maybe if you change your perception of the people you date, it would change your outlook on what people think about you when they date you. Don't kid yourself, if you are hanging out with somebody, hang out because you want to, not because you're lonely.

Seriously, you have to stop coming up with fucking safety nets on justifying the situation when things don't work out.

You know how I see this if you don't start a relationship? "Oh, she was boring anyways; I just can't stand it now where I was able to before"

Stop, just stop it. Stop wasting her time; stop wasting your own time.

^good
I needed someone to tell me that

^ Let's compare and contrast the way you describe your day out with her and the way I described my day:



Do you see that I'm happy to spend the time rather than just killing time aimlessly to be with someone? It's like, FUUUUUCK, your story bore me to shit just reading it. If you found something she liked to do maybe you'll find that she's not that boring.

You see, even if I did fail, I would have looked back and that was time worth spending with her. I wouldn't find an excuse to say why she wasn't the one. It's your whole mindset that fucks you up, not the situation. I gotta say, if almost no girl accepts you, doesn't that kinda signal a common denominator?

But what ZN6 really meant was... "fuck this camera".

Calgary is cold as fuck. It's no fun.

Srs. fuck dat camera. The spring that you have to put in was bull-fucking-shit.

I don't blame you man.

1st of all, thank you for posting your good & bad stuff, stories makes it fun to read. So yeah, we all have ups and downs on date, but if it wasn't for these boring ones this forum would be bad shit boring.

I've been on boat loads of boring dates, sometimes just have to embrace it. I dated a chick 5 yrs younger; great on phone, but boring as fuck in person.

when i dropped her off, she knew it was the end; she even said "i know you're not going to call me again, but i hope to see u on the road (we share same road hobbies)"
*i'm like dang bitch, just close the door, i wanna go home. :awwyeah:

he can still make a move lol, make it worth our time!

So I talk to this girl in my class but don't talk to her outside of school and I give her rides home after class.
I took her out for coffee earlier today and it seemed like it went well. Might ask if she wants to go out again some time.

Am I in the friend zone though? Lmao

Won't know until you try. At least you got in some coffee and hopefully it wasn't all school talk. :thumbsup:

Give it a shot, never hurts to try. Worst case scenario she'll say no, or something along the lines of she's not ready yet and just go with the flow :thumbs:

Things are going great right now. Midterms are coming but I have those dialed in, in a good place with the gf, businesses are going well, feel like all of the work and all of the organizational systems I have put into place the last year or so are finally paying off. Pretty damn happy I stopped being a stoner and kicked my depression to the curb.

For all those struggling and feeling like you're in a low place, keep grinding. You'll make it through. :)

Edit: Just realized I've been on RS for 5 years since last month. Holy shit.

Start talking to her outside of class then. Ask her what she likes to do, that's always a start. What do YOU like to do? Just converse like you would to a friend.

Here's the thing about walking a tightrope: You think professionals do it thinking about the ways it will fall? No, otherwise they'd be preoccupied and then they'd fuck up. Sometimes you just have to tune out and focus on what you're best at and flock.

This whole friendzone concept to me is fucking retarded. If I want to talk to someone, I just talk to them. If they don't then I won't talk to them. That's one thing I learned from a wise old Jewish dude I used to work with. He's just talkative as a sales guy. Whoever wants to listen he'll talk to and people love him, but I will say he's as good of a listener as he is a talker. With age comes the power to not give too much shits. Just be mindful of the other party's feelings.

The more you worry about it, the more that it's a self-fulfilling prophecy. Honestly, break out of worrying about it. Be cool and casual. I stopped worry about the "friendzone" so long ago that I just simply don't care about it anymore. It just takes the edge off being with the opposite sex.

I have started talking to her outside of class a bit more, we actually went out for dinner after class today and surprisingly she offered to pay but I obviously declined. I guess I'll just go with the flow and see how it plays out lol

If you get friendzoned, ZN6 will eat you alive.

I just wanna help people avoid the "friendzone" and wasting time. I still think the whole friendzone thing is completely dumb. Don't wanna be in it? Walk away. Wanna continue the awkwardness? Fine, by all means.

What businesses did u come up with in the last 5 years?

Met girl on app
talked to girl for a month
haven't had chance to meet due to conflicting schedules
she stopped talking to me

fuck me

^ I hate to say this, but that's your own fault

I know and I feel like shit for it.

good, i'm glad you realised you were wrong.
now stop wasting time and move on

Got some tough love going on in here. Wtf did I start?